I just rounded third base with my best friend, now what?

Me and my best guy friend of three years have been talking a lot over the summer. At the beginning of the summer we got drunk and ended up spooning. Every time we met during the summer after that we'd end up cuddling. Well as soon as we moved back to campus this year things started to get a little bit more passionate. We ended up making out and rounded third base shortly afterwards. The only thing is that he's a virgin and I'm not sure if I'm only doing this because I'm horny or because I really like him. I don't want to lead him on because this was his first time for everything we've done so far, and would be his first time having sex too. Plus I'm not sure how I should act around him. We have so far continued to act as friends, almost as if nothing has happened. I'm so confused and don't know what to do from here.
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If it helps, we're both seniors in college. Sex in general isn't such a huge thing for me since I'm not a virgin myself, but I don't do one night stands.
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  • 3 years seems a long time.
    I've had it down to sex at 3 hours, but usually the next day or the first night out. Sometimes it's been a week, because she wanted an STD test first. Once it was even 2 weeks, because she wanted to give it time after dumping her cheating boyfriend (just to be respectful). I have actually knocked it back on the first night , though. I won't bang women who've been heavily drinking.

    Best of luck! Bang him at the next opportunity. If there's some attraction, it won't do any harm. I'm sure he'll love it.

  • " I'm not sure if I'm only doing this because I'm horny or because I really like him."

    Does it really matter?
    Even if it is just hornyness, he's not likely to complain. Guys don't have the same hangups about sex as girls do. Just be honest with him, if it bothers you that much. I doubt very much it will bother him.

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  • You have done almost everything - except the last step. If you are not serious about marriage with him, please stop here. If you are comfortable and you can manage the things - go ahead. The ultimate pleasure is full of responsibility and emotional matters. Be wise for it.

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  • If you like him when you're not horny, you're probably ok. Just keep it where it is, he's fine with it.

  • Sounds like you've turned in to FWB. It's not official yet but, that's what you're heading towards