I'm a virgin who is planning to buy my first dildo. I have never inserted anything inside before. How do I go about inserting it inside without pain?

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  • Your hymen is about an inch inside the pipe. While a finger can work, it has prints, wrinkles and a knuckle. If I were a virgin girl and wanted to get started with insertions, I would first select a "sharpie". It is very smooth (use aloe Vera lotion) and almost the

    I'm a virgin who is planning to buy my first dildo. I have never inserted anything inside before. How do I go about inserting it inside without pain?

    same width as a tampon applicator; meaning you can work it in through an annular hymen (most common)...

    I'm a virgin who is planning to buy my first dildo. I have never inserted anything inside before. How do I go about inserting it inside without pain?

    with a gentle hand. When you are comfortable, you can "graduate" to a hair brush.

    I'm a virgin who is planning to buy my first dildo. I have never inserted anything inside before. How do I go about inserting it inside without pain?I'm a virgin who is planning to buy my first dildo. I have never inserted anything inside before. How do I go about inserting it inside without pain?

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  • Start with a finger. I'd recommend if you wan to try dildos to get one that's a good length, that might seem counter intuitive but you have to take into account room to grip it when it's inside you. Thickness will be an issue, you don't want your first one to be too thick. If you are actually buying a sex toy I'd definitely buy one that vibrates trust me you will thank me. My first dildo was actually just a cucumber, they are cheap and if you have a noisey family like mine were they won't have a clue. Make sure you are nice and wet before inserting anything, also I swear by baby oil as a lube, again if you've a noisey family they will just think you have it for skin care

  • I would suggest that you start masturbating with a finger up there. Then once you’re comfortable with that, move up to two. Then you can start with the dildo and it should be comfortable. Just don’t buy a really big one. Get one that’s a normal size. Hope this helps!

    • it helped me, thank you

    • yes thank you!!

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  • Lots and LOTS of foreplay before you put it in. Lots of rubbing. I'd also personally suggest putting a finger inside at first (working your way up to a few fingers) before putting a whole dildp up there (but if you insist the dido is first, that's okay).

    Also, I'd suggest applying a proper lubricant to the dildo before using it, just in case you might not be wet enough (women produce it the varying degrees and also sometimes nervousness can impede its production, and if this is your first time with a dildo, you may be anxious or nervous).

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  • As I am not a female or experienced in using dildos, I believe this question is best for other females to answer. no offence. Only advice I can give, trying looking up on YouTube.

  • Just get yourself relaxed and turned on, take your time go slow and just do what feels best, you will be fine

  • Don't buy a huge dildo by one that is about the same size as most guys erect penises (5-6") and lube it up and just go slow and enjoy!

  • Slowly. If you aren't naturally lubricated, then use some artificial lube.

    Get silicone -- other plastics are unsafe. Glass and steel are fine too, but not as soft :-)

  • I think you should practice with fingers first and go up the scale, unless you get something small.

  • Before inserting the dildo, get one finger very wet (use a water-based lube) and insert it, slowly and not too deep, until you're comfortable with it. Then, insert two fingers, same as before, slowly. When you're comfortable with 2 fingers, put lots of lube on the dildo and slowly insert it. Push it in only as far as it's comfortable, then let it stay there for a while before you start thrusting with it. During all this, be sure to breathe normally... and ENJOY!

  • Here’s a few tips.
    #1 have lube on hand just Incase.
    #2 start slow and get a feel for it.
    #3 before inserting anything try a bit playing around with your hands first otherwise the sudden stimulation might be too much.
    #4 get something of a reasonable size and not something big.
    #5 just let go. You’re completely in control so just do what comes naturally instead of thinking about it.

  • Take it slow with some foreplay. Relax.

  • Why not start with your fingers?

  • Unless you get something small enough to fit into there without breaking your cherry, I don't know that you CAN get anything in there without much pain. Maybe a tampon or a finger but, that's about it!

  • There will be some pain. But it will pass. And feel better for Evey new time after that. I would probably start with a smaller dildo and get used to that before you go bigger.

  • Start small and go from there

  • Start with a smaller one, and work your way up to bigger ones. Also, make sure you're plenty lubed up

  • use lots of grease

  • Slow with lots of lube. Give your vagina time to stretch before going further. It’ll take awhile

  • Take your time, insert a little at a time then stop until it feels either good or comfortable, then a little more. Use plenty of lubricant.

  • With that dildo I will suggest you buy some lube and apply it to the dildo before inserting it on the inside of you as well practice erotic meditation to get yourself physically aroused and excited that your vagina can self produce lubrication and prepare you for your dildo scene. hope this helps a lot.❤❤

  • I never used it but i think you can try fingers before using it directly

  • Start with small size, then with medium size, after that with large size and finally with giant size if you wish

  • Lube lube and more lube

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