I’m 26. If I were gay wouldn’t I just know by now? How would I know without experimenting?

So ever since I was like 9 I’ve watched porn, and it has always been lesbian porn. I have never watched straight porn in my life to masturbate to. I tried and got a minute in and switched it to lesbian porn. That said, I’ve always gotten crushes on guys growing up and now. I’ve had like 5 male sexual partners, 0 female (never kissed a girl) but my longest relationship has been 6 months with a guy and other than that I’ve been pretty much single or dated a couple of guys for a month or two.
I came during oral only with my ex.
My friends and cousins tease or ask me in a serious manner if I am a lesbian to which I always say no. But now I’m wondering? I’ve been on so many dates with guys recently and have felt nothing, but maybe they’re just the wrong guy? I don't know. Wouldn’t I know if I was gay? How do I find out without experimenting? Like things to ask myself or something?
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  • You don't have to decide. You only have to decide whether to accept a date or offer one. Are you open to dating women? Have you ever been asked? Have you seen a woman and thought -- I would like to make out with her?

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  • Ask yourself this. What would you think of a guy who says he has only watched gay porn and doesn't get anything out of straight porn? Would you think he is straight? Of course not, and I don't know why women seem to think the rules are different for them than they are for men.

    You are clearly bisexual, as most women are.

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  • Yes I am sure you would know by now just ask yourself this are you attracted to men? do you love sex with men? If the answer is yes then your not a lesbian

  • If you can't tell, then you are most likely bisexual or.
    Gay women have masculine patterns of arousal- they are not aroused by men in any capacity.

  • Sounds like you are straight

    • No BS, I read her description and she sounds straight

    • Thank you. Is that you in your picture? You’re cuute.

    • That’s me, thank you. Hope I’m now right about you being straight if you like my picture ;)

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  • My guess, you might be bisexual.

    I never watched gay porn, because just thinking of it leaves a sour taste in my mouth. I know I am straight, without ever having to try.
    (No offense to actual gay or bi men, its just not my thing.)

  • I don't think that you are a lesbian. Simple fact is, pussies are just objectively better looking and hotter than dicks.

  • You probably are. I knew a 56 year old who couldn't get it up until 54 when he found out he liked lady boys. Try it if you question. Yolo

  • I think you have answered your own question, Then again most guys don`t seem that cool from the ones i have met
    During work and stuff

  • Most straight women who enjoy porn prefer lesbian porn.

  • I think you'd know by now

  • You are simply curious and that’s fine.
    You don’t have to make a hard decision.
    There are lots of bi-girls that like both, I’ve had sex with a few.
    Sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don’t!

  • You like lesbian porn because it is not just boring grinding. İt is more passionate.

    Regarding your datings, it seems that you are in bad luck with guys

    • If you find a good lesbian porn, you can even send it to me lol They are always better than MF porn

    • Happy you agree. I’ll see (;

    • Of course I agree 😄 it is better unless I want to see some hard stuff 😅 Will be waiting for good ones 😊

  • Try experimenting and see how you like it...

  • sounds like your curious, get it a try. maybe your more bi

  • do you ever want to be with girls, do you go out with guys because you think you should

  • I have heard that 70% of straight women prefer lesbian porn. It was from a study on sex.

  • You would know because you would be sexually attracted to other girls even without trying anything first. That is always the first thing.