I'm ejaculating early, what can I do?

Premature ejaculation problem in sex
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  • Can. you not keep going? No rule saying you can only cum once. So if you can go again slap on a fresh condom and keep going.

    Pretty sure the more you do it, the less you will get over excited and cum so easily, you just need more experience.

    Have you tried slowing down? Or stopping to take a break? You could hide the needed break by kissing her nipples or something.

    OH. I've heard edging helps you get a better idea of how to get there without cuming.
    So try that when you masturbate, when you feel it about to cum try to stop it, get as close as you can to cuming without cuming

Most Helpful Guy

  • Several things can help. If you know you are going to have sex. Jerk off an hour or so ahead of time. It might slow you down. Or better yet see if she will give you a handjob first.
    Maybe try using a thicker condom ( I am assuming you use condoms every time)
    Does it happen quickly if you go for round 2 or 3?
    Maybe try masturbating more often to take the edge off. As you know all guys your age jerk off frequently they just will never admit it. What are your thoughts?

Most Helpful Girl

  • Have her slap your balls or suck them really hard lol

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  • The boiled frog method. It works for everything. It's been used to great effect to brainwash, so well that victims often go into heavy denial when confroted with the truth.

  • Go on any adult sex toy web shop and they sell these stamina sprays. Basically it just numbs your penis a little bit so you can hold of on ejaculating until you've had some fun first. I've never tried them but I've heard they are actually really safe and useful and I've even seen porn stars promoting them and actually using them themselves.

  • Take breaks between moments where you'd feel yourself almost ejaculating.

    Maybe make out for a while, some finger play as well.

  • Can you not keep it up after cumming?

  • Get a cock ring

    • What does it do?

    • You’re a 21 year old dude that doesn’t know what a cock ring does?

    • I'm a 29 year old that dont know what it does, I thought it held more blood pressure in there to make it bigger🤷‍♂️

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  • Kegel exercises.
    Edging (get close to orgasm but don't orgasm, stop before it. Do that for as many days as possible before you orgasm)

  • Pull out and eat her out if you feel like you’re going to cum too soon

  • Carve out a daily space to dedicate to yourself: this behavior relieves anxiety and removes stress, the worst enemies of love

    Integrate the diet with zinc supplementation , a useful remedy against stress

    Practicing sports constantly: practicing sports allows you to obtain a greater awareness of yourself and your body

    Live the relationship to the fullest, trying to remove anxieties and fears that hinder the relationship

    Always discuss the disorder with your partner: dialogue can benefit the couple and the relationship itself

    Perform the "start and stop" practice: the woman stops the sexual stimulation of the partner as soon as she senses a feeling of excessive (male) arousal. After that, the woman gently squeezes the penis , under the glans. After a short time, stimulation is resumed. Repeat this process up to 10 times. Such behavior helps the man to control his ejaculatory reflex, as well as to identify the point of inevitability of ejaculation (beyond which orgasm is no longer controllable. Read more

  • Jack off before you see her.

  • Read the book exstended orgasms

  • Practice edging and kegels

  • use climax spray search on google they will increase your time.

    • also don't overdo masturbation nerves can get weak and if problem is too severe visit doctor.

  • How early?

  • Usual causes are porn fixations, or some paraphilia. Try focusing on pleasing her, not just getting off.

  • have her jack you off then start foreplay, it may help

  • Hold your cum for a while after humping the bed or masterbating before you ejulate

  • Do nothing enjoy it.

  • Get circumcised if you aren’t already.

  • Jerk off before u have sex it helps

    • Jerking off two times before sex might help too?

    • Yeah it’ll make u last longer