Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
There seems to be a modern day assumption that Women need to wax or shave their pubic area.
In response, women will cite it is for hygiene. This is flawed. Hair is there for a reason. The key is the prevention of bacteria or other nasties from entering the vagina. Another reason is ‘freshness’. It feels better particularly in summer when it is hot. I can empathise with this for I shave my pubic hair in summer.
Above all, the real reason is aesthetics. They see it as the trendy look that all are embracing. Thus, peer group pressure is massive. Key in this is pandering to modern day men who associate with the shaven or waxed look. Any sign of hair, or, god forbid a ‘full bush’, and it is deemed an instant turn off.
Porn plays a huge role with seemingly all females waxed. This is deemed as ‘real life’ by most men. Rather than contrived and over exaggerated fantasy (bullshit). They take this into their real-life sexual interactions with women. The worst part is women facilitate this seeming delusion by bowing to male wishes to remain sexually attractive.
One only has to think of how self-conscious most women are about their vagina naturally. The last thing they need is to fear a man cringing at the feel, or sight of pubic hair.
I am the exception to the rule. I find a full bush or at the least some hair as hugely attractive. Whereas the waxed look is a turn off to me.
The key is when I grew up. On discovering women sexually in the early 80’s, the majority had hair. I remember bedding a woman in my late teens who was shaven. It creeped me out as if I was having sex with a pre-pubescent minor.
Even in recent times after my marriage split. All the women I have had sex with have been waxed, or shaven. The look still freaks me out and turns me off.
On a more profound level;
1, Hair feels better. There is such a joy when you are first with a woman and reach in her panties. The hair is like a delightful entree as you seek out her inviting moistness.
2, The effect on oral sex. I am the HUGEST addict of giving oral sex. I am pedantic in immersing in the many immense joys in the act. One is the woman's scent. You are driven wild by inhaling it before, and while you taste her. The presence of hair insulates the scent which makes the joy of giving oral sex more memorable.
3, The Aftermath. Most think to have a woman's hair still on your lips or tongue. Or on your ‘nether regions’ is ‘nasty’. Quite to the contrary, I find it hugely exciting. It allows you to reminisce on indulging in her immense treats when tasting her. As well as when you had sex with her by her hair still being on you.
I could go on waxing (deliberate pun) lyrically about the ‘natural’ look on a woman. The reality is most, both women and men will diminish it and largely dismiss it.
To those who are challenged by this. In regard to women thinking they must shave, or wax. Ask yourself why you are doing it in an honest manner?
If it is to keep up with modern trends or out of thinking that men want it this way. Do not bow to this pressure. Stay true to you and know there are many who still LOVE the ‘full bush’, or hair in general.
What Girls & Guys Said
39 491996 on is just fine in my opinion ^^
great look
It's always older men who seem to like a little hair down there sadly.
It is what we grew up with. Plus, the shaven looks creeps us out. It is as if it is an underage pre-pubescent girl
I agree, when I look at my shaven lady-bits it seems odd LOL
ewwww , so, ewwwwwww Some hair is such a turn on :)
I think that is stupid. I’m not old and I like some hair. Not a massive forest but some hair. I find way more sexy then the bald look. Same on men. Really bald on a guy looks stupid.
Well I mean everyone is different I guess
you bet
I wax pretty much everything and think it looks stupid to leave a bush in the middle.
oh dear ;)
it feels better without hair especially when it's touched
makes it more sensitive for the woman. i am just purporting my preference. ultimately it is all about the womans preference. i am hardly going to complain
I'm a "as long as you don't want oral" type of person. I'm not getting hair in my mouth. I'm always with a bit of hair, but I'm not eating hair. Otherwise, I really don't care.
My girlfriend absolutely loves oral, so she keeps it low or nonexistent.
There is an eerie trend in guys who apparently look at their partner's clean shaven vagina and think about prepubescent girls. My girlfriend taking off her panties doesn't remind me of a damn child.
it is all conditioning. when we grew up all women had hair. seeing it bares creeps you out
No has to like it a certain way. However, comparing it to prepubescent children is just insane
it is the dominant thought around our age group- just look at similar responses on here. you are used to the bare look for it is the trend now
I'll take picture 2000
Not quite sure that the pic is exactly accurate.
And no, guys want trimmed or shaved.
not all guys. i like some hair. i would suggest all under 25, want bald
Sure.
I see what you mean. I'm not extremely picky... but My preference is either shaven completely, or "1996-2005" in your pic. I guess it's for the reason you mentioned in paragraph 6; It's like a young woman... HOWEVER: I think any girl on earth would praise you for being who you are, liking unshaven pubic hair! (I wish I were you.)
all about preference. and you never complain about how it is presented
Precisely! Well put! (your a wise man, and righteous dude)
thank you for your kind words
Actually I prefer hairless. It's more comfortable when you go down there. But I accept sometimes a little hair is beautiful. And I think this days a little bush is starting to be trendy again.
I’m pretty much that same way you feel about it, just stuck in the 1980s I guess 😊
most around our age are
Yeah it sure seems that way, I guess it’s a trend
it freaks you out big time
Yeah at times, doesn’t look right
you never complain for it is pussy, but... creepy
Yeah I’m not complaining at that time 😊
i imagine you are akin to Jim Morrison having women through their knickers at you begging for you to indulge ;)
Lol, I guess I missed that one
Well I do it because it's not very comfortable in my opinion.
you mean you like hair, or not?
Well I'm not a major fan of hair. Both with me and probably with future partners.
Thats a personal preference. Some like it that way, some don't. If you like something in someway, no amount of reason can make you think otherwise, or maybe you can think it's for the best, but it's not necessary that you like it.
very true. it is all what you grew up with. all women had hair back when i was growing up. so it is weird seeing bald
You're a sicko
Me too I prefer hairy. I like the 90s "haircut"
Just when you feel in her panties and trace over her hair to seek out her moistness... nice... so... so... nice Then oral, the insulation of the scent the hair proves... nice... so... so... nice... Cue, cold shower ;)
of course this is written by a middle aged man on a site for young people
stands out doesn't it?
it does mate ;)
i even said in it that few would agree ;)
For my opinion I like no pubic at all. You're drier. Plus you don't need to worry about crabs
Are you attempting to insult me? LOL!!!
no I'm not
oh ok, my misinterpretation Though the term 'drier' and 'don't need to worry about crabs' tends to challenge this ;)
Amen to that buddy
according to the picture, I am so 2012!!!
Very interesting
I see