I haven’t had sex in over a year and masturbating isn’t doing it for me. What should I do?

I’m not good at meeting new people and I’m not the kind of girl to sleep with random people. The only person I have slept with was someone I knew for months.

I’m so embarrassed talking about this because usually girls can just go sleep with whoever they want. I can’t do that. I can’t bring myself to do that. What should I do?
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  • Try a vribator? 1 of those new pink 1's? Put it in and just chill while it's on! It might tak awhile but soon u will feel it n boom u will have an awesome orgasm truch me try it. Put it n n leav it n see what happends

  • Try new things while masturbating.
    Try sex toys.

  • Im in a similar position at the moment.
    Have you looked into Tantra?
    This can help you feel more positive towards yourself as well as introducing yourself to a world of new incredible feelings.

  • find a friend to fuck you, just the way you like it

  • Find something to get you out the house. Exercize and if you masterbate make you fantasies dirtier. That normally helps

  • gigolo.. or you can call me to service you and then go

  • Try to talk with more guys for a month or two or more see if you feel any attraction of mind and comfortable.

  • Masturbating can be good if you know how to do it

  • Call me

  • if I undersatnd this you are saying you want sex but you need time to get to know someone before you do that.

    then you need to go out and meet people and get to know them...

    • I struggle with dating. Guys don’t ever want to get to know me. They just talk about sex.

    • find other guys, not all are like that. I hope... I know of some that were not, there's one out here your age that just wants to snuggle, be romantic, no sex. is that you? Maybe a match:) oh wait, you want sex...

    • I can’t have sex without building a connection with someone first.

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