I have no idea how to rub a pussy please advise?

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I know all girls are different but generally when I watch girls masturbate on porn they do the same shit but It is hard to see what they are doing like pressures dos and donts and so on. Girls hate me so I can't practice on them. I want to be a good boyfriend and have some knowledge when I meet some one special

Bubbleicious · Accepted Answer

First of all you need to think about the steps leading up to this, if you start kissing and then go straight for her pussy then she isn't going to like it. Think about little kisses down her neck and stroking her thighs in the build up. When you do put your hand down there be gentle because for a lot of women the clit can be very sensitive, tease her clit with your finger by making circler movements or try flicking it back and forth in regular movements and see how she responds. Does she smile, groan with pleasure or does she pull back. Spend at least a good few minutes teasing her clit before inserting your fingers inside of her, try one finger first and then maybe two or three fingers and pull your fingers in and out of her to mimic sex.

Elliegirl · Accepted Answer

You can’t go by what porn girls do. I’m willing to bet the girls aren’t actually getting off most of the time since, for the most part, it’s more about the visual for the viewer than the pleasure of the performer.

My best advice is try different things, pay attention to how she responds, start slow by gently rubbing her clit and add speed and pressure until you find how she likes it best, and by all means, do not, under any circumstances, start off by just jamming your fingers into her and jackhammering your fingers in her pussy. If she’s not wet and ready for insertion, it’s gonna hurt. Some girls would rather have external stimulation anyway. Hope this helps.

jahaims · Accepted Answer

The more turned on she is before you do anything the more sensitive she will be. All you have to do for the basics is rub her clit and penetrate her with a finger or two depending on her preference. Make sure she is wet or using lube/spit or it will be uncomfortable. While messing around ask if she likes it or what she wants done to her.

MTC29 · Accepted Answer

Never automatically put a finger inside of a woman. Concentrate on the outside. Most women will tell you when (if) they are ready for a finger inside.