I am not Familiar with your history here, dear, but perhaps you feel this Sex is Safer without putting your heart on your sleeve because you may be Afraid... He will leave and your heart will be broken.
It's your life and if this Prevents a lot of strife then who am I to judge. Just be sure to keep a low profile so you don't get a Reputation for... Slut who Shuts. And of course, be careful of Guys who you Don't... Want to take home for Sunday dinner.
You are almost Openly Admitting that there were some 'Family/childhood problems' in the past that may not have been a blast. And if so, yes, could contribute to the way you feel now and if so, this is your way to handle it.
Perhaps one day you will tire with doing 'The dirty' and find some Prince Charming who will sweep you off your pretty feet and this will all be A... Memory.
Good luck. xx
Perhaps you like the attention, and the feeling of validation. It's all psychological, and perhaps you have some intimacy issues you need to work out. I know I can relate to this, you just need to figure out what it is and learn how to take care of yourself and treat yourself with more respect. Of course, it comes with time, therapy and a lot of work, but in the end, you'll be happier when you establish better relationships, and in the end, you'll find a guy who loves you for you and will want to pleasure YOU in the bedroom.
Oh I definitely have intimacy issues. I lack closeness for a long time, maybe that's the reason of all. Thank you so much for the answer, it really makes sense now. Hopefully I'll find what I need... ☺️
It's no worries! I hope you find what you need. I'm glad I could help love :)
"Could this be about my family/childhood problems?"
If you can explain your past than maybe we can advise better?
The fact that you call this being used for sex in stead of you enjoying this does bother me a bit. If you enjoy this you're not being used, because that would include you don't like to be treated this way.
Something is off with you.
If it's caused by childhood problems then lots of women have had childhood problems.
Women are pulled in two direction on lots of things they want a guy who is caring, sensitive and considerate but a lot of them get a thrill out of being 'used'. I think it might be because then they feel like their lover is a dominant guy and that's something all primate females go for.
Well not every girl ties sex with emotions. You don't care about relationships with him either right? That's called casual sex. As long as you are both single and both want sex then there's nothing wrong with "using each other"
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if it feels good and no one gets hurt, do it. You may change out of this feeling but just focus on what makes you feel good for now.
If it works for you, then it is fine.
The reason is irrevelant.
Pls stop getting used
It is very wrong for letting anyone take you for granted!
you need a therapist
you know it right?
you deserve better than this
if its your thing then its fine
Lol that's awesome. Where are you? Lol jk
But that is awesome
If that's what you want and like then far be it for anyone to tell you different. Obviously this turns you on so just go with it
It's just a fantasy maybe
Hey, sometimes, you just need to get fucked!!!
Everyone has a fetish I suppose.
I feel the same way... and part of me kinda knows its bad but it just seems like thats what i deserve & all i need right now.
It's OK, part of female sexuality is submissiveness in most cases.
You do what you want.
If you like to do it, do it. If you want to serious relationship with good guy stop doing that.
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