I'll add to the chorus of people here who say it's cheating, by noting that it also isn't fair. This guy is going to figure it out eventually, and you'll have wasted years of his life cementing a relationship with someone who was not really a proper match. Honestly, is there any chance you will ever want to be married and have children with a man who won't let you see other women? How would that even work, and why would you rather have this than an arrangement where you can do it openly?
Meanwhile, during this time he'll have passed up chances to be with women who are on the same page as him, and you will also be off the radar of men who'd have been happy to have the real you, complete with your desire for multiple partners. On a more basic and present level, you will be indulging your desires while he denies his own.
It would be simpler and less cruel, also less prone to disaster, for you to tell him repeatedly that while at present you have no plans to sleep with other women, you intend to do so from time to time and this is not negotiable. Then don't do it, yet. Give the idea time to sink in, make it clear to him that he is free to sleep with other people if he likes, and either he'll eventually go for it and allow you the same in return; or as you further press him either he'll at least warm to the idea, or he can exit the relationship without feeling humiliated and without you losing him totally and painfully.
You already know he doesn't want to participate in a threesome of any kind, but you didn't specify if said "no, I don't want you having sex with another woman". Have you asked him? You say you're bisexual, but does that mean you could either be with a woman or a man in a relationship too? I think if you want to continue in a relationship with EITHER a man or a woman, AND you still want to have sex with the other gender, then you need to be with a person who is OK with that. Sounds to me like he's aware you're "bi", but he's under the illusion that since you've chosen HIM, you will pass on your desires for a 3 some, or to be with a woman. Obviously, that's not true. So... why do you stay with him if that's the case?
I don’t want a relationship with a woman. I only enjoy the sex aspect of being with a woman. He knows I’m bisexual and he has specifically said he does not want me to sleep with another woman. I still wanna be with him but I also want to fuck other women!
So you are looking for validation or approval from others who will say "Hell no, it's only cheating if it's with a man and there's emotional involvement. Women don't count and it's just for sex anyway". That's what you are looking for. So what's the difference if there's nothing but sex with another man then? Is that cheating? You want a permanent hall pass BECAUSE you are bi and he knows it, so he should be more accommodating and understanding. I get that you want that, but he's specifically said "no", he's not cool with it. SO... this statement here: " I still wanna be with him but I also want to fuck other women...", will never meet with his approval, so you're going to have to do it behind his back, knowing he doesn't approve. You can call that whatever you want, but at the very least, it's deceitful. Your "wants" are in conflict. I suggest you find someone else who is cool with you having female lovers when you want them. This will eventually implode one way or another - either your frustration in abstaining from women, or being found out. We haven't even mentioned what it does to him, since he's the "loyal one".
Yeah. You have to have a penis to cheat. You're not cheating at all.
It’s absolutely cheating. Why is this even a question?
Because it’s the same gender and the possibility of falling in love with her (and leaving him) is slim
Who the fuck cares? You made a commitment to him and then you broke it. That’s pretty fucking black and white.
As long as he doesn’t find out
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Being with anyone else but your S/O is cheating. Flirting, sexting and actual sex
No its cheating and you can't lie to yourself. You cheated and would again!
That's what happen when a guy refuse a threesome offer from his bisexual girlfriend. :)
Yes!
Cheating with a woman, is still definitely cheating.
Still cheating lol are you delusional?
If he's dumb enough to get with someone with a severe birth defect related to her sexuality it's no surprise that this happened. You just don't work right with regard to sex and probably can't from a healthy relationship.
Yes, it is cheating; and that of the vilest and most reprehensible kind!
First of all congrats you are my type of girl i want my girl to have threesome with her beautiful friend.
. now you told you are not going to fall in love I can bet lust turns in love soon it is or (as per you) will be a cheating.
its still cheating
Yes it is cheating.
Troll question, reported
Be with a bisexual they said...
She won't cheat on you they said...
He must be the only guy on the planet that doesn't want a threesome with another girl. LOL
Have you done threesomes?
@JillBooBill Yes, my girlfriend and I have threesomes quite often.
Which kind?
It sort of is unless you told him you would do it beforehand
It is still cheating especially if he does not know as hot asit may be
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