I’m 20 and still a Virgin?

I’m 20, I’m a female and I don’t know when I should have sex. I’ve never been in a serious relationship. I was always super shy and just never really put myself out there. I’ve casually dated a bit and I’ve done oral and things like that, I’ve just never let it get to that point. I was always so fixated on it being the right person which I haven’t found yet. Now I definitely do want sex of course but I just don’t want to give it away to someone random. But I’m worried if it’s something I do have a connection with, I’ll end up hurt. So let’s say I start seeing a guy, after how many dates do you think it’s acceptable for me to have sex with him without me disrespecting myself? So many people think I’m lying when I say I’m a Virgin and I really am not and I wish I wasn’t. I just don’t know what to do. And I’m so ready to get it over with I just don’t want to regret it.
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  • be glad that as a girl, you don't have to do the chasing or pursuing

  • you can't really say "when" you should. it's just something you feel

    by the way, DAMN!

    • What lol

    • damn, as in, im looking at your picture

    • Oh I thought you were referring to the question. But thank u lol.

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