I'm always turned on and can't shake off wanting a hook up?

I just don't know what it is but I have to make myself orgasm like 3+ times in one night before I'm satisfied... I've been single for about 3 years now and I'm not going to lie... I often think about wanting a hook up or a fling, but between everyone getting deadly cooties, having the responsibility of a toddler, and being a naturally shy personality type around romance, I don't know what to do...
Has anyone else experienced this? I'm sure there are people I can relate with about it...

I just want that physical affection know what I mean? That feeling of someone caressing my body and making me feel good, of course reciprocating that, but just having a really good time... I am 22 and I've only ever had one partner before...
.. a girl knows what she wants, but she's nervous to go through :(
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  • I was in a very similar situation at your age.

    I was horny af, but had had a moralistic upbringing, and wasn't going to have a hookup and risk getting STIs or unplanned pregnancy or being judged/condemned for my actions. I was shy, introverted, and always wished for a deeper relationship anyway.

    It was a long time before I got a girlfriend, and masturbation was the only thing that kept be sane during this time. Don't hesitate, masturbate! Incidentally, in Avenue Q, Trekkie Monster sings a song called "The internet is for porn." - very funny.

    We just need to accept that the desire to pass our genes on to the next generation is firmly embedded in our makeup as animals, but if we're smart, we don't have to hook up like animals - with all the potential negative consequences. Best wait until you find someone and have a real connection.

    Forget Tinder. Try Hinge instead.

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  • I have been where you are once in my life and I know exactly how you feel. It is extremely frustrating because it's hard to find anyone that you can relate to and that you would trust for one night or even multiple nights. Or to take it a step further, that you can date. As humans we crave human touch and there is no substitute for it - not a doll, not a pet, not a toy. I was lucky in that a girl happen to notice me and the next thing you know, she attacked me because she was craving the exact same thing to. The piece of advice I would give is to not worry or overthink and put yourself out there (to a reasonable extent) in your attempts to connect with someone. You never know when or who you will have a connection with. I will be glad to help with any other advice you might need. I wish you luck.

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  • This is totally normal!! Lol yes I also craved hooking up but during these times... kinda scary. Really until someone legit comes around is the only time i let my walls down nowadays

    • Lol don’t you mean let a guy in those walls

    • @chris_987 lol ya guess that would be correct

    • So what do you do instead when you can’t get a guy

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  • Don't do a hookup. Welcome to a guys world. A hookup is not worth it. Try and find someone who really cares
    about you. It will be much better that way.

  • Sexuality does not develop at all. There are people for whom this is not important at all. But there are those for whom it is like food, refined, delicious, which you want to eat and eat). I'm like that myself, although I'm far from young) This is normal! This is natural! I had a mistress who was passionate but I went to another city due to circumstances, so she wrote to me that she met three men at once and it was not enough for her! We are all different! Have as many men and sex as you want, masturbate as much as you want, just follow the security measures with men and give rest to the pussy

  • If you live down the road I'll do you on Thursdays🥰

  • Orgasmic Meditation

    Just Google it.

    Look for an office near you. There might be an app now.

    Good luck

  • Sure, there are people who you can relate it with. A shy kinda guy/girl with similar feelings are around i guess 😉

  • Once you give in to these feelings you might not be able to stop an then you might feel guilty

  • Why can’t you find a guy to date longterm?

  • I feel the exact same way! It’s hard now days

  • What you are going through is hormones, that’s why you are horny all the time.
    What I suggest is lots and lots of masturbation, it’s safer than fucking some stranger.
    Every girl goes through that. It wount last forever.

  • I have pretty good self control, but I do know that feeling.

  • I mean. Hum!

    • Hmu*

  • do you have any close friends willing to help you

  • You need to try chatting with guys to start with, then try sextin g and see where it leads?

  • Shot baby I've got a massage table and lots of ools ant a big bag of all sorts of toys I'd love to please that ass if u want we can't sext and share pics I'm always down to rub one out lol 🤩🤤🤭

  • Same, I want slay some ass so bad. I try fighting the urges. Something eating booty, slapping that ass, sucking on sum nipples mmm haven't had any in 4 years. My last partner was an exotic dancer and knew what a man wants. Nibbling on my hard cock.