I humbly ask, When Does Size Matter?

Hope I do not piss anyone off asking this.. but I just am a bit hurt.. weeks ago my now ex broke up with me over my size being “too much” (I will spare the details) when does size begin to matter? I know it’s “not how big it is but how you use it” but apparently being too big is a thing? Any advice from an actual female would be great and again sorry for the graphic question.. thanks.
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  • There are for some people where size will matter. But for many/most, it doesn't, one can have a preference, but in the end I think most girls cares more for the guy than their size. If one have too big of a package, it can be very hurtful for some girls, and so penetration isn't nice. There are ways to ease that pain, which involves more foreplay and more preparations etc. Just like guys, girls have different 'sizes', some are tighter and smaller (more common on petite girls). Overall it's not something I think you have to lose sleep over, but it's also important to be sure to be careful with your partner if you have a big package. Go slow, prepare them, give lots of foreplay and use lube! Both parties should feel good during sex

    • Thanks for that long honest answer :)

    • No problem. Just outta curiosity, are you saying that you have a trouser python between your legs?

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  • Every girl is different. Some like them bigger and some like them smaller. It's also about how it fits inside her.
    But yes, there is a thing as being too big.
    If it starts to hurt, even if the woman is turned on, wet and ready, then the man would be too big.
    If it's not able to enjoy the sex.

    • Thanks for the honesty :)

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  • Yes a penis can be too big. It can make sex feel uncomfortable and some positions even painful (because the penis will hit the cervix and that hurts).

  • Nope not at all, ... unless it's a medically diagnosed micro-penis... (under 1") ... in that case, it's like 'why bother?'

    • Thanks for that honest answer :)

  • There is only too small, but there is no too big. So don't worry! :*

    • Thanks for that honesty :)

    • No prob. How tall are you?

    • DM me? I’ll follow you

  • I have dated guys that were "too big" and sex including anal was painful.

    • Thanks for that honesty :)

    • I went on a date a few days ago and we ended up in bed together (I don't usually sleep with guys on the first date). I ended up giving a bj and he was 9" and I barely managed to take him all in my mouth and down my throat

    • Are you able to DM me?

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  • Yes it definitely hurts. Big dicks may look visually attractive but when it comes to sex average sized ones are more preferable.

    • Thank you for that honesty :)

    • No problem, I think that's why it's said that it doesn't matter how big it is but depends on how it's being used. I think guys with bigger ones should adjust their movements and the depth accordingly, same thing can be said for average sized guys

    • Do you mind dming me?

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  • i love big dicks she's missing out

    • Thanks for that honesty!

  • Being too big can be a major problem. Average is best.

  • You need to find one of the size queens. But yes being too big is a thing. Also being too small can happen if you're less than 1.5".