I'm a lesbian but I tend to attract men instead of women?

Question

I'm feminine and people often say I look straight. Men often flirt with me but when it comes to women I get no play no kitty nothing.
I've been on date gotten rejected and it has even gotten yelled at by an angry bunch who told me go fuck dudes because Iook straight and that I am like the girls she's been with in her past. All I said to this woman was hello.
I've even experienced where a chick has used me for attention.
I'm wondering if maybe I'm just bad with women or just have bad luck if I was bi I'd stick to men but I'm a lesbian and I'm not attracted to men at all. I envy straight women men can ask them out or they can talk to guys plus men are very straight forward if they like you they let you know. Sometimes I hate the fact that I'm gay and I feel like I'm being punished and it kind of makes me sad that I'll only get laid if I let the men that flirt with me have their way with me but I'm not going to enjoy it which sucks.
Do women just not find me attractive am I too feminine I would start dressing manly but it's not me and I just want to be myself and dress how I want.

Emii_Urashima · Accepted Answer

The "butch" thing seems to mostly be in western cultures, and I do not understand it.
I am bisexual and I am completely turned off by a overweight woman without any feminine shape, with a man's haircut, and clothes. They look so unattractive to me! In most Asian cultures, including mine, a lesbian couple are both feminine like straight girls.

Go to a lesbian club or hangout and talk to some Asian girls. Most of the Asians you meet who were not raised into your culture will probably feel the same way that about this, and you might find someone who will appreciate that you aren't trying to impersonate a man.

dipalisaha · Accepted Answer

Go to a dating site and you may be able to attract some girls there.

FunkyMonkee · Accepted Answer

A lot of lezzies do. It's a guy thing, They seem to get off on lezzies. If a couple of them are going at it in a video, that's cool but, if I "go after" one and she tells me she's a lezzie and doesn't do guys, okay, fine with me. I won't pursue her anymore. She stated her preference so, there's no point in climbing up that tree! But, a lot of guys find it even more attractive and CONTINUE climbing, no matter HOW WELL you grease up that tree trunk to keep them away!

BaldAvenger · Accepted Answer

Hang in there sweety. You'll get there someday and these past women will be kicking themselves in the kitty for letting a genuine heart like yours get away. Not to mention prolly the best tasting kitty EVER!!!