I’m a virgin and I want to have sex, but I don’t want peoples view of me to change. help?

I don’t want to be seen as a whore or anything, but I’m almost 24, I want to have sex. I want a boyfriend but I don’t think
I’m ready for any backlash
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  • No sane person would think you were a whore or anything like that for having a boyfriend and having sex. And for those that would think that way, ignore them. You are certainly old enough to make that decision and to enjoy your life without worrying about what ignorant people think.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Why would you think that someone would view you as a whore? Also, in this specific situation I would tell you to focus on your wants and needs. Do not focus on what others will think/say because you cannot control this. You will see life become easier and more meaningful when you only focus on yourself and the wants and needs of YOU not others. I'm not trying to sound repetitive I just want you to see the importance in it. Focusing on others typically causes you to be unhappy.

  • Just lie to people then tell people you are Virgin and don’t let the relationship be known to others.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Do what makes you happy and don't worry about others. One way you need to think about it is if you don't have sex, people will talk about why you don't and if you do, people talk about that as well.

    So regardless of what you do, people will talk. Just go out, enjoy the D and live your life while you're young :)

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Their view will change and everyone will know. Your whole person changes

    • Oh god

    • Yep, that’s exactly who you should be blogging texting s as if praying 🙏 too

  • Sex is normal. And why would anyone other than you and your partner know? Unless you tell people.

  • What backlash. Having sex is normal.

  • everyone is having sex all the time. it's your own business

  • People view of you will always change in accordance with your actions. There is no preventing it.

  • Wait until marriage, you would have much less backlash that way.

  • Don't talk about your sex life. No one else needs to know. Maybe you should move to a larger city, where no one will care what you do.

  • Don't tell anybody that you had sex. Problem solved

  • Find a husband.

  • Just don't tell anybody you got laid.

  • It's only sex. Nothing changes.

  • Just buy a dildo

  • Stay inside for a couple days until you're walking normally again and no one will know.

  • What you do in your personal life is nobody else's business. If you want to have sex then do it. You are an adult. I'm pretty sure you'll be responsible. Go have fun and enjoy the sex.

  • If you only want sex you don't need a boyfriend. If you want a boyfriend you don't gotta worried about sex—it will naturally happen.

  • you forgot to post the picture with the chocolate and the tampon.

  • Go have sex and enjoy it. Why would the opions of people who'd have an issue with you having sex even matter to you? Those are garbage people.

  • Have you tried masturbating?

  • Why would people need to know? If you had it or remain a virgin, it's only for you to know. Now, if you don't want your partner telling others then have sex with a partner outside your social group to avoid the gossip

  • Desiring sex is natural, your wishing for it is requirement of nature.

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