I'm afraid to have sex because I'm really insecure about my vagina. What should I do?

I've always turned down any opportunity for sex that I've had because I'm simply so unbelievably insecure about my vagina. i have an outie so it doesn't really match beauty standards, and on top of that i just don't find her attractive whatsoever. I'm scared anyone I'll ever be intimate with will be turned off by the way it looks or feels or that they'll even laugh. Is that an actual possibility or just my mind playing games?
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  • Stop worrying about it. It’s a natural thing to feel a little insecure. If a guy really cares about you he won’t care what your vagina looks like.

  • Having seen a good share of vaginas i can say that outies are not uncommon. There are some guys who prefer outies. Either way, as long as it's clean, i don't think anyone is going to react negatively when they see it. Be confident and don't let that be the reason u turn down someone for sex. There may be other reasons not to lol but don't worry about that. I actually enjoy seeing the different varieties 😉

  • you can always have anal

  • No straight guy has turned down a vagina that was about to accept his penis.

  • I wouldn't worry about it. Guys don't care what is looks like.

  • Most guys don't care about how the actual vagina looks.

  • I actually love an outie as you put it. I love and enjoy going down on girls and I have enjoyed all kinds. I can not go into detail, I have done that before on a similar question and GAG censored me by removing my comment. I can tell you this though. what you have is absolutely gorgeous and my favorite. Embrace what you have and know that it makes you that much more you... message me if you want to talk...

  • NO GUY CARES.

  • Insecure about your vagina? Beauty standards? WTAF

    You need to get tf off the internet

  • OMG... I love outies, they are my Favorite... I would... love to see and "Do" you... yummy Lips to chew on...

  • Don't care what kind of VG you have

  • Outies are beautiful. I have personally seen more outies than innies.

  • i prefer outties 🤷‍♂️

  • to be honest we all have things about our selfs that we dont like i use to think my cock was too small but its normal and i have never had any woman that i have had sex or made love to say anything but good to say about my lovemaking. she was happy and so was I. all we need to do is trust in what we have to offer others. sex, friendship. love etc.

  • What are your insecurities

  • its about feel not about look.

  • No...
    Just if u did right sex u won't

  • Innie outie vagina lovers just love it

  • Unless your “outie” is actually a penis, 99.999% of guys are not going to care how your vagina looks. Not trying to be dismissive, but you’re worried about nothing.

  • Guys don’t really care as long as it doesn’t smell, i’ve never turn down a vagina before, really don’t need to feel insecure about that

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