Sexual Relationships 
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Looking back, I should have known that things didn't add up. I gave away something that meant a lot to me, to someone who didn't deserve my love...
I grew up in a religious family, that believed that sex should only happen after marriage. By the time I was 24, I still hadn't found anyone that I wanted to pursue a serious relationship with. Until I met Nick. Nick was so easy-going, and romantic and made me feel amazing. Whether it was just watching a movie or just grabbing a burger, it was so fun all the time!
4 months into us dating, I thought I had found the perfect guy. Although he was pushing for sex, I kept my boundary- but when he said he loves me and started talking about marriage, I was hooked. We had sex, and I thought that I would be with Nick for the long run. But that wasn't the case.
Nick and I were sitting at a restaurant one evening, and he left to use the restroom. Regularly he always had his phone on him, but he left it at the table. I watched it vibrate a few times, and my curiosity got the best of me. I scooted the phone closer and saw a preview of a text pop up. "Miss you babe, do u like the pic?". I tried to calm myself down, but there was no stopping me. I grabbed his phone, and started to scroll through the messages. There were pics, sexting, "I love you" exchanged. In fact the messages were as raunchy as before Nick was in my life, as to how they were now.
I could hear Nick walking up to me. I put the phone down and looked up at him. "Whats wrong babe?" he asked. All I wanted to do was wipe that smirk of stupidity off of his face. "Who the h*ll is Vikkie?" my voice trembled. "She's just a crazy stalker, she doesn't even live here- she is always sending me messages". I got up and replied "oh so you tell your stalker that you love her?". Nick jumped up, "why you looking through my phone!". He was more angry that I found out than knowing that he was about to lose me. I walked out and that was it.
I cried for such a long time, that I had given away my virginity to a selfish loser who was stringing me along. It took a lot out of me to get through it. But eventually I did. I can talk about how I regret it, or how skewed my judgement is. But I learned a lesson, and I hope that karma gets him.
What Girls & Guys Said
24 50That pic seems rather iffy...
who cares its just sex
Damn. didn't you see any signs about his double life? Sorry to hear that. Its good you moved past it.
Men can be pigs. Sorry.
So bad :(
I'm sorry that that happened to you. I wish all girls are educated on how manipulative men can be in order to get what they want. Unfortunately women are obsessed with the concept of marriage and a family which is good but naively allow it to be used against them by those who seek to cheat or harm them.
umm... I'm just here cause of the pic...
Lol... hmmm
@Leandri can you blame me? :o
No I actually can't
Nice ass.
He deserves better
Did you suck his dick, too?
It's pretty impressive/sad that he was willing to wait 4 months.
I am sorry. I'm a virgin and I'm terrified of losing my virginity to a cheater. I guess one will never know until it happens
https://youtu.be/8MnAJPzyr_0
FIRST OF ALL AM SORRY TO WHAT HAPPEN TO YOU
IF I SURE THAT I , MET THE PERFECT GIRL FOR ME I WILL KEEP MY VIRGINITY AFTER I GET MARRIED OF HER NOT BEFORE
In my opinion nick sounds like the usual fuckboy, he didn't deserve you and if he actually loved you he wouldve stopped texting that other girl or at least tried to keep you rather tham getting pissed off that you looked, you were just curious and a bit pissed but still he should have attempted to keep you if he actually loved you
Life goes on and on. You don't be sad. What is your religion?
This brings back memories of an ex of mine. Someday, karma will catch up with him, preferably through a hard kick where it hurts when he eventually messes with the wrong woman.
i really want sympathize you there but that picture at the beginning... not sure if serious. you seem to have a good mood to post a goofy pic for having such bad experience...
you're not the only one who regrets losing it to an idiot... i lost mine pretty drunk to someone i didn't care after i was raped, i felt worthless and with no desire to live so i didn't care, now i do and im still working on my feelings. I guess the best thing to do is to accept things as they are, dont think that the card v is as much important as people think, we don't all lose it the way we wanted it, and at least you're healthy
Meh. Who cares.
I lost mine to a guy who was cheating on his girlfriend at age 20