I'm 16 and still a Virgin!!! ?

Question

I've just turned 16 and out of all my friends I am the only Virgin! They all lost their virginities when they were 13 and I really want to lose mine but I'm the fat ugly friend, what can I do! ?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm almost 17 and I'm practically as a nun (not by choice)! Technically your friends are in the wrong since it's not actually legal to have sex until you're 16, but I'm mot a prude and I think, given the opportunity, I would have lost mine before I was legal. People nowadays have sex way too young, and they're not mentally or emotionally prepared to be doing that kind of grown up stuff (especially NOT at 13), but because so many do do it, it makes the rest of us feel abnormal. We're not weird at all, and actually when the right guy comes along we'll be so very glad we waited until an age where we could fully appreciate how amazing sex and love can be. I know it doesn't feel like it will ever happen to me, but I honestly believe there's someone for everyone, and sometimes it just takes a long time to find them. Since you're just barely 16, don't even worry about it, and don't compare yourself to your friends.

A_Gee · Accepted Answer

Don't sweat it dude!  Be your own person.  I don't know why there is so much pressure on kids and having sex. It's not cool, it's not normal!!

Kyndra · Accepted Answer

I admire how people can actually give you serious answers.

DocT1977 · Accepted Answer

Don't be in any big hurry to lose it. That is something that you want to give to someone who later on in life, will love you, respect you, and cherish you. It is not a curse to be gotten rid of. If you do give it up just for the sake of it, later on, you will find yourself wishing that you have saved that extra something special for that right one that will come along.

Illusive_Man · Accepted Answer

"They all lost their virginities when they were 13 " Oh joy , underage sex. Well that's surely a way to get Chris Hansen worked up lol Also , so what do you get from getting your card punched again?

aneleda · Answer

I was 22 when I lost mine... what's with kids these days? Hurrying to live? Believe me, you aren't missing out on anything by remaining a virgin. Peer pressure shouldn't be a reason to do it.

biracialQT · Answer

LOL Not sure if this is a troll...

Klaatu51 · Answer

you shouldn't worry. you weren't lucky neough to have a sexual partner. you're still young, so there's no need to worry... maybe you'll be lucky later :-)

mei0313 · Answer

You are still a virgin and it is bad because your friends all lost theirs? 🙊

demonology · Answer

im 17 and still a virgin.  virginity isn't bad, especially for women.

1ian20 · Answer

Woah, slow your roll. Sex is something special, so give it to someone you actually love... that's why I am saving mine for a special someone. @BlueMoon2468 ;)

TheFlavour · Answer

Its to early for you to even think about having sex. For one if you get her pregnant you just destroyed her future

MyUsernameRules · Answer

You're fine. You're young and you have a lot of time. I'm 11 years older than you and I'm a virgin, and it's more embarrassing for a guy to be one rather than a girl. Not to mention, a lot of guys find virgin girls to be a plus point.

SnowHearth · Answer

If your "friends" jump from bridge or cliff, would you jump too? You don't have to do what others do, rushing things is not always good.

JSmuve · Answer

Nothing to say.

I_M_LEGEND · Answer

NO hope for this generation.

Marstalk · Answer

Don't rush things. I personally think losing it is way over rated.

gapminder · Answer

Dude its fine what's the fucking rush? If you quit focusing so much on it, it will happen sooner. That anxious intensity is contagious and chicks pick up on that and run the other way.

GirlsEatGirls · Answer

Focus on other things first. For example your education.  And also wait for the right person. Dont rush it.  You can always have sex, its the easiest thing.

HappyToBeAlive · Answer

Have you tried setting your vagina to wumbo?

life2blived · Answer

Oh you are from Australia. In America the average age is 17 so you would not be such a minority here.

sftrcnl · Answer

ı think you should wait till to 18 then you can have sex with someone but now it is early for you

TurkeyisGOOD · Answer

Keep to ur husband pls.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm 23 and still a virgin. It's a choice, do it when you're ready and with a right girl, ur friends are immature idiots, not better than you just cause of that, be sure of it

Anonymous · Answer

Oh man, 16? Your penis is gonna fall off, better hurry up and rush into sex that probably won't enjoy because you feel obligated to.

I'm 16 and still a Virgin!!! ?

Most Helpful Girls

Most Helpful Guys

What Girls & Guys Said

Related Questions