I just wanted to suck him off?

[Anonymous]

K, hear me out. I was making out with a guy the other night. And I told him I don't want him to 'play' with my pussy. He said okay. So he mostly fondled my boobs and kissed me, my boobs stomach neck etc. Then I asked him if I could suck him off... And the whole time he was trying to touch my vagina! Why? I don't understand, I told him no from the begining.. Why wasn't the BJ enough?

[Alanchatfriend2]

Hey,
I don't know, I guess guys are just attracted to the vagina! Lol! it just cums naturally! Ha Ha! But, I can understand that If you said no, He should respect that. Do you usually go down on guys? Often? How? I know, I really enjoy that! if a girl is really good, it helps me bond with them better, and the better they are at it, the better I will be with them! I will be here if you need! Thanx!

[Xelebrum]

Because he wanted to return the favor. Believe it or not, some guys do not like to just receive oral.

Plus it's pretty hypocritical of you to ask him if you could go down on him, yet forbid him from doing the same.

[Asker]

I told him from the beginning that I don't want him to touch me there. Then I said I want to suck you off and he happily obliged. You don't make sense.

[Anonymous]

I'd take it as a compliment.. You turned him on even more, like in a way teasing him ;)

[Asker]

Hmm in what way?

[Opinion Owner]

Because you told him he couldn't touch you and he said okay, but then you suck him off and he really wants to touch you but you restrict him. You know? Kinda hot hahah. I don't know how you reacted to him doing that though ;)

[Asker]

Lol I didn't think about it that way

[Opinion Owner]

Well it's definitely a possibility ;) you go girl hahah

[summiter]

He was kinda stupid. You were willing to get him off and did not expect anything in return... that is usually a dream come true for a guy.

[Asker]

Thats exactly what I thought! What's his problem?

[summiter]

Do you like the guy or was it a one time hook-up?

[Asker]

Yeah, I like him. I was vacationing with friends at his country and that was our lastt night together.

[summiter]

Sounds like you won't be seeing him again. Time to move on!

[Asker]

He keeps texting me.

[summiter]

Time to move on. There are plenty of guys out there.

[Asker]

When did I say I was having a hard time moving on lol?

[KatherineJ]

Because he was pushing your boundaries.

[kingme]

Sounds like an asshole. Boundaries are important in sex and when you cross one without consent you are sexually assaulting the other person.

[Asker]

I don't even know what to think anymore.

[kingme]

He probably didn't mean to overstep the mark. If you want to do that kind of thing with him again you need to have a serious conversation about boundaries and consent.

[Batbob]

Guys like pussy. nuff said.

[KidanisCortes]

If you ask this questions you have no common sense...

[Asker]

Why not?

[KidanisCortes]

*facepalm* he's horny and horny guys like to touch girls pussies and want the whole thing not just a blowjob

[Asker]

Since when?

[KidanisCortes]

since day one of planet earth

[Asker]

He knew I wasn't gonna let him fuck me. He wanted to eat me out.

[1chuck9]

He should have listened to you. Either he was trying to get you to have sex or he was trying to pleasure you since you were pleasuring him. You could have told him to touch your boobs instead or something like that.

[Anonymous]

What country are you in? Do you have a boyfriend?

[Asker]

Why does this matter?

[Opinion Owner]

It matters a lot to me please it would help me understand. Are you in a relationship?

[Opinion Owner]

Also - I figure you didn't want to have sex or have him touching you because maybe you have a boyfriend.

[Asker]

No I'm not.

[Opinion Owner]

So if you had a boyfriend or were in love with someone you wouldn't have done this?

[Asker]

I wouldn't do anything sexual with a guy if I was in a relationship.

[Asker]

I would let my boyfriend/lover go down on me.

[Anonymous]

Why so adamant about not being touched there?

[Asker]

Past experiences

[Opinion Owner]

Which was?

[Asker]

Bad experiences. That's all I want to say. The next guy that touches me there will only be a guy I love and trust.

[Opinion Owner]

Rape, I assume

[Asker]

What's wrong with you?

[Opinion Owner]

Just sayin'

[Anonymous]

so you get to play with his crotch and he doesn't with yours? what?

[Asker]

What's the big deal?

[Opinion Owner]

*cough* double standard *cough*

[Opinion Owner]

why can't he pleasure u in return?

[Asker]

Wtf. No it's not.

[Asker]

I didn't want him to.

[Opinion Owner]

sure sure its totally not. totally

[Asker]

It isn't. I offered to please him without him having to return the favor. That's a good thing.

[Opinion Owner]

you do know lots of guys LOVE to return the favor? he prob LOVES to eat girls out so to him not isn't a good thing

[Asker]

Most guys don't.

[Opinion Owner]

LOL do a question on I here and u will be proven wrong. LOTS of guys like to eat girls out.

[Opinion Owner]

on here*

[Asker]

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1625320-does-eating-pussy-taste-good-to-guys

I just came upon this. I didn't ask it though. I will ask it now tho.

[JuicyBrain]

The guy had a choice. Getting a blowjob or not getting a blowjob. That was his only choice. The pussy was never on the table so to speak... Yeah, I would have loved to return the favor as I personally prefer to give than to receive, but sadly it was not his choice to make. There is no double standard here as she didn't force him to anything @asker