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I’m a 23 year old virgin but I’m scared of losing my virginity and being deemed as dirty. Guys do you care if a girl is a virgin or not. Honestly?

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  • Okay 100% honest right here first of all you waited this long and you have been a leader this long how come you want to lose it so bad are you following me or leading

    Okay the next thing is no matter what guy you get if he makes it all about himself you're going to have the worst time anyway and you're going to be so pissed off and so angry at yourself for doing it because it wasn't even any good that's what happened to me

    Know if you wanted to remain a virgin you can do that and you could still please the guy and he can still please you without penetration there's all kinds of ways to go about this so you really need to think about what you really honestly want to do don't be a follower though be a leader if you have any questions to me message

Most Helpful Guy

  • Believe it or not, even though I'm a guy, I used to think the same when I was younger. I wanted to lose my virginity to the "right one" and make it work so she'd know I saved it. That leaves after you lose it. Also, turns out... most girls don't care if you did and many actually prefer you have some experience. For me... girls are the same. I know everyone makes mistakes with relationships, so I don't care if she's a virgin or not. What I do care about is how MUCH sexual experience she's had in comparison to me. I've had sex with 1 girl in my life and done a little oral with a few. If she has had sex with 10 people, it's getting a bit much for me. Difference in sexual experience in a relationship can cause toxicity due to the feelings of inferiority and superiority. I would probably only dates girls that have been with 7 or fewer sexual partners in their life at this point in my life.

Most Helpful Girl

  • You shouldn’t care what others think of you and a virgin or not. This is your life and your decision. Losing it only because of society seems more pathetic than being virgin. Choose wisely and good luck 💕✨

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Personally, I don't care, at all.

    I think virginity is an outdated, pointless concept. A woman's value/worth should not be altered by the fact that she's never had sex before.

    If I was interested in someone, and they told me they were a virgin, it would not change my opinion of them in the slightest.

  • I honestly never had any interest in virgins. I see no value in virginity.
    A woman who enjoys sex and makes the most of her time on this planet is not "dirty".

  • lol. Hopefully by my age they are not a virgin. However, when I was your age, I did not even question if she was. It did not matter! If we were to get to the point where we were going to have sex, she could tell me then and we could use cautions to make it easiest for her. But up to that point, I never cared nor knew.

  • While I think that virginity makes a special wedding gift for a bride to give her husband on their wedding night, I can't judge a woman for doing what I am doing. Some guys prefer a girl with some experience. Also, know there are many ways to achieve an orgasm that do not involve a penis inside a vagina. If you are concerned then save your virginity for someone who deserves for you to give it to them.

  • Virginity is a burden as we need to go slowly unless we end up hurting you.
    Purity is not in the body but in the mind. And we all lose it as soon as we step out of kindergarten so don't kid yourself and enjoy life.

  • At 23? Where do you live? I don’t know anyone who still thinks that way.

    • I live in California

    • Are you in a small town or a part of some church group? Here in Seattle the people I know would assume that most people over about 18, married or not, have had sex.

  • It does not matter. What's more important is her personality.

  • My daughter did not have children til almost 30 because it was the
    (Right) thing to do. Her and her husband could not afford them so!
    But it goes for everything. I hope you followed along with the meaning?

  • Just don't do it because somebody pressured you into it or your friends all have done it. you should be with somebody you really care about and you will be fine about it.

  • No, I don't care about virginity.

  • I don't consider a girl dirty just because she's had sex before. However it would be nice to know I'm the only one who's had her if I'm planning on being with her forever.

  • I'd prefer she were a virgin for safety reasons, But I do understand that at my age it limits the dating pool a lot.

  • You can always just wait for marriage ☺

  • Makes no difference to me and to be honest at my age I'd much desire someone with experience and knows what they are doing and what the want. At your age do what feels right. But virginity today is not like it once was and people and generations have changed today. Life's too short anyways. I say enjoy it and learn and explore yourself!

  • Virginity doesn't equal purity you can still be virgin and dirty, don't restrain yourself for fuck up reason

  • Why would you get deemed dirty? O. o

  • Yes, I do care.

    But you do know it's not dirty if you have sex with your husband, don't you?

  • Um. Depends. I aways did well with girls but I was deathly shy younger. I was 21 when I lost mine. Not because I couldn’t have, just scared and shy... opened up since. I would rather not take someone’s v card unless I was serious. There can be some big feelings you get for your first. I’ve been in love with my first since the day it happened. Lol.

  • Not really. I gave my virginity up at 23. Just take your time and look for someone you can trust if you decide to give it up. But don't let anyone pressure you.

  • Virginity only matters to guys with small dicks who don't want you to compare them to anyone.

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