I’m a virgin and my boyfriend is VERY sexually demanding. he told me he’ll pound until she’s sore and can’t even walk or put on her panties. help?

He has a huge sexual appetite and it kind of makes me want to break up with him. His idea of sex is the girl begging for him to stop because they’re getting sore and he keeps going and going and going. I know I should have sex eventually but he’s like level 3000 sex
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Sounds like this guy, is full of shit to me... I mean who really talks that way to a girl or brags that way to someone you might be interested in having a real relationship with?

    The answer is that no descent guys ever talks that way to women!

    He is full of shit, has no clue and is trying to sound like a big shot, or thinks you're going to be impressed some how by his body count... all of which are red flags that you should walk away from this guys. He sounds like a jackass, and I think you deserve better, don't waste it on this ass hole.

  • He sounds rapey to me.

Most Helpful Girls

  • That’s stuff straight out of BDSM type of porn.
    If he doesn’t respect your sexual boundaries, he needs to stop or it will be a dealbreaker. I wouldn’t waste one more second on him. You two seem to be sexually incompatible and he doesn’t seem to respect you in that manner either.

  • sounds like he got a fetish. Hopefully he's respectful and takes it at your pace

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  • If he's not going to respect your concerns as a virgin then replace him with a guy who will.

  • He probably has seen way too much porn OR you two are not sexually compatible

    Nevertheless, breakup

  • He sounds self centered and all he cares about is is ability to brag and care about himself sexually. He has yet to learn that sex can be intimate, fun without "poundings". He should definitely not be the one to take your virginity. Let him stick with jerking off and having sex with sluts that seem to like his bragging.

  • Yeah I'd leave him if I were you.

  • 🚩 RED FLAG 🚩

  • You're too VANILLA for him,
    let him go find another girl who can KEEP UP

  • Lol that's not gonna be a great experience for you if you're a virgin.

  • Lol I think he's watching too much porn. Tell him your preference

    • I said ya when we do it I don’t want anything rough and then he said illl be gentle then I’ll just pound you out of nowhere b/c ur a immature and you’ll never tell me you want to b pounded

    • I think he's just saying that to make you horny.

  • It's easy. If he respects you, he'll wait. If he don't, you deserve better. Now, don't confuse his appetite with his determination to respect your choice; but also, make things clear, NOT bizarr.

  • Leave him. Find another one who loves you and respect your feelings.

  • Tell him how you feel about the whole thing and if he isn't understanding then its time to break up. No one should be sexually demanding when it comes to anothers body.

  • If that is the type of guy that you want. Then be sure to have plenty of lube near by.
    Then again. Maybe he can't even get it up?

  • He doesn't know what is doing if that all his bring to the table

  • What he wants is what women say they want now. Plus women never stop complaining about sex. Nothing is right or good enough. You complain about it being too hard too soft a guys dick isn't big enough he probably only dates you and has ex with you because you are a virgin. Ever think about that.

  • Sounds like he is focusing the sex all around his dick and ego without giving a thought to the fact you’re a virgin and slow and steady should be the approach, focusing on you and your needs right now

  • How long have you and him been together now?

  • If he doesn't respect your concern just leave him

  • You're with the wrong guy. He likes to use and abuse women in bed.