I'm a virgin and I was hoping to try out going to a sex club. Should I be concerned about anything? Is there anything I should know beforehand?

I'm 26 years old male who's never had sex. I'm straight just very sexually frustrated. I have been looking at a website for a nearby sex club.
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  • I hope you have considered your options, I see two options here, either one is fine, they are just very different:

    1. You go and have sex with a whore. You want this because you want to know what sex feels like, but you will always remember your first time was with a sex club slut.
    2. you remain inexperienced with women, potentially a disadvantage. But when the right one comes along you have sex with someone who truly means something to you. You remember your first as an amazing experience

Most Helpful Guy

  • Take pleasure down from the pedestal that you have it on and seek your life purpose. Instead of visiting a sex club, you could be discovering who you truly are and your life purpose on this planet. There is also new risks that come from all of the dangerous COVID shots that can be transmitted through sex as well as antibiotic resistant sexual disease. One thing I can absolutely guarantee you. If you do go to that sex club, that temporary pleasure you experience... when that moment has passed you will feel even more empty but in addition to that, you will feel dirty and unworthy of normal sex or a relationship with anyone.

    If you weren't in such a sex obsessed society, you probably wouldn't even be thinking about going to a sex club. Do you do any workouts?

    • Yes I go to the gym about 4-6 times a week.

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  • I'd be careful. You can get an std. I mean why are you rushing it? Why don't you wait until it's someone worthy of it

    • They have condoms from what I've read.

    • I feel as though it's becoming difficult to find someone who is going to actually value and respect me as I get older.

    • Again I would personally take my time and have sex with one partner who was my boyfriend/girlfriend instead of rushing it. Again you will make your own decisions but as for being a virgin it's nicer to have it with someone who actually cares and such

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  • Just make sure you use a condom every time and just have some fun!!!

  • Absolutely worse way to lose your virginity! You will forever regret it!

  • No, just go and have fun!

  • Diseases

  • Why not? I say go for it.

  • sex clubs rarely want single dudes there, if ever.

  • I would not recommend it. It might be too intimidating to go into a place where people are having sex out in the open and I'm not sure that you'd want your first time to be like that anyway. Better to find someone who means something to you, and take it from there and see how the relationship unfolds.

    Do they have sex clubs in your area? There aren't any here where I live but I've heard stories about them from other areas. I don't think it would be something that most people would be interested in. And most don't allow single men to go in. They want the guys to be with a woman so the ratio of men to women doesn't get out of whack.

  • Are you considering paying for sex?

  • Go for it! Just wear a condom tho!:)

    • They have condoms from what I have read.

    • Okay cool! I think you are doing the right choice. If you were a woman I would have a different opinion tho