I'm a virgin and there's a guy who wants to get intimate with me. He's 7" long and has a 6" girth. Would that hurt so bad? Any tips? Thanks?

I'm a 28 year old Asian female. Only one finger can fit inside for now. Asking because I don't want to end up in a hospital.
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I'm not trolling. As ridiculous as my question sounds, it is a real situation. You guys are so funny. 😆
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  • I'm not a virgin and six inches in girth sounds extremely painful to me. The 7 inches long is probably fine, would be better to be a little less on your first time but if he is good and doesn't insist on going as deep as possible the first time, there is some control there.

    I'm a virgin and there's a guy who wants to get intimate with me. He's 7" long and has a 6" girth. Would that hurt so bad? Any tips? Thanks?

    6 inches is pretty huge width though, even now when a guy uses two fingers, that can be pretty uncomfortable, to me. So someone trying to stick their entire hand in would hurt beyond belief and be no pleasure in that whatsoever for that 6 inch piece.

    Tbh, most guys I've seen are around 2 to 3 in width and that is fine by me.

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  • First things first make sure the guy is not selfish make sure he's going to make it all about you because if he is selfish and he's only going to be in it for himself it's going to be the worst experience ever for he has to be able to look into your eyes read the color of your cheeks the way you move your hips the way you moan or don't moan in order to read what you want when you want it at that moment he should be able to go very slow and gentle with lots of foreplay first he doesn't have to have sex the first time he can just have you get on top and slide your hips forward and back in slow motion on top of him just so you get the sensation of what it might feel like but he has to be able to make it all about you if he doesn't if he gets too excited and just starts pounding you I would kick his ass off and tell him to get the fuck away but if he makes it all about you it'll be one of the most successful and beautiful experiences you will ever have

    • Well I believe you I have no reason not to

  • His approach matters although it’s highly you’ll be in some pain/discomfort regardless.


    Of course you being aroused and lube will help.


    See in like a 3 course meal:


    STARTER - allow him to bring his cock to your entrance, let them meet while you kiss etc.


    MAIN - he should start gently kissing your inner thighs and pussy before licking your clit and fingering you.


    DESSERT - Allow him to gently feed the tip of his cock inside you, tell him slow shallow thrusts to start then fast shallow thrusts, if you feel like you want more pull him in.

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  • I think regardless of size it'd hurt if you aren't used to it.
    My first time hurt.. a lot 😅
    Couldn't get it in the first night. Second night, had lube and it still hurt like hell.
    I was super anxious though as I'm a baby when it comes to pain and i refused to let him eat me out.
    I'd grab some lube before hand as it helped. If you aren't super anxious and are able to let yourself go then that'd help too.
    (I was in pain quite a few times after the first, but it wasn't as bad)

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  • You're 45 years old. I'm surprised you haven't sealed up

  • People keep saying this is bs troll, but you never know. There are probably many virgins around your age still. No doubt. So, I'll be honest. Tell him to go easy on you. Make sure he doesn't enter you dry because it will hurt more. Lube will be your best friend, and it will make it so it goes in much smoother. There may be blood, but not a lot. Tell him to take it slow with you, prep you. Maybe finger you a bit to stretch you some.

  • You won't end up in a hospital, but it will hurt if you're too nervous. Make sure you're relaxed and have plenty of foreplay. And make sure he's careful with you.

    Good luck and enjoy!

  • Clearly, someone's NOT doing ENOUGH foreplay...
    if a woman can dilate ENOUGH to pass a newborn's head,
    and SOME women even enjoy 'fisting' ... he needs to be willing to invest the time.
    Or just choke his own trouser trout!
    He should seek to make you moan with delight rather than to scream from pain ~

  • That is literally considered the ideal penis size. In both length and girth. For a virgin, that might be a little too much though. Especially if the woman is small (5'2" and under). That is what women who aren't virgins consider the perfect penis, though. But no; that wouldn't hurt you. The vagina is typically six inches deep, after all. It's elastic and stretches.

  • 6 inch is pretty girthy, I belive a toilet paper tube is like 5.5, might want to start with fingering.

    • Just measured a toilet paper tube, it's more like 5 and 3/8" so 6" is a wide girthy penis. Mine fits inside a toilet paper roll pretty easily, not a tight fit, me and my girl qere virgins and even with mine that is no where near a 6" girth we had to take it slow at first. Like I worked my way up to being all the way in then just stayed still for her to get use to it. Yeah I think you'll want to wait until 2 fingers dosent fell to tight or like to much pressure before you try that. Make sure you're real wet first, do the foreplay stuff, have him ginger you, play with your clit, suck your nipples, maybe your ears too. Just be good wer and horny before you try the dick. If your still nervous don't try it yet.

  • A horse has a 7 inch girth. you wouldn't even be able to get him in your mouth. Stop fantasizing. Have you already measured him? IF you have then you have probably already had him so why the question.

  • When it's painful say it.

    • If he quits anything sexual, especially masturbation, his penis will get more sensitive, and going too rough with you will be painful for him. So at least make sure he isn't masturbating or else he'd be desensitized.

    • Mine's little over 7" 6", and I still don't consider it huge. You'll be alright.

  • So, let's get absolutely right... You're 28 going on 45+?

    • I'll be 28 years old this year. This is my true age.

    • Right, well at least we've hopefully got that sorted out... Thank you.

  • I'm a virgin and there's a guy who wants to get intimate with me. He's 7" long and has a 6" girth. Would that hurt so bad? Any tips? Thanks?
  • It's too big for anal and will hurt!

  • Probobly just got to take things slow and make sure u do enough forplay and get wet enough if u end up is anything close to hospital u guys are doing aomthing wrong

  • Length is not an issue but I strongly suggest the your first try should be "doggy" because it directs his penis back into the deeper (of two) pockets. For a virgin, girth is the controlling issue. An approximate 2" wide penis head will definitely get your attention, but if you can insert your first THREE fingers, grouped into a triangle, into your vagina, that will give you an indication of how he will fit. Otherwise, you are in for tearing and bleeding.

  • If he just shoves it in, yeah given you can only fit a finger inside. Just go very very slow. How do you know his size?

  • So am I suppose to be a professional on how much your pussy can stretch or someshit? That size is obviously big for a very tight vagina, I don't think you'll go to the hospital but I wouldn't be surprised if you feel a type of pain

  • Ehhh…take things really really slow. If it starts to hurt, make sure you tell him.

  • You want end up in hospital. Plenty of lube and take your time

  • 😂😂😂

  • Take is very slow, very gently, and with (lots of) water-based lube such as "nuru gel".

  • everything hurts if you just do it hard enough. so yeah. if it's too much, just slow down or stop. no need to force it in. if you feel scared, ask him to let you on top to control it. if you're in control, there's no need ot fear anything. and you should both totally fine with it not fitting in. maybe not half way. maybe not at all. you'll get there eventually. maybe not this session but you can work your way up there (litterally). i mean there's girls who fit 3 fists. you think they just started out with 3 fists? xD

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