I love watching my boyfriend jerk off?

I love watching my man jerk off. It is probably one of the biggest turn ons and I feel weird so I won't ask him for it? I would love to just sit there and watch him please himself while I'm pleasing myself. How would I ask him for this? We have been together 4 years so the comfortability is definitely there but I just get insecure about my desires I guess?
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  • That's nothign to be embarrassed or insecure about! I mean.. assuming you two are having sex, you guys should be 100% honest with things such as that.

    You're also not alone in finding that to be super hot. I don't really remember how I went about it exactly, but a while back I must have mentioned to my guy that I like watching him jack off (in a way?). In the context that he pulls out to finish on me after sex. I guess him pulling out and kinda taking it into his own hands for a few seconds to cum was a huge novelty for me. I definitely liked it a lot. I kind of mentioned that to him in a side comment.

    Shortly after we couldn't have sex for over a week because of time constraints, then I got sick. He called me to chat. Before I knew it, we're facetiming. He was asking to see my boobs while I asked to see his.. y'know. One thing led to another and he ended up jacking off for me on cam.

    So you can ask him or mention to him in a casual, off-hand way that you find it really hot. I can't imagine he'd find that weird at all. Who wouldn't want to hear that their partner finds that sort of thing to be a turn on?

  • Just start playing with yourself as he walks in the room and when he tries to help you out tell him you want to see him get off on you touching yourself. if you've been together so long it won't be a big deal (:
    don't be insecure about what you want, no kink is a weird kink.

  • Just the thinking of it it's hot. There's nothing weird about that, just make a comment about it to him, how you think it's hot and etc. I'm sure he'll like it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Just start playing with yourself, in front of him, and you can suggest that he do the same, to excite you.
    It's called mutual masturbation.
    I get horny watching a girl do herself, so you are similarly stimulated.
    Communication is key to good sex, so set the mood, and bring it up.
    Maybe even make a little game of it, to take off the pressure if he seems unsure.
    Tell him that you can't cum unless he does, will you go first, for me?

  • I would think it was so cool if a girl asked me to masturbate in front of her, and if she thought it was a turn on.

    It's great that you're like that. Even when they're in couples, guys and girls will sometimes feel the need to masturbate, so if he doesn't have to hide it that would be such a liberating feeling.

    I'm a bit jealous of your boyfriend now. :)

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  • Ask him. That's basically all you can do.

  • Guys usually enjoy the heck out of watching a girl masturbate. If you duggest that the two of you do it in front of each other, either at the same time or separately, he will probably love to do that. Just ask him.

  • There's nothing to be insecure or ashamed of... just flat out ask. Say something like "you know what I would find a huge turn on?"

  • Just do it! He'll love it 👍🏻

  • I don't think it's that weird. Just ask him

  • just ask him lol. seriously

  • I wish more girls liked this. It's a huge turn for me too. I like being watched a would even think it would be hot if she was fully dressed. It would make me feel vulnerable

  • thats so sexy

  • That's awesome, wanna go out? Lol

  • blow him and then tell him that.

  • My wife loves watching me do that. Especially over her.

  • Can I be your boy friend?

  • What a coinkledinkle I like watching girls on porn, masturbate