I'm completely straight, but does doing THIS make me bi/gay?

So my friend/roommate and I are both completely straight and have good healthy sex lives with girls. A couple weeks ago I was masturbating in my room and my roommate walked in on me. We both just kinda froze for a minute, but then he asked if what I was watching was any good and he walked over & sat down next to me (my dick was still out but covered with my sheets). So now we were both sitting on my bed watching porn. He got hard and eventually pulled out his cock and started stroking it. I eventually started jerking myself off again. We both came and he walked out of my room, then we went on with our day like nothing happened. A couple days later, after I got out of the shower I walked past his room and he was sitting on his bed watching porn on his laptop with his door wide open (we usually always close our doors, like I'm sure most guys do when they're rubbing one out). Since his door was wide open I think I just took it as an "invitation" to come in. So I sat down next to him and took my towel off and we both started jerking off again (I know it sounds gay but it's not like we were looking at eachother). Here's the part that has me questioning things a bit tho. So the same kind of situation with the open door happened again about a week later. Just like the other times, we were jerking off sitting next to eachother, but halfway through this time my roomie asked if I wanted to try jerking each other off. I thought it would be pretty weird to touch his cock, so I told him to jerk me off and I "might" return the favor. But then he said he would suck me off if I jerked him off. I was pretty shocked and didn't say anything but the next thing I knew, my cock was in his mouth. (He was actually better than ANY girl that's ever sucked me off. Probably because he has his own dick and knows what feels good. Lol) After a minute he told me to get started on him, so I started stroking him off while watching the porn still playing on his lapto
I HAVE masturbated with a friend before.
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  • I wouldn't worry about whether you're bi or straight or gay. You're just human, and if you don't feel uncomfortable with what you did, then you shouldn't care about what others think. I used to have dreams about kissing and touching girls, and I'd feel like something was wrong with me. Now, I just embrace taboo feelings and thoughts, and they no longer make me feel weird or gay, just normal. I promise that everyone has had "taboo" thoughts about people of the same gender. Everyone has been fascinated by the body of a member of the same sex. And of course members of the same sex would be better at providing pleasure to one another. Also, I've met dozens of people who experimented with members of the same sex and ended up with traditional marriages. Don't worry, you didn't catch the incurable gay virus.

  • Gods almighty. Will you women stop getting hung up on concepts? See something you want to do? Dive in. Stop being such cowardly ninnies and worrying about what words some imbecile might try and brand you with for experiencing life. Logic has its place, but good gods, men are way too subservient to the invisible prison bars of abstract ideas. Wake the F up brothers.

    • FUCK AUTOCORRECT

    • *WILL YOU MEN (not women)

  • Lmfao I had a good laugh!! 😂 😂

    Anyway, masturbating together is not gay but getting sucked of by him and jerking him off is.

    • I knew that actually touching each other went too far. But do you think that makes me bi/gay for just experimenting the one time?

    • Well if you're not attracted to men, the no.

    • Yeah, it seemed like a bit too much of bromance in the beginning but then it started going into gay/bi stuff.

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  • Being attracted to men makes you gay what you did was a homosexual incounter/ act but that does not necesarily mean you are bi or gay. supposedly 70% of men have some kind of homosexual incounter in there life, usually around puberty where it doesn't go to far but it happens. That said if you enjoyed it and where not disgusted with it then that would suggest you may be bi. He, is mostl likely gay or bi however what with initiating it and all. He left his door open for a reason. Not necessarily something to be ashamed of, but it is a weird situation. but what ever floats your boat.

  • Wow, there are a lot of dense comments here... Experimenting is pretty common. Having gay sex doesn't make you gay, it's just sex. It's pretty stupid to tell someone you don't know that their sexual orientation identity is wrong, like you know them better than they do after reading 3 paragraphs.

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  • Wow, I think that's really hot! Me, I'm bi-curious. The thought of being in that situation would really turn me on. I think I would find myself giving him handjobs and blowjobs. nothingtosee@yahoo. com

  • Seriously? if any of this is true, you actually have to ask? I mean how much more obvious can it get? The only thing i give you credit for is not going anonymous, which 99% of the guys here would do if they had something like this to ask.

    • Do you think jerking off together makes me gay? Or it's just the part when we actually touched eachother? I feel like it was all just innocent fun until we actually touched eachother. (That part weirds me out thinking about it now. I have to give him credit tho, he was really good at it).

    • I have a feeling you won't think you're gay even if you have each others dicks in your mouths or asses, so I won't even bother here, but good luck.

    • No, I def think it would be instant gay if we ass-fucked eachother. Lol. And I might be a lil' gay if I actually sucked HIM off. But as far as touching him/getting sucked off goes, I would only consider myself gay if that happened more than once.

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  • Sounds BI to me.
    It doesn't matter what we think or say. Just do what feels good for you.

  • That is gay as FUCK. You might be trolling for how blatantly ridiculous this sounds. I need a drink.

    • I knew you were a troll. Go have fun beating off to your gay porn.

    • ... says the afro-troll-lookin bitch. Go have fun acting like the ape that you are. F#cking jungle bunny homophobe

    • That is the worst display of trolling that can be done. You may as well start doing "your mama" jokes as well. I'd rather look the way that I do than to get online telling strangers "I let my buddy suck my cock - am I gay", but you want to talk shit about ME? You're a miserable little closeted cock-sucking fail troll - of course you would talk shit about the way I look because I'm not a dude with a big hard meat for you to gag on - oh yea, and I'm black lmao How grosssssssssssss, right?

  • Its only gay if you do it a second time.
    Just kidding its gay. But whatever works for you. you do know you owe him a bj right?

  • Up until the third paragraph it wasn't gay at all, just really creepy. Then it was COMPLETELY gay. (note that that doesn't make YOU gay, however.)

    • This guy is as straight as Stephen hawking's spine lol

  • I'm done with the internet.

  • Yeah dude. In the gay zone. Think he's been there before. Reeling u in...

    • I'm starting to think that may be what's going on. Lol. He might be bi (but i've known him forever & never got a hint of that from him. He also brings home more girls than I do)

    • Bi on the sly...

    • Lol. Probably

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  • Experimenting for fun is not gay. Just relax about it. So many opinions. If you are not into guys there is your answer. Sexuality is fluid. Don't worry. The people who are most against it secretly want it the most.

  • I do not think you're gay. But this is unusual.

    • It is very common between young guys. Your experience may be different but it is not unusual at all.

  • there's nothing wrong with it.

  • its cool

  • Omg, your story got me hard, I wish I had a guy friend like that:) did you stroke his cock?

  • Yea I think you might be bi

  • Why does it even matter as long as you had fun? And you're right that guys usually suck dick better.

    • Alright then, the next time a girl wants to suck you off you better let her know.

    • @Cookiemonsterrr_ know what? Lol

    • That guys do it better.

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  • It all seemed "Jerking Innocent" until dicks was sucked and other dicks were touched #GayAsFuqk

    Yea you may only be into girls, but #ThatShitsGay