I’m beating myself up because I feel like I don’t have the body type most guys love, and it’s killing my relationship?

Guys like thic girls. I’m skinny. I don’t have a big ass of big tits. It’s killing me inside and it’s effecting my relationship. How to accept that this is what guys want and I don’t have it

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  • Oh boy, I'm the opposite.

    You say guys like thicc girls.

    I say guys like skinny girls.

    I don't necessarily have a big butt, but I have big boobs that I absolutely hate. There is nothing great about big boobs, and the worst part of it is I grew that way. I didn't have a choice on how my body developed as I got older.

    If I could press a button to be perfectly skinny with small perky boobs, I'd press it in a heartbeat.

    Trust me 100% when I say most if not all guys prefer your type. Just look at what guys say on GAG and anywhere else.

    • Yep, thanks shallow men for proving my point.

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  • OK, guys like lots of different things. For example, I'm not a fan of bit tits or big ass. I don't mind, but I prefer a more athletic looking build. Also to me looks are far from the most important thing about a woman.

    Beauty comes in many forms. Is a flower more beautiful than a leopard, or a swan? They are all beautiful, all different.

    I bet your appearance is just fine and lots of guys recognize it. You need self confidence. Don't worry that not everyone wants you, you don't want everyone, just one person who will be a good match for you.

  • Guys usually don't date girls that they don't find physically attractive, and it okay to be petite.

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  • Everyone has their different taste , choice

  • Who said that guys like thicc girls? That's bullshit. Some do and some don't.

    If your guy doesn't like your body, you're with the wrong guy because there are a lot of guys who will adore you.

    Guys also fall in love with your other attributes like personality, mannerisms, and common values, as well as your sexual enthusiasm. But hating yourself is unattractive. Loving yourself, being self confident and thinking that you are hot are attractive.

  • Not all guys like the same thing, though, and the problem is assuming that we do.

    We are as varied in our preferences as there are body types, and no matter what your figure, there are going to be a lot of men that think you are the ideal.

    I promise you, there are lots of men who would find you sexy & attractive.

  • you have the wrong guy not the wrong body

  • I personally do not like thick girls. I like slender toned ones. It is the person inside the body that counts. Don't overthink it.

    • "I personally do not like thick girls. I like slender toned ones. It is the person inside the body that counts." That makes no sense. You prefer one type saying you're shallow, but then say it doesn't matter when to YOU it does. Don't bother responding to me, I'm not wasting my time with shallow people. Have a nice life.

  • You know the wrong guys... I like thin girls,... and I know there are plenty of men like me... Fat men like thick women... simply because the men are fat, and they dont' want to stand out like a sore thumb.

  • Guys like a.7 hip to waist ratio, which is not the same as "thic" and is largely determined by genetics just like a man's height. You will just have to compensate in other ways, such by being as fit and feminine as possible.

  • Guys do not agree on anything of the sort.

  • I want you. I love small skinny girls more than anything. I would help you if you were nearby.

    • Thanks for proving my point shallow man.

    • @CrimsonAngel09 if I Said I preferred thick would I also be shallow?

  • I like skinny girls with small boobs, ass has never been a concern for me.

  • If it makes any difference I prefer skinny girls. I think though the guys you like like thic girls and so you generalise.

  • I have dated many girls with a body you described. They are also as good at sex as are others.

  • I'm personally not very picky on how your body has developed. All are good their own way. I'm more interested in what's between your ears and if the chemistry works out between me and the lady.

    Basically, the more negative images a lady has for herself, the less likely I'd be interested.

  • Your body sounds nice to me

  • Guys like all girls pretty much. Skinny is good. I'd bang ya

  • Why do all the hit girls say things like this. I bet your hot post a pic

  • take it easy skill matters more than shape and look of a body.

  • First be confident about yourself..
    First like yourself... love yourself.

    If you don't like yourself then why others will like you?