I have trouble riding my boyfriend, I just can't seem to get the position right. Any advice for me please?

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My legs get sore or it doesn't suit him because I'm too far back. Any advice?

itsJay · Accepted Answer

To put it simply: you'll have a lot more control if you're on your feet. Don't 100% rely on being on your knees. And if you want to be on your knees, at least be on your toes as well.

Put your hands on his lower abdomen, chest, or legs, to keep your balance. Once you get comfortable moving around on your feet, you can start getting more creative with the position and try different things.

Practice on your bed using a pillow. Grinding and bouncing in different angles, all while on your feet. Once you get the hang of it, things will definitely get more exciting for the both of you.

When it comes to being "good in bed", riding skills are usually a big factor when guys think about their experience with their girl vs past experiences. I've been with someone that cramps out and gives up after 30-60 seconds, and I've been with someone that works up a sweat riding for multiple orgasms. Guess which experience was more memorable? 🤭

You can definitely improve with some practice! And it's a good idea to communicate with your boyfriend that you want to practice and get better at it with him. Good luck and have fun 💜

Dargil · Accepted Answer

You do not have to post (lift and drop). It is inaccurate and tiring.
When you begin, ride his flaccid/hardening/hard penis laying forward pointing at your navel, gliding between your lips. That will get him hard and within rich of orgasm. It will be good for you too. Then insert him and continue your hip motions. This should help.

ushagomez · Accepted Answer

When starting out I was also worried about getting it right for my guy. My mum gave me some great advice and that was to have a mirror alongside whilst we were enjoying because then you can see a best angle for your hips and how to move to make it most comfortable for both of you. I guess like everything it is about practice and as soon as you can do it without it making your back ache it is going to be something you just love to practice, practice and practice and sone more ……

SassyAussieAddy · Accepted Answer

If neither of you enjoy that position dont do it. Lots of positions out there to try out.

Vanidal · Answer

I'm of smaller size. My girlfriend had hard times bouncing on me since it's mostly slipped out of her. Better to grind if he's too small to bounce on.

JessJJ · Answer

Lean forward so some weight is on your hands. Swing your hips backward and forward. It's easier than bouncing. Video yourself so you can see you're position and angles or use a mirror.

Caliguy88 · Answer

I don't know. The most I have been ridden was by a girl that would like kick her legs back and like grind. Seemed like not too much work. Even though she was like 100 lbs and tinny, she still kinda put a lot of weight on me. Maybe not totally riding.. but she’d ride too with just bouncing and do the grinding thing.