I'm a Cuckold, ask me anything?

Anonymous

My girlfriend and I are active in the tumblr kink community and from the relatively little time I've spent on this app, it seems like a lot of people have questions/concerns about what it means to be a cuckold/stag/sissy/etc. Like what are the similarities/differences, or just genuinely being curious about what it's like for people like us in our situation, or how we found out about this side of each other and decided to act on it, etc. Feel free to ask me anything, either as a reply or send me a message. I'm always open to talk :)

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GreedyGiver651 Xper 7
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How do you feel that people use "cuck" as an insult? I see it in gaming a lot a different think it's kinda... Backwards. Like if you are a masochist cuck then you are into some hardcore mental torture kink and most guys couldn't do that.
Lol, either way. It's cool that you are so open about this subject. It's not one of my kinks, but I'm into a ton.
If you have any questions about other kinks (besides toilet, and cbt. Hard limits) I love to hear them. Talking to other sexually open people is great
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- Asker
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  Yea, I dont like that cuck has become an insult in a lot of the gaming community. there's plenty of other terms or phrases they could use. Does it offend me? No, not at all. It's more annoying than anything. I have other things to worry about than people misusing or redefining a term. And yes, I'm extremely open about it all. Even some toilet/cbt stuff. As the title says, ask me anything :P I enjoy talking to other open people too
Anonymous
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Do you still get to have sex with her?
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- Asker
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  Yes I do, but we mostly use the Black Mamba Cock Extender when I do get to have sex with my girlfriend. Its thick enough that I can barely feel a thing and have no chance of cumming with it on. But she absolutely loves it and I can actually satisfy her for the most part with it. Though sometimes she let's me fuck her without it afterward.
- Opinion Owner
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  Yeah my girlfriend is very disappointed with my size and preformance so we're thinking about doing cuckolding
- Asker
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  I'd love to talk to you more about that :) I can probably give some good advice or answer questions for either you or your girlfriend
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- Opinion Owner
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  She wants to do the kind of cuckolding where I don't get to have any sex except orally pleasing her
- Asker
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  That's exciting :) how do you feel about that?
- Opinion Owner
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  I told her I'll do whatever she decides. It's kind of thrilling to me that I can't have sex with my own girlfriend but some random guy can
- Asker
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  Yea, cuckolding is extremely exciting and a lot of fun :) and multiple guys can, not just one :P Do you wear a chastity cage for her with her holding the only keys? Because thats what you should be doing :)
- Opinion Owner
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  I'm not currently wearing one but she wants me to get one
- Asker
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  Go with a metal one :) I got mine from the company Mature Metal. It fits fantastically and I can wear it 24/7 with no discomfort at all
- Opinion Owner
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  Okay cuz I don't think she plans on letting me out of it very often
- Asker
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  It's a little expensive, but the quality is totally worth going with them. And good. You won't need let out in one of those.
- Opinion Owner
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  Hopefully I will get out sometimes
- Asker
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  Sometimes? Yea sometimes. I just hope its few and far between :P
- Opinion Owner
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  Us I still want to be able to masturbate but she has not decided how often she will let me yet
- Asker
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  That's what dildos and vibrators are for. No need to stroke
- Opinion Owner
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  Yeah but how am I supposed to get off and come then
- Asker
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  As I said, dildos and vibrators. You can very pleasurably cum with a vibrator on your locked cage
- Opinion Owner
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  But does it feel as good as stroking
- Asker
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  Depending on my mood I honestly prefer it. Vibrators are powerful little orgasm machines in the right spot
- Opinion Owner
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  Never tried that
- Asker
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  Oh you definitely should
- Opinion Owner
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  Okay I will and I'll have to keep that one to myself she doesn't want me receiving any pleasure
- Asker
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  Being secretive about it might not be the best idea, but it does feel fantastic. And she can easily tease you to no end with a vibrator as well. She'll love it.

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ChronicThinker Editor
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How do you watch other men fuck your girl and still feel like a man? Or, do you just have to accept than you're less of a man than him?
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- Asker
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  I accept that I'm less of a man than him. I acknowledge it, accept it, and honestly like that it is that way. Honestly, it's a huge turn on for me to be made to feel like less of a man. So watching her have sex with someone better at sex is a great experience for me. And it even translates to when there's not another guy around and her and I are having sex with each other. She'll mention how much better it feels getting fucked by someone else and it turns me on even more. It's an incredibly fun back and forth we do for/with each other.
- ChronicThinker
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  *barf*
- Asker
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  Not every kink is for everyone :) I dont judge people.
Anonymous
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Does it feel bad pretending you’re a cuckold when really you’re just gay?
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- Asker
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  I'm actually not gay though. That's the thing. I could say I'm straight and given all of this information, most people wouldn't believe me. For me there's a separation between what's kinky that I'm into and what I'm sexually/emotionally/personally attracted to. I mean if anything I'd be bi in most people's eyes. But it's more complicated than that.
- Opinion Owner
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  I’m sure you’re sexually attracted to men.
- Asker
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  Like I said, for me there's a separation there. I'm kinky enough that I'll try most everything you could think of, but that doesn't change my sexual orientation for whom I'd enter into a relationship with. If my dominant girlfriend tells me to suck the cock of the guy she just fucked, that's totally fine with me. In my mind I'm doing it as part of a fantasy I'm sharing with my girlfriend. For me that makes it ok. And that would make me more bi, than gay. But I'd never be in a relationship with a guy. I still need that feminine touch of a girlfriend and I still have all the normal needs of straight guys. I just have a hell of a lot more kinks than most people. Lol.
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- Opinion Owner
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  Sexual orientation has nothing to do with who you would enter into a relationship with. Sexuality is determined by what makes you aroused. I bet you get more aroused by men than women.
- Asker
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  So at that point I'd be more bi, by your definition. Regardless, I acknowledge it. The lines get kind of blurry when you're a guy that's into everything that I am. Lol
- Opinion Owner
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  Well, you're clearly just using the girl to get a taste of the same sex that you crave more, sexually. If you were with a guy or maybe shemale, you wouldn’t need to see them with women. I guess it’s fine though, cause she’s obviously using you too.
- Asker
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  That's really not the case at all, for either of us.
Anonymous
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Do you just watch?
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- Asker
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  When another person is involved, yes. Her and I still have sex with each other when someone else isn't involved though.
- Asker
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  Though, comments are made by both her and the guy to me or at me. And once she had me come over to the side of the bed for him to finish on my face. Not sure if that really counts as just watching or not xD
- Opinion Owner
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  I was talking about when she's with a guy. Do you just sit back and watch, or do you guys take turns?
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- Asker
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  Oh! No I just sit back and watch.
- Opinion Owner
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  Why not suck on her tits while the guy fucks her? Wouldn't that be better than just having you watch?
- Asker
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  We want the guy to be comfortable with what's going on too. And I have plenty of time to play with her tits alone with her. I enjoy watching any have his way with her.
- Opinion Owner
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  So the guy would be too homophobic to have you too close to him?
- Asker
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  I mean he might be ok with it. It just hasn't come up yet. More may happen eventually
- Opinion Owner
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  If the guy's OK with it, then I think you should. I've seen porn where the hubby and wife are in the 69 position, and the other guy is fucking his wife, at the same time. Holy crap! I can't imagine anything more hot than that. Would you do that?
- Asker
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  Yea I definitely would. Maybe we'll try that sometime, sounds great :)
- Opinion Owner
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  OMG. I can just imagine having a cock in my pussy and a tongue on my clit! I'd have to pinch myself to see if I was dreaming. :)
- Asker
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  And I'd be right there to clean up ;) or your guy would be there to clean up.. depending on whose fantasy we're talking about :P
- Opinion Owner
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  Well, in porn it's usually the hubby doing the licking and cleaning, but just as long as one of them did it, that'd work for me.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Oh with my girl I'll definitely be the one doing the licking and cleaning :P
- Asker
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  I suppose you could leave that down to a cock size contest in your case haha :P
- Opinion Owner
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  Well, I think it's rare for a couple to invite an extra guy for sex, and choose a guy with a smaller or even equal size dick. Don't you prefer to see her getting a big dick?
- Asker
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  Oh definitely. I'm just saying is all. Whomever is bigger should do the fucking. Whomever is smaller should do the cleaning
- Opinion Owner
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  That's why it's always the hubby doing the eating. Does she fuck black guys?
- Asker
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  No, she prefers white guys. I wouldn't mind if she fucked black guys though
- Opinion Owner
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  In porn, that seems to be the main theme. So I was just wondering.
- Asker
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  It's cool, that's definitely the stereotype.
- Opinion Owner
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  I've never done any of this stuff, for me it's more of a fantasy. Who's idea was it?
- Asker
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  Well, technically hers. She came across the term cuckold one day and asked me what it meant because she actually didn't know. I explained it and she liked the idea. But I had planned to bring it up to her eventually anyway. Her and I are extremely open with each other about everything and know about all of each others kinks at this point. I'd slowly revealed more and more of mine over time to give her time to adjust and warm up to things and not expect her to just dive in to everything. I had my gotten to that concept yet and she brought it up to me lol. Now we laugh at how surprised I was at the time lol
- Opinion Owner
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  You're both lucky, because I think it's pretty rare for a couple to both like this kink. It seems like it's usually the husband that's trying to sell the wife on the idea. Even if a girl does fantasize about having other guys, I don't think she could tell her hubby. She'd be too afraid of the possible negative reaction.
- Asker
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  Yea, that's how it is in most cases. The guy wanting it and the girl not being aware/into it. Many girls probably fantasize about different guys, but to have someone to act on it in a situation of both partners wanting it mutually is very rare, but also wonderful <3 as someone who participates in this sort of thing :)
- Opinion Owner
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  Girls on here will say they don't imagine being with someone other than their SO, but I'm not buying that. If you removed, jealousy, disease, and the possibility or ruining your relationship, I think most all girls would go for it. I don't mean dating other guys, I just mean sex. The heart can't be shared, but the body can. That's why I can understand swinging, but not polygamy. That just seems like a recipe for disaster.
- Asker
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  I'm not sure that I'd say most would. Many for sure, but not most. Cuckolding, cuckqueaning, swinging, etc, they're all totally fine as long as all parties agree to it. Cheating is pretty always a terrible thing, assuming that the parties involved did not all agree to it of course. It gets kind of fuzzy, as does most kinky subjects when trying to define things lol.
- Opinion Owner
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  Well, when I say, "most" would go for it, I didn't mean that most would act on it. But that wouldn't change the fact that they'd want to act on it. (Just my theory) I also have a theory that 90% of guys have fantasized about seeing their SO with another guy. That number seems unrealistic, but I think that's because 99.9 of the 90%, would never tell that to another living soul. lol
- Asker
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  Yea fair enough, on both theories haha :P

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Buzzard9510 Xper 4
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Do you have recommendations on where I can meet a woman like your wife? I want to be feminized.
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- Asker
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  We met on the dating site OKCupid. But I've seen ads looking for sissies on craigslist, there's outlets for sissies on fetlife or other kinky dating sites as well.
- Buzzard9510
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  CL took down their ads as have many other places. I'm also on Fetlife but no luck so far
- Asker
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  Try other dating sites like okcupid. It worked for me :)
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- Buzzard9510
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  Thanks!
advice2380 Xper 4
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I think. You are open minded and a lot of people judge based on there own beliefs. I think it would be hot for wife to be with another guy i am not insecure and i think she wants scared to admit it
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- Asker
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  It's extremely hot to watch, and even hotter to reclaim her afterwards :P
- advice2380
  +1 y
  How did you two open up about it? I get mixed feelings that she wants it then she does not?
- Asker
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  She came across the term 'cuckold' and asked what it was. I explained and she loved the idea
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- advice2380
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  Like when i bring it up my wife seems upset but when i dont some how it comes up from her its weird
- Asker
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  Just give it time
Revolver_ Guru
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How's the weather?
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- Asker
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  A bit cloudy tbh. Could be better.
- Revolver_
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  Interesting
Lumberman53TheMeowch Xper 5
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Do you wear chastity devices?
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- Asker
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  Yes. I own 3. My best one is a custom steel one from the site Mature Metal. I wear it whenever she wants me to and its comfortable enough to wear 24/7
- Lumberman53TheMeowch
  +1 y
  Nice do you get to have sex with your wife?
- Asker
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  I do, but most of the time she has me wear the Black Mamba cock extender. Its thick enough that it feels great for her but also thick enough that I barely feel a thing. We occasionally have sex without it too though.
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- Lumberman53TheMeowch
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  That's nice does she cuck you with one guy or many guys?
- Asker
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  Many. there's one main one she fucks more often, but still looking for others for sure.
- Lumberman53TheMeowch
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  Have you ever been involved in a group sex orgy?
- Asker
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  No it's only been her, me, and one other guy at a time.
- Lumberman53TheMeowch
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  NIce thanks for answering my questions
- Asker
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  Anytime
Anonymous
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Hello, I have a lot of questions about this and just found this post are you still able to talk?
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Anonymous
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Put a photo here of your self as maid or what ever you wear as sissy.
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- Asker
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  Updated my profile pic with a picture of me in my maid dress.
- Opinion Owner
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  I want to see the legs in stockings or tights.
- Asker
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  Check my banner image on my profile now.
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- Opinion Owner
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  You look very dowdy. You would fit more being a man. Just as nature created you.
- Asker
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  I enjoy being dressed up. It makes me happy. My girlfriend enjoys it too. This is my nature :P
Anonymous
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Do u get jealous
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- Asker
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  No, not at all. Seeing her being fucked by another guy is hot and turns me on. I love it. Seeing her sexting other guys is great too. It's a turn on for us both.
- Opinion Owner
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  Ohhh wow I want a guy like you😍
- Asker
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  We're out there :) I'm taken but there's a crap ton like me
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- Opinion Owner
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  Maybe most guys just get insanely jealous 😂
- Asker
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  I mean most guys would with most of the stuff I'm into lol
- WesleyParis
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  I'm in a half-open marriage (open for her, but I stay monogamous). I get a little jealous. Most cuckolds that I've spoken with feel at least a bit of jealous, it's a spectrum. But there are a few that feel no jealousy at all.
- Opinion Owner
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  @WesleyParis that's quite interesting :)
Anonymous
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Did you like it sex after that guy cum inside your girlfriend and are you jealous sometime?
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- Asker
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  There was one time where he came a little bit before pulling out. She had me come over and lick her clean before she went to clean herself out fully. Then she had him finish on my face. In my position I dont really get jealous. It's just not really a thing that happens. More so I just get turned on by seeing her sext others and eventually have sex with others
Anonymous
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What goes through your head each time you see the cock of a man penetrating her pussy?

Has these cocks been bigger than your own?
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- Asker
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  there's been I think 4 or so guys that she's had sex with since she's been with me. Only one of those guys had a bigger cock than I do. But all of them are better in bed than I am. It's kind of humiliating seeing someone better with a smaller cock tbh. But the guy with the bigger cock she's had over several times. As far as what's going through my head? I'm happy that she's being pleasured better than I can, because it's all about her pleasure than mine. I think about him being manlier than me, about what he must be thinking, about what she must be thinking, etc. Its amazing seeing the bigger dicked guy go with her. Slamming her for what feels like hours lol. I love every second of it and so does she.
- Opinion Owner
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  Interesting. She likes the guy with the bigger cock more? I been seeing this married couple who are into this
- Asker
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  She likes him for sex more. Just for sex.
Anonymous
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Are you kept in Chastity while you watch your girlfriend fuck other guys? And do you lick her pussy clean when he's finished?
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- Asker
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  I have a custom made steel chastity cage and wear it whenever she wants me to. Its comfortable enough I can wear it 24/7 if needed. And yes, I love cleaning her up after they're finished :)
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  How and when are you ever allowed to cum
- Asker
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  When she allows me to. I have to ask for permission every time before I cum. I love it. And where I cum is up to her: inside her, on my face, in a shot glass to drink, etc.
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- Opinion Owner
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  Has she made you suck a cock yet
- Asker
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  Not yet, but a guy shed just fucked came on my face once. And I do want to suck a cock at some point with her there, just need to find the right guy for it.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Does she ever make you cum by milking your prostate?
- Asker
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  I've cum from a strapon once, but had to use a vibrator on my caged cock at the time to push me over the edge.
- Opinion Owner
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  Nice! Lucky Boy
- Asker
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  It was so much fun omg lol