I like someone who doesn't respect me?

Anonymous

he's a fuck buddy
And I like him
What do I do?

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AustinMan Influencer
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Is it genuine disrespect or does he just donate you sexually?
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- Asker
  +1 y
  he's a friends with benefits so he doesn't really respect me
- AustinMan
  +1 y
  How does he disrespect you?
- Asker
  +1 y
  When we are having sex he says "oh yeah you're being used you slut... you little whore" lol
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- AustinMan
  +1 y
  For me, those are terms of endearment. She wants to be my slut and she loves when I talk to her like that. You really do need to talk about it, away from the sex.
  
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Most Helpful Guy

Anonymous
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I would say embrace your inner slut and have fun... see where it goes. Eventually you will see the crappy side of being with a guy like that and you can move on to the next one.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  What's the point if they are ALL like this? I'll be used up by then wouldn't I?
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  They aren't all like that is what I'm saying and you seem to like that type
- Asker
  +1 y
  What type is that?
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- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  the type you described that uses you for sex. I've seen plenty of healthy relationships between married moms and dads to know what a good relationship looks like. If you wanna be with someone who doesn't respect you and have wild sex its a choice and some people are happy with it.
- Asker
  +1 y
  I mean he's not disrespectful to me at all... it's just when I talk about him people say he doesn't respect me cause he's using me for sex... if things dont change I don't know how I'll be happy with just that. Ya know?

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swettannie Guru
+1 y
well, what do you want to do? what do you want to be for him?
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- Asker
  +1 y
  I want to be his girlfriend
- swettannie
  +1 y
  do you know how his ideal girlfriend is?
- Asker
  +1 y
  Yes I do... I feel like he was talking about me while describing her yet he's not budging...
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- swettannie
  +1 y
  why don't you try to become like that?
- Asker
  +1 y
  I try... but I feel like maybe if he doesn't like me for me then why try? That sounds exhausting..
- swettannie
  +1 y
  can you dm me?
- Asker
  +1 y
  Sure!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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MiamiMadness Yoda
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Decisions Decisions
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- Asker
  +1 y
  What do you think I should do
- MiamiMadness
  +1 y
  Well I’d say if he doesn’t respect you it’s not a good idea but maybe that’s what you’re attracted to him for? Whatever makes you happy I guess lol
- Asker
  +1 y
  Ah lol... well I like him cause of our conversations we have... and he cares about me but maybe not that way :(
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- MiamiMadness
  +1 y
  So what makes you think he doesn’t respect you? Maybe it’s just the way you’re looking at things?
- Asker
  +1 y
  Because when I talk about him... asking questions about my "fuck buddy" or "fwbs" they all scream this man doesn't respect you cause he's using you for sex...
- Asker
  +1 y
  If he wanted to be with me he would... right?
- MiamiMadness
  +1 y
  I wouldn’t say he doesn’t respect you for that reason alone if you’re both on the same page but usually friends with benefits situations are sticky since one side will catch feelings when the other doesn’t soo I don't know maybe talk to him about it?
- Asker
  +1 y
  K I'll try
- MiamiMadness
  +1 y
  Good luck girl 👍
Kit_Kat88 Yoda
+1 y
Demand respect or cut off
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Hi. How can someone respect me when I'm giving away free milk?
- Kit_Kat88
  +1 y
  He should still respect you as a person. Basic decency
- Asker
  +1 y
  Gotcha. Thanks kit katt
Iron_Man Master
+1 y
Move on
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In_Trance Master
+1 y
you put up with it or you move on
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SOPHIASMITH123 Xper 1
+1 y
Forget it
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Have you ever been in my situation before?
- SOPHIASMITH123
  +1 y
  Nope
- Asker
  +1 y
  Good for you... honestly.
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- SOPHIASMITH123
  +1 y
  Oh honey... everything's gonna be alright
- Asker
  +1 y
  Oof... you say that lol😒 But I don't know. Cause I like the guy and I want him... but I'm probably just a little slut to him
Nanu_ Xper 3
+1 y
its common in many 2020 girls
you like him because he ignores you , if he starts to act like a nice guys you will automatically lose interest in him.

good luck
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B2281 Yoda
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If he doesn't learn to respect you move on.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  How will someone respect me when I'm giving away free milk?
- B2281
  +1 y
  See what happens if you stop giving it away.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Then we won't talk probably? I mean he has been there for me just as friends too but I pressured him to sleep with me heehhe
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- B2281
  +1 y
  Well if you want him to be more than a sex buddy you need to talk to him.
- Asker
  +1 y
  I try to... I guess I'll try harder? I don't know I suck at telling people how I feel bluntly. I feel like I scare them away
- B2281
  +1 y
  I can understand that.