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I left my lace panties at his house and his mom found it!!! What should I do?

Ok so, me and this guy were getting it on at his place, when all of a sudden his mom comes home early from work. So we quickly dress and I can't find my underwear anywhere! Anyway after hiding behind his door he managed to sneak me out without her seeing. On the way home I remembered my panties are down stairs (where he took them off) and that she will definitely find them! The reason I had to sneak out is because i didn't want to meet her like this, I wanted to make a good first impression as I care about him a lot and I really respect his family, like he does mine.
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*UPDATE* His mom has just invited me for dinner tonight, I didn't speak to her, my boyfriend called me to tell me. I'm VERY nervous as he has 3 other brothers and his dad who will be there also! Here's to an awkward evening. Wish me luck :/
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So after a few weeks things are actually going really well. His mom and me are getting on really well and I try and get involved with his family as much as he does with mine. I'm not going to lie though I still think his mom is slightly unsure of me at times, but I guess I've got to keep showing her I really do love her son. Side note- when I bought her flowers she loved it!!
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  • Well she found them, so wanting your first impression to not be this is not an option any more. I think she will talk to him. If not, he should be honest and open up the conversation himself. You are both adults, so you can legally make those decision, but she will be upset just because he is her son, but also because it happened in her house where her rules are the law.

    He needs to check out how she is taking this and then suggest bringin tou home to meet her. And soon. Get in there and show her how nice you are before she imagines bad things.

    • We are wishing you luck. I actually feel good about this. With the rest of the family being there it sounds like she wants to meet you and get to know you, not give you any grief. Be sure to let us know how it went. We'll be watching here,

    • So, almost three weeks later we would like to know how it went. Hoping it went well. Please let us know.

  • I have a ice breaker you with his mum for you.
    Ask to see her. Tell her that her son is a wonderful guy and she should be very proud of how she has brought him up.
    But was she aware that he has a fetish for wearing ladies pants. As you also have found him wearing them. You don't mind but you don't want her to think they are yours when she finds them because your not like that your a good girl.

    • Oh my god... Haha! Brilliant!

Most Helpful Girls

  • First impression is gone with the panties.. You slept with him after dating a very short time and in her house. So she has an opinion already.. So she most likely said to him, if you are going to date her and sleep with her then you best bring her here so we can meet her.. The way it should've been done before sleeping under her roof.

    So now its SECOND impression time. Dress nicely, have your manners in check and bring her chocolates and go meet her.. Mentioning NOTHING unless she does. My oldest is 19. This is how I would've reacted.

    • Thanks for the comment! I'm gonna run and buy some chocolates and flowers now!

    • Welcome! :-)

    • Def let us know how it goes!

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  • LOL! good job 😂
    if he REALLY loves u, he'll tell his mum that theyre his haha

    • That would be funny 😂

    • i know man hahaha, u may be the reason his mother takes him to therapy:P

  • Convince his mom that they were her panties and not yours.

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  • Just pretend it never happened and roll with it!

    • :O MR STRONG IS ON GAG?

  • Admit to NOTHING, except to the fact that they're yours. Maintain a puzzled look that this is where your panties wound up, and show extreme gratitude that the mystery is solved and you're getting them back. Maybe, with a sense of humor, you'll get a pass. From now on, go commando when you head over there.

  • just ask your bf to try to find it before his mom does

    • It is probably too late, but this is the best thing you can try.

    • @Red_Arrow ; yeah!

    • I called him up straight away and told him that, but it was too late. She knows I've been round, but I just didn't want my first impression be this lol!

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  • go to his house and ask his mom if you can have it back 😂 i would love to see the look on her face.

  • This will certainly be a interesting dinner, if he really likes you then he would have either hid them or if his family found em he will tell em its his.

  • is his mother some kind of religious conservative person? if not there´s no problem, i guess.

    • His mom is religious yes, but not extreme

    • i think she´ll understand it. don´t worry too much. just be sure to have a proper introduction some time ^^

  • Buy a new pair of panties

  • Maybe she'll think there his

    • I'm not sure pink is his color

  • lol, how long have you known the dude for?

    • I've known him for over 10 years, but we've only started dating for about a week and a bit

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