Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I just had sex with a guy but I’m still in a relationship. should I just keep it to myself?
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It was just so tempting and I regret it. Can I just keep it to myself and never tell him? I don’t want to hurt him. What should I do now?
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12 19Do what you makes you happy
If you like other guy, leave relationship with the present guy
Lol my type of girl unless I’m your man n you did this to me. Would you want him to be honest w you if he did this to you? Besides if you’re easily tempted w sex what’s not to say you’d do it again. in my opinion you need to be honest w him, let him decide what he wants to do from there. I think k that would be fair. Did you use protection? If not you could expose him to potential STDs. If you care about him than be honest, it’s kind of a fucked yo thing to do.
in my opinion you should break up. "So tempting" is not an excuse, you're in a relationship. When you're truly in love there's no such a thing as "So tempting".
It's not only about not cheating, if you did it is because your relationship is not fulfilling you in some way, that's why breaking up would give you the opportunity to find someone new and give your current partner the opportunity as well. Not all relationships last for ever, there's no reason in maintaining a relationship that doesn't work anymore, don't be selfish, be honest.
Dont tell him
Mistakes happen. I've fucked a few guys on the side and I just keep it to myself. I mean, if he bangs a girl, I don't want to know about it. I just don't see how that would help anything.
You fucked up and there's no way to change that. But now you have an opportunity to make the right choice, and you should do it. Tell him and accept the consequences.
Most importantly, never be a cheating whore again.