So there’s this guy I’ve been cool with for at least 1.5 years. I wanna have sex with him so bad but every time there's a chance I punk out. It’s hard for me to even verbalize my needs on how he should handle me to get the ball rolling. I need help what do you all think? Sometimes I just want to call him and tell him come have sex with me lol but then I punk out. I nvr verbally told him I’m a virgin but I’m sure he knows.
Most guys will take you up on an oppertunity like that, but if he knows you are a virgin he may not initiate it at all on his own. Just ask him and see what happens, high chance of it being a yes.
1 0 0 0I’m pretty sure he would. I’ll work up the courage today hopefully lol. I’m just trying to find the words to do it. Like “hey I’ve never had sex before but I want you” lol. I can’t believe I’m so bad at this
I mean, its a guy you know your going to ask. Guys don't really care about the message, they care about the implications. Doesn't have to be the right sentence so don't overthink, just let him know your interested in having sex with him. If he is interested in you sexually he will take you up on the offer. But because the virgin thing plays a role, expect that even if he is interested in sex he might be reluctant because of it. He may not feel like the right guy to take that from you, in that case he may need some convincing this is what you truly want.
Thank you!!!
Most Helpful Guy
It sounds loke you both know each other real well. Just start talking about sex and if it is going ok open up to him about things. It is ok to talk about sex after all.
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Most Helpful Girl
Tell him you want it
but take it slow
don’t do too much
I’m sure he wants the same thing
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1 6It nice to see that there is still some good girls at that age, he should feel honored.
1 0 0 0This is impossible
0 0 0 0can't you see guys? She's a 32 year old virgin. She just sucked dry all boys of her school in the bathroom. That doesn't count.
0 0 0 0Were you saving it for marriage for a while?
0 0 0 0No, kinda just never happened for me. I’m high school it wasn’t a thought too much. College, I wanted it but didn’t want to be an added number to a guys list
How long have you been single now
I’ve never actually been in/experienced a relationship.
Watch a movie together and put your head on his shoulder, he'll do the rest
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