My suggestion is just don't bring it up if possible. If she asks you, answer honestly, but try to work your charm on her a bit so that she gives you a bit more leeway. I don't see that as dishonest so much. It's not like you have to tell a girl every single thing about you that might be perceived negatively about you right from the beginning on a first date. That's an effective strategy to scare people away.
Can you be totally confident around women and charm them, tease them, seduce them? I always wondered if that was possible for a virgin, since I thought the unfulfilled fantasy of having sex would kind of become overbearing and wreck your whole behavior.
I lost my virginity relatively late in my early 20s and it wasn't until then that I could really be confident around women. I feel like this is the biggest disadvantage if you have any of that.
Well most women seem to support the idea of "the past is the past", so going by that you don't have to tell her you're a virgin.
When see starts asking stuff about my exes I'm screwed though! Lol. Jk.. That's cool thanks bro!
I'm sorry women dumped you over something like that, it's bullcrap but it's biology I guess; women hear that about men and they immediately wonder what's wrong with him that his this old and still a virgin/single/not held down a relationship for longer than... because obviously if he was good and stuff he'd have someone. Like I said: bullcrap, but there you have it. Don't lie about it, just keep it to yourself, most women seem to prefer the don't ask don't tell thing so you'll get away with keeping your mouth shut
Should you lie? it depends on what you want with the girl. If it's only sex, there is no real need to tell her but if you want something serious, you should tell her because it's not good to begin a relationship with a lie.
As for being a deal breaker, I'm not surprised. Women must wonder why you are still a virgin. If there's something wrong with you
I'm waiting for someone serious. I'm not just going to have sex with a girl I don't love. Then give the love of my life her sloppy seconds. Js
What does Js means? Then tell the truth
"Js" means "Just saying"
I wouldn't lie about it and it's not a bad thing. It's probably a deal breaker for some girls since they think you're not experienced. Lying about it is only going to show when you get her alone and don't know what you're doing. That could end badly for you.
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I wouldn't bring it up. I think most would think of reasons why you haven't done it and most of them don't paint you in a good light.
I really don't see how it would be a good idea to tell her you're a virgin. Most girls lie about their past so why the fuck should you have to be honest about yours?
Yes. Like your ass off. Sends the message you have low status. Also, to women you have commitment issues. Think of it this way. It's hard to sell drugs and get the buyer addicted if they never sampled the drug. The drug women sell is sex and the payment is commitment.
Don't lie, tell the truth and let the people except you the way you are.
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