Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
It's the big deal in these times for a lot of guys to think lesbians having sex is hot, but it really does not do anything for me, no. Neither do bi girls either. Don't get me wrong, I've known some lesbians and even if I don't agree with them I still don't care about what they do, and I don't hate them. But it's not sexy to me to see two women kissing or having sex, nor does it impress me that a woman could show she can have sexual feelings toward her own gender either.
I think my gripe is mostly with bi's and straight women who like to flirt with lesbianism. True lesbians do what they do and don't try to make an example of it or try to depict their sexuality as sexy for the most part. In fact a lot of true lesbians keep their sex lives private and personal. To me a lot of the bi and lesbianism of these times is mostly trendiness. Female homosexuality is depicted as sexy, especially since a lot of guys think so, and porn is overflowing with it, so it's like a lot of women are going with that.
Women are said to be "more sexually flexible"...
I remember reading some studies last year that said that the reason so many women are gay and bi nowadays is because women are more sexually flexible than men, and even noted how the majority of 'pansexuals' (people who basically have no racial or gender preference in who they fuck) and people with other types of diverse sexualities are women. I think that idea is really just meant to glamorize lesbianism and bisexuality, encourage it, and make women seem more sexually superior to men - if not to also encourage it to satisfy guys who like it. It's funny though. Guys who sleep with many, many people and have no hangups about their sex lives and sexcapades are often joked as "fucking anything that moves," yet women are the ones fucking anything that moves and we're all just calling it being "more sexually flexible." Just because a woman will have sex with anybody regardless of who or what they are doesn't spell flexibility to me, nor is it impressive, noble, or significantly sexually intelligent either. And if women really are like this, that would actually mean they're more sexually focused and driven than men. Society's contradictory thought-processes can be both amazing and appalling at the same time.
It's also been researched that among women who watch porn, lesbian porn is the No.1 search for both gay and straight women. There was also one study done where a number of men and women watched both gay and lesbian porn, and both the men and women thought the lesbian porn was way hotter than watching two guys go at it. Women have been taught so much that their gender is sexier to the point where they can watch themselves fucking each other and finding it hot.
A lot of straight women do say they feel their own gender is sexier than the male. There's a thought process in many where they can look at their own gender and feel that it’s more appealing. Some women have been angered by me noting this, yet often prove my point when they themselves say they think women are sexier because of their curvy figures in comparison to the straighter, harder figure of the male, basically with the idea, “Yeah, I can see how guys think we’re sexy.” What's also odd to me is that it's just fine for women to see the physical appeal in their own gender - and can even be vocal about it, but feel it would be “shallow” or only being focused on looks to see it in men, and would much rather see sexiness in their female gender than to see it in guys. Basically women are fine being "visual" with each other, but to be visual with men - or admitting it anyway - is what they see as showing weakness for them as women. It really just seems to come down to that egotistical issue: women like being seen as sexy or sexier than men, and like entertaining it by even declaring a sex appeal that they themselves see in their own gender. So they like entertaining the supposed science of women being more sexually flexible because it implies an ability or quality that would be superior to men. They're not really more flexible and don’t really desire women more, they just like the image that the idea gives them.
Insecurity...
But to be honest, I think the root of bisexuality and lesbianism is insecurity in most of those women. And a lot of women have turned to it out of frustration with guys or because they're not getting good sex from them, so instead of trying to work with men and learn to understand them as their opposite, women would rather just turn to other women because "women understand each other better." Some women have tried to tell me gay guys are the same way, but I really don't think so. Sure, you may have some like that, but the vast majority of gay men tend to be sincere about it, feeling like that's really who they are. I have only ever once in my life heard about a guy turning gay out of frustration with women. It is far more common for a woman to do that than a man I think. Some people even use the excuse that women who turned gay did so because of past sexual abuse. Maybe for some, but using a history of sexual abuse to explain away everybody's present behaviors and choices is just too much of an easy way out.
It seems to be that straight women who have sex with other women yet claim to still be straight is that they simply don't have the courage to be a woman with a man, or are too proud to be. I’ve talked to a lot of women like this online and that's basically what it boils down to, at least from my experience. I remember talking to one about it for days on Experience Project who pretty much admitted that was her case, and she felt "inspired" by me to take a second look and re-think her attitude toward guys. They don't know how to woman up and communicate with men or even try to learn about men, so they’d rather just get frustrated and blame the guy’s performance in bed. Women like this aren't up to the challenge. They’re too proud to face differences and too proud to try to work with a man in the way they want him to do for them, so their pride tells them they'd rather just get satisfaction from other women because “women understand each other better” before they will humble themselves and have to do some work with men.
So, no. I don't find anything sexy about a woman who does or would sleep with other women. None of it says to me that there is anything impressive or intimately profound about a woman who will have sex with all kinds of people. It says that she allows herself to be used by them in a blind notion that she’s more flexible, when she's really just doing them a favor more than she’s doing for herself. In the new age scientific communities, men are said to be more close-minded and singular for not having this “flexibility” that women have, and I laugh at that. We straight men don’t want or need to be able to screw just about anybody regardless of their gender. Men want women and have sex with them because that's what we like, want, and are attracted to. We don't feel that we need or want more than that, and I will unapologetically say that we are often more secure in our sexuality and desires and know what we want, and are satisfied with that. Women being “more open” to sleeping with other women ultimately seems like a lame excuse for a woman’s lack of understanding sex or even understanding her own self, not understanding it more in some sexually profound ability.
What Girls & Guys Said
23 57I am bi curious so for me it obviously turns me on
also men making out turns me on
Why are you bi curious?
what? there is supposed to be a reason behind what I like?
Uhhhhh... isn't there?
I just wanna fuck them
Well that picture that you showed would make me hate lesbians too. Gross
Does nothing for me either it's repulsive as hell. Abnormal it's disease morbidity, like leprosy or gangrene, awful to look at.
Okay... so you don't find lesbians hot... no body asked you if you did, but thanks for that super juicy stuff I really wanted to hear about that.
Another one with their feelings hurt. Okay. Keep 'em comin', ladies!
lol I ain't hurt and I ain't lesbian or bi either so...
Well then, you will not think I'm hot lol
Probably not, lol.
To be fair, I think lesbians are hot and you are just a little to old for someone my age
You know with me being old enough to be your kid
@Waffles731 Lol well my girlfriend is one year older than you
I'm not going to lie, That would make me a little uncomfortable to be dating someone who is old enough to be my mom
Women aren't sexually flexible. Theyre socially aware. there's still a stigma with being gay and women hate to stand out so they get a straight relationship as camouflage. When theyre older and there's less pressure to live up to social norms they usually end up with other women. If youve got a girlfriend who you cannot get interested in sex dont brush it off as womens trouble or her being being in a phase, she's likely gay, get rid of her. A healthy hetero woman is just as sexually charged as her man and will respond normally to your advances unless you've really done something shitty to her
They're not sexually flexible, they're pressured into doing it by the society. If they're sexually flexible, you'll see women holding hands and kissing in public without the abuse of alcohol.
@Stanley23 nobody is sexually flexible. You're gay or your straight. The rest is mental illness. Social engineering tells you different.
Of course: they're as sexy as other women but they reject you.
That's what you call a clever comeback, right? Lol. I've never hit on a lesbian, and if I did I certainly didn't know it. And if I did know it I would never hit on her, there is no appeal in them for me.
filler
Stfu and stop criticizing people. If he's gay then I'm gay! What are you going to do buddy?
I'm gay too man, what are you going to do?
Gay, gay, gay, gay, gay, I'm soooo gay man!
@Stanley23 cool story, bruh
@Other_Tommy_Wiseau Yeah exactly, that's all you can say! You're a joke!
@Stanley23 I'm not the 1 with the massive vagina, bruh. Check yoself 😂😂😂
@Other_Tommy_Wiseau the last time I've checked, I clearly have a penis. Buddy, stop trying to judge others and not backing shit up! Get a life!
@Stanley23 a penis is the 1 where you have a thing sticking out of you. Lol, someone's butthurt 😂. It's aight, bruh. I got sisters so I know how y'all get in your period. I understand
@Other_Tommy_Wiseau Yeah, I bet you do. That's all the pussy you're going to get in your whole entire lifetime because you don't have respect for girls.
@Stanley23 lol, I can get 15x more pussy than you'll get in tour lifetime... Actually, that's a lie. 15x0 is still 0 😑. Lets just say ill get more pussy than you could ever even imagine. Look, bitch nigga, go take your bitch ass somewhere else and be a butthurt fuckboy fake ass white knight to someone who gives a shit. Deuces, bitch ✌
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Finally someone who sees this, girl on girl is so overrated ...
And just disgusting.
It sure is, and it seems childish as well...
@HoneyButterCup525 I really appreciate the females who understood this. Most who commented are just butthurt about it. Probably denying their own inner gay tendencies.
Well I don't judge if there gay or lesbians, but seeing straight girls who kiss eachother to either get attention or try to get popular or doing it for fun is plain pathetic...
Good take... Yup the "sexually flexibile" factor is a bullshit lie. More double standards from/for our gender counter parts. Insecurity is fueled further by that glorification of lesbianism. How is it that most women, straight or not, are accepted more for finding & expressing appreciation for the VISUAL sex appeal of other women & NOT accepted (even scorned) for their said intrest in VISUAL appeal of MEN? That's what kills me! What's wrong with men? (Pysically) Are we so ugly that even the most handsome of us can be seen by certain females (especially YOUNGER ones in their 20's) as undesireable? Sick! Perverted in the TRUE meaning of the word.
Dude, this was awesome. If we could give Best Answer for Takes you'd get it. Women deny being visual with men because they want to seem like they're above lusting after men physically, because they see it as weakness, since that's how they perceive men as being for being visual.
Ah yes. The "weakness" thing. We concur.
What women have you been talking to? The ones I know are crazy about hot guys they see in public. Women are NOT scorned for visual appreciation of men, at all. I can't really fault you, as a guy, too much for not knowing what girls talk about with each other, but it really seems ridiculous from my perspective as a woman -__- However, I do agree that there has been a glorification of lesbianism, and there is a double standard going on as the same cannot be said of gay men. The majority of men and women will agree that girl on girl is hot. But guy on guy grosses them out. Why?
@37wallflower73 I know that girls are really crazy about certain guys (the "HOT" ones) and talk about them amongst each other. But they try so hard NOT to let it show bluntly, or let the guys know. That's the double standard I refer to.
Don't watch porn. Find lesbian sex repulsing.
Wouldn't date a bi girl.
I agree, I don't get that turned on by seeing two girls on each other either
Good that says you are a good man to me
I can't stand bisexual women even more though.
Okay
I don't mind watching girl on girl but sex is sex and its all good as long as you are enjoying it
They're the best friends I've never had.
Lesbian are usually not hot, too butch and whatnot. Bisexual women can be nice when in a threesome though, but downright lesbians naaa.
I don't have a problem with lesbians for their orientation- but a lot of the ones I've met in person are pretty stuck up and condescending. Not to say all are, but I've had so many bad experiences just trying to be FRIENDS with them that it's hard to find lesbian type porn or whatever attractive. I never did in the first place. No disrespect meant- you are who you are. But I don't think girl on girl is hot.
It's not new. Lesbian porn was popular when porn was first invented. You must be a gay dude if you don't think the idea of two or more women together is hot.
*facepalm*
Yes your whole take is a major facepalm. I'm glad you can admit that.
@John_Doesnt He said your opinion is a face palm dipshit.
@Stanley23 another facepalm.
@John_Doesnt just like your father when he came into your mother. He should've pulled it out when he had the chance.
@John_Doesnt The doctors should've told your mother 25-26 years ago "just wait 9 more months, I hope that baby can suffocate in there, he doesn't deserve to be out because one day (today) he's going to be an asshole to women anyways."
@Stanley23 wow that's a disturbing response to "facepalm". Do you automatically go from hearing someone call you an a*hole to shouting that they should have never been born?
I guess it is. I might as well be gay too man. One question, what are you going to do?
I'm gay even though i've fucked a girl before.
Yeah exactly, nothing man, I would stfu if I was you too!
@John_Doesnt
@John_Doesnt Yeah exactly! There is nothing you can do, man! I would've stfu if i was you!*
too*
@Stanley23 you have serious problems, just calm the f** down.
No I'm serious, you said "You must be a gay dude if you don't think the idea of two or more women together is hot." Well I might as well be gay then because, realistically, I find 2 girls together a turn off
@Stanley23 you have SERIOUS anger issues. Talk to your husband about therapy or something.
Maybe I will, I'll might bring a girl over and have a threesome afterwards. You're a joke to the society! Anyone who can't back shit up is a joke!
@Stanley23 see if your daddy will give you a roll of nickels.
@John_Doesnt What is that supposed to mean?
I think it used to be hot but now not. I don't know why but it isn't as interesting anymore.
I'm a straight guy, and I've never understood the obsession straight guys have with lesbians. I mean, I don't have anything against lesbians. I'm very LGBT-friendly. But watching two girls kiss just doesn't do for me what it apparently does for other straight dudes. To each their own, I guess, but... I just don't get it.