I have enjoyed cheating?

Let me start off by saying never in a million years did i think i would be in this position.
I have always been faithful in my 7 year relationship but recently i met a guy who just has me as a friends with benefits and the problem is, i like it. I still have my boyfriend but i also find myself so alone and having sex with this other guy who treats me like garbage but i love having sex with them both.

I am trash
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Superb Opinion

  • girly it’s just the adrenaline and lust talking for you. it might feel good right now but are you really going to mess up something good for something that’s temporary? You need to tell the poor dude what you’ve been doing and if he breaks up with you, well, it was a sign that you only live once and you’ve been given the chance to start a different path in life. if he still takes you back then this is a sign that he loves you and you need to love him back harder because he’s taken you back even after you betrayed him.

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  • yea that’s pretty bad 💀 just break up with ur man he doesn’t deserve someone dishonest like you. Be alone with urself for a while and really think about what you want i guess 🤷🏽‍♀️

Most Helpful Guys

  • I think you are. Because is not right to be in a relationship if you can't prove you are fatefull.
    If you had been togeder whit your boyfriend for 7 yares and now you cheat on him is even more terible. How will you think he will react if he finde out. I don't think he will enjoy or be very happy.
    About the question "I have enjoyed cheating?", you tell us, did you enjoy, you feel happy, do you want to keep seen that guy will you still have a boyfriend?

  • You’re morally trash, yes. Your loyal boyfriend will most likely have issues for a decade to come and spiral into a deep depression. He’ll possess very low self worth for years to come. It will hinder his ability to ever feel love or sustain a healthy relationship again. But you’ll get your thrill.

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  • At some point you are going to have to come to grips with this and resolve it or the guilt and pain will swallow you up. Better to do it now than later.

  • Interesting how you're here for the insults and the abuse. Sure, you're "trash" if that's how you'd like to feel. :)

  • Terrible. Just terrible. U should hold urself to a higher standard than that. Its not right for either of the men you are with

  • Nope just a girl trying to figure it out and having some fun a long the way. not like your married, i mean your honest person but things have changed in your life and it must be something you need for you otherwise you wouldn't do it. Bet its good too when your with friend and its hard to stop as it makes you feel good and you probably haven't had that in awhile. I can relate.

  • you sure are

  • Are you white? This is normal for you

  • I fee sorry for your boyfriend, but its not healthy for you to be doing this, so why continue? You should be single, then you can be free to fuck anyone and feel like trash.

  • Your boyfriend is trash or the other guy?

  • You're very wrong in what you doing. Cheating is a normal human condition as humans simply aren't loyal by nature, but you're doing is vile.

  • It's not for you to decide. Be honest and let your man decide weather you're trash or not. He may even like you better for it.

  • which country and your ethnicity?

  • No your not.. I totally understand..

  • you are a type A whore

  • I love cheating it adds such a thrill to sex. Its definitely a fetish

  • Does the guy shoot his cum in your bare pussy? Ever fucked him and then immediately after fucked your boyfriend?

  • You are a selfish person who's inconsiderate of your boyfriend's feelings.
    You don't care about hurting others because you're weak to your sexual urges. This is exactly why good men are avoiding relationships these days and feel that women are bullshit.

  • Don't talk like that about your self, I know this is cheating but cheating counts when you want to have a relationship with someone else and not just having sex
    I know your feelings and I suggest have some time with your boyfriend go on a picnic with him to the best place you know, relax and let go of your mind
    then decide what is best for you I know you can choose the best option

  • Wow! That's a real trashy thing to do.