I just need help?

[Anonymous]

bcs ima whore right? I sleep with any guy who gives me the attention of a day don’t matter how he looks how he talks and what he do I’m just easy and my standards aren’t high enough and every mf month I have a pregnancy scare and I don’t know who to cry to about my problems because all my friends can’t relate to how I feel and I’m insecure I don’t have no self love or no self respect have no father figure, mother dosent give af about me, brother gay can’t tell him anything, friends all in happy relationships and I’m just all alone it’s fucking killing me I feel like killing my self every other day and don’t feel like I’m good enough for a relationship what am I doing wrong

[Sandeeppingping]

Okay calm down, first few lines were trashy inaccurate judgements about you, if they were true they wouldn't affect you right? So if it's the people saying this shit fuck 'em (not literally okay? We don't want to prove them right), if it's your mind telling you this after everything that was said and everything that happened then it's normal to feel this way, I'd feel this way too if I was in the same situation, it's not a you problem, it's the situation itself, so just calm down eat some nachos watch try not to laugh reaction vids then objectively think about it all, What could you do to change this? Do you actually want to change things? How willing are you to fix your family life? How willing are you to probably genuinely admit mistakes you've made? Then you can move on,,, my advice specifically would be to listen to your heart and mind and then go ahead and apply what you've concluded, it could be abstaining from sex until you get with someone who you know for sure wants a relationship, maybe communicate with your mother and change what you've done wrong if she wronged you then there isn't much you could or should do, doesn't sound like it though, so talk it out, get back on the right path because you actually know it, you could also talk to some girls on this site they're too non judgmental seriously, and don't give up you'll be more than okay you just need to heal like any other person would and you'll be back stronger than ever

[Ironic_Method]

This isn't going to be easy to overcome and will likely need a therapist to help you. Try to find a female therapist when you're able.

Until then, be wary of men being overly nice. Set some small, obtainable goals like not having sex for 2 weeks and studying for x time a day or something. Focus on those goals and keep building on them.

Loneliness is a killer, when you feel like people don't understand what's going on in your head and what most people want is just that - to be understood. Try to find friends with your hobbies.

[d3n0939]

Tell that to your own self! It is you who can change it!

[Philyouup]

i hope you find peace and a man that you can trust.

[Shamalien]

Stop having sex. Learn some self control. If you have no self control you’re tucked

[sidhagain]

Message me

[Apple1996]

She's under 18 so def don't creep on this girl

[Ironic_Method]

Jesus dude.

[Apple1996]

@Ironic_Method I hope she does not message him 😔

[sidhagain]

Thanks for your concern but was not trying to be a creep Instead i wanted to take an attempt to explain her she's underage and instead of posting here, should try to focus on improving her life

[Ironic_Method]

Fuck off. You could have done that publicly.

[Apple1996]

@Ironic_Method exactly do that here in the open

[scooogy]

Why even bothering with all that? Reach out to female friends and have them as your role models.

[panamared1]

Find someone to talk with, that is not after sex, learn to forgive and love yourself