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Sexual Health I'm always thinking about a guy I used to have sex with while I'm having sex with my boyfriend. Do you think that's wrong?
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32 94Yeah you are wrong.
Why are with him if your still hung up on this ex?
well u can't help it I guess
Id probably say youve got deep personal issues if you're thinking of someone else. I usually am very picky with partners so if one in particular is always on my mind i tend to reject them early on to avoid obsession.
its not great for your new guy but as to whether its wrong or not is a matter for your own conscience. personally if it helps you get off i would be fine with it but if you also had romantic thoughts about your ex, i maybe woudnt be so happy
Yeah, that's so gross of you.
Yes, that is what sleeping around does, it can ruin future relationships.
Studies show the more a girl sleeps around the weaker her chances of being able to bond with one guy and stay loyal.
Yeah that’s not good.
It is okay bit don't tell him
Stop thinking about me already. Jeez
We been broke up for a long time. I know the sex was good, well at least i made it good but you dont have to go telling everybody..
I doubt to some extent how much you love him... or if you guys have a future together... tell him I guess... is this a troll post?
Nope
Aren't you religious?
Extremely so. Why do you ask?
Well?
That’s fine, just keep that to yourself
It's unfortunate, but I think it's pretty common for girls to prefer sex with a prior partner or fuckbuddy over sex with their current partner.
It's okay as long as you don't mention his name accidentally while you're having sex with your boyfriend.
They have the same name😂😂
hahahahahahaha okay.
Yes, but unfortunately it is something you can't control, you have memories with that person, events that happened together, both good and bad.
It would be a shame to be forced to forget all those memories and then all those experiences were for nothing.
As a boy I am 100% aware that I am compared to former partners in a girl's life, that there are certain expectations on my part.
To be better than them in all areas so as to make the experiences of the girl's past seem as small as possible.
I don't expect a girl to forget, but I'd rather she didn't expect me to be a copy of her ex.
I wouldn't say it's wrong per se, but it shows you liked the other guy more sexually. If I was the guy you're with and I knew that, I would feel inferior and not want to be with you anymore.
If it's once in a while then no big deal but if it's all the time yes there's a problem because more than likely if you had a chance you'd have sex with the ex and you're not over the ex so you can't be totally in your new relationship
Yes!
Im afraid yes id call it wrong in an overall way. you shud think about why you think of him. Could be an underlying issue
yes, sucks for him