What you are referring is commonly known as self pleasure or masturbation. It is normal, natural and safe for almost all social or other matters. Girls / women usually use their fingers, or sometimes a sex toy – you are using a dildo or vibrator, to touch their vulva and in and around their vagina and clitoris – the super-sensitive organ that is centred just above the opening of the vagina, but extends deeper within the body. Girls might also like to touch their breasts and nipples. Every girl is different and only she can work out what feels best for her. When a girl becomes aroused, vaginal fluid can increase and her vagina gets wet and slippery. The lips of her vulva - the labia can start to feel more sensitive and they get a little bit bigger and may darken in colour. When a girl masturbates, she may reach maximum arousal and have an orgasm. An orgasm is a reflex which is usually accompanied by pleasurable feelings. For girls this can range from quite gentle contractions of the vagina, to extremely intense whole body contractions. These might cause a girl to make a lot of noise and may also alter her breathing. Very few girls might experience a small ejaculation of a clear or creamy fluid during orgasm. Girls of any age have the ability to have multiple orgasms, one after the other. So, if a girl experiences orgasm during masturbation, it is possible to experience another one soon after if she continues to masturbate. Most girls find their clitoris is too sensitive after orgasm. All this is totally normal and will subside after a few moments. Most girls will usually know when they have had an orgasm, but it is important for girls to be patient, relax, and figure out what turns them on. You will observe following thing happening to you while self pleasure. Before arousal: The vulva and vagina is in natural state. Arousal: Blood vessels dilate. Increased blood flow to the vaginal walls, and vaginal fluid is increased. The vulva becomes engorged (swollen); including the clitoris, vaginal opening and inner and outer labia. The vagina expands and lengthens inside the body. Plateau: Blood flow continues to the vagina and the vagina walls and vulva darkens in colour. Clitoris retracts into the clitoral hood due to increased sensitivity. Orgasm: Physical stimulation of the clitoris and vagina can lead to orgasm – series of contractions of the vaginal muscles. Girls don’t experience the refractory (resting) period that guys do after an orgasm. A girl may have another orgasm if stimulated again. Resolution: Blood flows away from the vagina and vulva and swelling reduces. Vulva returns to natural colour. Muscles relax and vagina retracts to normal position. Enjoy it - it is your pleasure.
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No, I do the same, but I don't have a lot of different partners. I have several "friends-with-benefits" who are boys close to my age and younger. All of my girl friends are bi, and we get together a lot. I am not looking for a relationship at the moment, so this works out well for me.
0 7 1 2Thanks for the tip, this is very useful for me. I am also bi but i have never had sex with a girl
How did you get all these friends with benefits I'm looking for one
Can we be fuckbuddy?
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Not really, but depends on your life goals. The more partners you have the smaller the pool of men you'll have if you ever want to settle down and have a family.
If that isn't something you ever want, then go for it. I'm talking about a study that showed something they called the "potential partner pool" and how the magic number was 2 partners, if your a virgin your pool was smaller than if you had 1 or 2... but the more it went up the worst it got. Those with a 100+ partners were 75 to 80% smaller pool of "Potential partners" and it wasn't really anything to do with STD's or the actual number, it kind of was but more that people of both sexes tended to think someone with a lot of partners is way more likely to cheat and hook up with someone in their little black book, after a fight or if they just want some.0 0 0 0I'd make sure to set hard limits and do a little vetting on the guys if some of them are coming in cold. Like I have no idea if you're a masochist or not. It doesn't change that I'm a sadist, and if you invited me over for fun and games, I ask about your limits or a safe word and don't get any input, my assumption is anything and everything is on the table. It's what I would want to go down, and what you allow, though you may find yourself not enjoying it, or sore for a few days if you don't set those limits.
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15 69Everyone has a different sex drive I also have a very high sex drive as well. I would feel shame about it obviously knowing this is making sure you find a partner who can satisfy those needs. I’m very picky my boyfriend is hot great body makes decent money and high sex drive keeping up with me.
2 0 0 0As long as you're safe, by all examples, then you have fun.
2 3 0 0Yeah thanks
I've heard you can't wear it out and I think it is true! lol
1 0 0 0Not a problem, you are happy n having fun.
why is a relationship required to have fun?
good on you and keep having fun.1 0 0 0Ok if u enjoy it why now, it’s actually a problem, cause u enjoy it so much n u want pleasure, so i wdl say its normal as long you’re not forcing the guy to have sex with i, and also to the dudes here dont judge her like wth its her life n let he be
0 0 0 0To be honest I think it's hot if you ever start looking for a roll play player start a phone sex player get a hold of me can I do the same thing you do
0 0 0 0You are normal. I hope you are using condoms every time! Enjoy the great orgasms...
0 0 0 0The same or multiple partners?
0 0 0 0Doesn't matter she is grew
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No keep having fun
0 2 0 0Stay positive and test negative! Use protection and get tested regularly if you are sleeping with different people. Embrace your sexuality and don't worry what others think of you!
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Dpends on with whom you're having sex with. If you're rotating with multiple dudes, then this will probably bite you in the ass in the future as research has pointed out.
0 0 0 0No better fun for an adult than a good, steamy fuck.
That's true for both genders so go for it. You're not even in a relationship so who cares?
Just be wary of your own health and of whom you're going to ride that day.0 0 0 0You should do what this woman does.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/di3vhELi6P00 0 0 0It’s your choice. No one else gets a vote.
0 0 0 0you sound like my kinda girl and i love the way you are so open about what you like
0 0 0 0With a different guy every day?
0 0 0 0You can over do it?
In all seriousness though, as long as you're safe and enjoy it, there's nothing wrong with what you're doing. I'd do it too if I could0 0 0 0Casual sex... one night stands...
or masturbation.
What are you talikng about?0 0 0 0Nope
1 4 0 0As long as you and your partner (s) use protection it's fine.
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