I'm always thinking about a guy I used to have sex with while I'm having sex with my boyfriend. Do you think that's wrong?

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  • Feels bad for current guy.

  • Yes.

  • Yes it's not good and definitely not fair to the guy your having sex with! You need to let him go cuz you must not really want him anyway

  • Fuck a bitch that doesn't have strech marks.

  • You can't help how you feel.

  • Yes. Do what you gotta do to make sure that the person you're currently seeing is the one you're thinking about in bed.

  • Nah not really. Lol

  • This is why smart men want virgins...

  • I have on occasion, "played a highlight reel" in my head while having sex.

  • Yes. I mean, if you intentionally search your thoughts for specific memories or if you purposefully imagine your ex doing things to you.

  • Baby you need to grow up to make a true decision of who you really want ok

  • Classic modern woman. It's ok, I doubt your boyfriend is thinking about you while fucking you.

  • sounds like a real problem

  • If it makes you cum a lot, have at it.

  • Yeah

  • Nah, you do you and give the same courtesy to him

  • Or wrong. We all think diff things. But are attracted/happy with current boyfriend?

  • Well, I still think back of the first girl I went down on despite being in love with another girl (who I haven't even dated yet).

  • What's the reason to be with him if you miss your ex?

  • Sucks to be your boyfriend, but luckily for him it will end one day.

  • Not wrong but not very honest

  • Normal

  • Fairly normal

  • Does a bear crap in the woods? Do pope pedophiles get away with their crimes?

  • its sin. great sin

    • Yeah i guess everything is a sin

    • Yeah

    • Uh... no it isn't. Please tell us you're joking dude.

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  • Are you stupid. How would you feel if while he was banging you he tough of other women. Omg people are really fucking daft on here

  • Our brains & thinking is so very complex. I would not give much thought or worry about it.

  • Why do you really need to ask

  • Your think8ng about that big dick your by now is inferior

  • Obviously! It's like if some guy you really loved imagined having sex with your sister

  • Kinda girl

  • Very wrong

  • very

  • Why do you think of him?

  • whatever it takes to get you point B

  • It's ok... just don't scream out the ex's name mid sex

  • Don't all girls do that anyway 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • Don't ever tell him

  • I think it’s pretty common. I’ve thought of other girls I have had sex with and also girls I’ve not.

  • you must not be over the last guy

  • Not fair to the guy that might have strong feelings for you

  • Up to you

  • It’s hurtful definitely

  • Totally lol

  • It probably is wrong but seems to be a means to an end... more ways than one.

  • I’d be pissed

  • No. Its kind of fantasy

  • No

    fuck others opinions

    if you think it’s fine then its fine

  • How can u sleep with someone, when you are thinking about another guy?
    I am astonished

  • If you need to think of someone else while you are in bed with your man to enjoy it you might want to break it off with him

  • its not an easy wrong or not answer, If you say "always" like all the time from start to end. Yes, its totaly wrong that's mean you still hooked up with your ex.

    Build a stronger bond with your current boyfriend will slowly fade that away. And always gracefull with what you have now, You're the one who choose to accept and go on with this relationship.

  • I think it probably means you're not as interested in your boyfriend as you should be. When I'm really into someone, he's all I think about and when I'm having sex with him, I make eye contact, I pay attention to his reactions, and I'm totally in the moment.

  • I think it could be a problem that you are ALWAYS thinking of him during sex. Not that you've thought of him. Everybody fantasizes from time to time. Your boyfriend iis probably not always thinking of you.
    Only you really know if you're unsatisfied.

  • I do that with my girlfriend about a former girlfriend sometimes

  • I'm in a seminal situation. But I'm not thinking about an ex, I think about a man I just met (we aren't having an affair). That's when I knew my relationship with my husband was over. My husband and I are in the process of separations but we are still having sex. He has wonder why I seeking more than ever..😑well... The other guy is very chivalrous, sweet, attentive and he gets nervous when he talks to me... (Everything my husband isn't) So when I come home from work, I'm already ready to do it. I don't feel guilt at all, my husband has cheated on me before and he has called me by other women's name while we were having sex. This is my mini revenge..

    • interesting story..

  • Just date them both. You can have sex with your ex and date your new boyfriend. Everyone does it. Girls just dont talk about it.

  • Probably don’t compare to your exes.

  • I don't know if it's wrong, but could you say more about what it is you're thinking about him? Is it about the guy or the sex or both?

  • Oh please there is worst like for example I was only 12 when I saw my moms guy friends naked I walk on him by accident he was 28 at that time I saw his dick and I ended up feeling attracted to him. Now I am dating him. I don't give a fuck I just get what I want.

    • what

    • I've had enough internet for today 🚶

  • No its an imigination. We want to feel best part of sex.. nothing wrong.

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