I’m 20 and still a Virgin?
I’m 20, I’m a female and I don’t know when I should have sex. I’ve never been in a serious relationship. I was always super shy and just never really put myself out there. I’ve casually dated a bit and I’ve done oral and things like that, I’ve just never let it get to that point. I was always so fixated on it being the right person which I haven’t found yet. Now I definitely do want sex of course but I just don’t want to give it away to someone random. But I’m worried if it’s something I do have a connection with, I’ll end up hurt. So let’s say I start seeing a guy, after how many dates do you think it’s acceptable for me to have sex with him without me disrespecting myself? So many people think I’m lying when I say I’m a Virgin and I really am not and I wish I wasn’t. I just don’t know what to do. And I’m so ready to get it over with I just don’t want to regret it.
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What Girls & Guys Said
6 20be glad that as a girl, you don't have to do the chasing or pursuing
you can't really say "when" you should. it's just something you feel
by the way, DAMN!
What lol
damn, as in, im looking at your picture
Oh I thought you were referring to the question. But thank u lol.
why would damn have been associated with you being a virgin?
I thought you were just saying like damn that’s wild Bc I’m 20 or whatever
oh. anyway, i was 20 when i lost mine worst mistake i ever made
I rlly thought it was super uncommon lmfao. But why was it?
how/why i lost it. don't worry, it was consensual, it's just, i did it for the wrong reason