I'm addicted to showing off my bulge I've done it so long to the point I can't stop and my wife encourages it is it a sin?

I'm addicted to showing off my bulge. It started 5 years ago when I was working and a coworker was staring at my pants. I went home, Googled it, and saw thousands of videos that made me aroused. I started buying clothes to make it more and more noticeable. I never wore underwear growing up due to comfort reasons, and I started becoming more obsessed with female behavior. I would see them lusting over me, telling their friends, and even getting free stuff from places. Everywhere I went, it seemed easy to catch a girl's attention, but the dark side is seeing women with men looking in front of them. This one girl said to her husband, "It's so big," and he literally started almost crying.

My girlfriend has noticed it in public and said, "Your dick is sticking out." She encourages me to wear sweatpants even without underwear. I've proven to her that it's just going to happen, but she keeps saying, "I want to buy you more sweatpants," or she'll say, "You show better in these." We aren't legally married, but we did our own ceremony under God, and it's picking at me because I see pastors with bulges all the time, and I have even seen women looking in church And i haven't seen anything in the bible about it. I'm not sure what to do. Thoughts?

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  • I'm not sure what exactly is the "sin" in this situation. But the thing that I find concerning is that you seem to be obsessed with showing off your bulge and even making others uncomfortable. You should realize that not every human interaction needs to be sexualized and that there are ways to dress and act without getting too much attention to yourself.
    If this is becoming an unhealthy obsession or something that's making you feel guilty, then I would suggest getting some help from a counselor or therapist. They can help you understand your behavior and see whether or not it's something that's harming you and those around you.

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  • Dude wtf pastors with bulges? 😆 You for reals? Why you looking and other dude's bulges anyhow? You bi or gay? Nothing wrong with it lol. Im bi so I couldn't care less. But for real you are in church looking at guys crotches. Sounds desperate to me. Your girl know about this? And thr Bible? 😆 sorry haven't read it but yeah doubt it mentions dicks or bulges. Get a grip bro. And not on a pastor's bulge lolz.

Most Helpful Guys

  • My man, when you're packing heat, it is not a sin to show it off. I mean, just make sure you're not showing your goods to minors or anything like that. Your girlfriend is a keeper, bro!

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  • Go for it

  • @Martinishimothy... this is Girls ask Guys not the submission page for Literotica or Frolic Me.

  • I love it!

  • Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

    • This is genuine I accidentally hit the wrong topic to post under

    • @emmamary 😆

    • @martinishimothy Of course you did, just like all the others have done in the past! lol

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  • That sounds similar to flashing, I like surprising my wife naked. But it’s not a thing.

  • Not a sin, because wify knows about it.

  • You have a weird, subtly gay fetish and are fishing for comments to edge to. Did I miss anything?