I haven't seen this asked before? Has anyone hooked up with a person you thought was of the same sex or opposite sex and find out they were trans?

[LunarEclipse433]

When did you find out? During heavy making out, when you undressed them? How did you handle it? I see pictures of people that could fool me especially after a few drinks in a dimly lit bar. I am curious as hell. Real life honest stories please. Or a female that makes a new girl friend only to find out they were actually born male and may still have a dick?

[Anonymous]

Well with trans girls... really easy to know cause off from the internet they always look... OFF from normal in a variety of ways.

But twice at patties and once at a knitting group. I got together with a trans m bi who is a women who feels she should be a man.

The parties really did not know till bingo nothing in bed but I love being bi more then dick so we had an amazing time!

The last one it took a few months being nice flirty before kissing and sneaking off before I learned the only guy in the group was of course another girl!

We dated and got really wild and I loved how kinky she was talking about different things in bed changing too!

[LunarEclipse433]

You have to be careful what you say here. Some Anon get their panties in a twist. But back to the subject, you thought you were going to bed with a guy but found out it was a female. And you found out in bed probably when the clothes came off. I don’t judge. Folks can go anyway they want. I know what I want. Interesting story

[Opinion Owner]

Well I'll say what I want anons... get Thier panties in a twist are mostly boys pretending to be girls so... What do you want? Just before bed or be told?

[LunarEclipse433]

Be told at the start. If “she” is wanting 15” we can stop that game real quick. I just feel communication is key

[Opinion Owner]

Wanting 15? So you don't want a trans date? What about a buddy being a girl? Would you go for her no surgery?

[LunarEclipse433]

No. I just can’t ever seeing that excite me. If I had a female to play with I could probably watch it.

[Opinion Owner]

Watch a trans be with someone while your with a girl? Now that would piss the anons off lol

[Pete671]

I've hooked up with girls I thought might be trans, hoping they were, then I act surprised when their dick is presented, they find it really flattering, and you are gaurenteed an amazing blow job lol,,,

[LunarEclipse433]

Wow. Interesting

[Billlewis]

No, thank goodness, but two or three guys here locally were fooled by trannies, and when they found out, they got unhinged. One guy went back to the building where the person was and shot them dead.

[Anonymous]

This hasn't happened to me, but I have zero issue with anyone who reacts violently. I hope they beat their rapist to death. That's what I would do.

[LunarEclipse433]

No body said they were a rapist. They could appear VERY ATTRACTIVE in what they appear to be, but once clothes come off you find out differently. I consider myself very open minded but if I thought I was with a female and reached down and found a dick, I am going to be a bit concerned.

[Opinion Owner]

"Has anyone hooked up with a person you thought the opposite" what just described is rape. It's rape by deception. This person did not consent to the act of having sex with a member of the opposite sex.

[LunarEclipse433]

So you feel they should tell you immediately or wear a sign around their neck? I do feel that if they are possibly misleading a person it should be brought up in conversation before any messing around starts. But you have to allow that maybe this person knows exactly what they are trying to be and that is what they are looking for.

[Opinion Owner]

They should absolutely tell the other person they are trans before they kiss/have sex. I'm not going to argue with you about it. You're just a rape apologist if you think otherwise. But it's whatever, encourage trans people to rape, and I'll laugh when they get the the shit beat out of them or they end up being killed.

[Opinion Owner]

"You have to allow that maybe this person knows exactly what they are trying to be and looking for" I don't know what the fuck you're talking about here buddy. I answered your question. If some dude ever manipulated me into gay sex (raped me), I would beat him to death.

[LunarEclipse433]

I am not saying they should communicate with their new person. I am very wary of meeting females in bars now days. But you are a tad bit violent aren't you.

[Opinion Owner]

The appropriate response to being raped is violence, yes.

[Opinion Owner]

The same why I'm not going to be mad at a woman for killing her rapist. You don't get to cherry pick what type of rape is or isn't acceptable. You're either pro rape or you're against it.

[Opinion Owner]

*The same way

[LunarEclipse433]

Chill. You went way off base. No one is going to or try and rape you. I said I would be upset to find out I thought I was talking to a female and it ended up being a male. It would never get far enough for anyone to "rape" me. I am totally against rapist for any age group.

[Opinion Owner]

Then word your questions better. "Hooked" up usually means more than just talking.

[Opinion Owner]

I wouldn't need to "chill" if you didn't suck dick at asking questions. What you're saying now is completely different. Either you're just stupid or you know you were wrong and now you're backpedaling.

[Anonymous]

It has been asked 100s of times

[LunarEclipse433]

Well I went back and looked and didn't see it