I’m getting with this cute guy later but he’s bad at oral how do I fake an orgasm?

How do I fake one without hurting feelings. He’s good at the sex part but not oral he’s super attractive my friends told me they heard he’s not good at it
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  • Don't fake it but if you don't want to hurt his feelings tell him it's difficult for you to orgasm from oral. That can lead up to you giving him pointers during oral to help him get you there thins like higher, lower, slower, faster or wrong hold are not too criticising.

    Have you heard in what ways he's bad so you can be ready to steer him away from bad habits. Some men try to to use there tongue like a dick and penetrate you use words like "I want that tongue on my clit" before you start can sound sexy but directional.

    If he's struggling to find your clit putting a finger either side of it and spreading your lips will help make it stand out and mark the right area for him.

    Finally you can grab his head while he's down there to help position him and control the pressure.

    If you feel you must fake an orgasm it's about knowing how your body responds when you do have an orgasm I could give some pointers but this is already a wall of text pm me if you want to know more.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Rather than focus on a fake orgasm which isn’t good for either one of you why don’t you communicate with him verbally or by guiding him to what you need and works? Also he should want to want to be a good lover. Would want to know what she likes and works or not. I would start slow and take my time and try to read her breathing and moans etc. How she’s moving or grinding, etc. I would enjoy everything and take my time working her clit to sucking her lips and taking my tongue all up and down and burying it inside her. Mix up and slide a finger inside while I’m eating her out and just see what she’s enjoying or not. But you should be confident and communicate with him. Make it kinky. Have him use a nice cream or lube, or chocolate or something? Otherwise what’s even the point?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Don't fake it. Eventually guys find out and it ruins them, and it ruins their ideas of women. So don't.

    When he's doing something you like, moan/make noises of pleasure/speak.
    When you don't like it, stay quiet and very still.

    Teach him. It's not just his skills, but your preferences. Everyone is different.
    Teach him.

  • Watch a few porn flicks... stupid bitches screaming at the top of their lungs, faking it 100% of the time... it's very easy

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  • If he has a specific reputation for his lack of skills at oral sex among several of your friends, perhaps he is a man whore?

  • Absolutely do not fake it or you will be faking it the whole relationship until you stop letting him do it. Give honest feedback so he can experiment and learn. If you fake it, you are depriving both of you.

  • Your friends heard that he isn't good at giving women oral sex? LOL What goes on in these social circles? LOL!

  • Are your past lovers good at oral? If so tell him to do that.

    Tell him before you have sex that you like to have oral a particular way. He'll ask "what way is that?" Then you say how you like it or you tell him you will tell him during.

    He wants you to have the best time. He is likely going to do it the way want if you can communicate.

    If you fake an orgasm you don't deserve an orgasm.

  • Why dont you just want to couch him? isn't good communication good? Everyone likes something a little different anyways.

    Just dont call him flat out wrong, word it different say I like it when you blank, like blank, with your blank

  • dont fake it, just tell him how you like it. most guys are open to being told what a woman likes because all women are different in that regard

  • He will improve if he will slow down and pay attention. You can tell him to slow down and let you guide him. Maybe he will listen.

  • Why not just guide and teach him, most guys would be open to learning I would think. I sure was!

  • Don't fake it. Give him some directions.

  • You don't. You aren't doing yourself or him any favors. Stupid tactic by women to accomplish nothing except he believes a lie and you didn't get what you just faked you had.

  • just scream lol

  • Why don't you try just telling him what you like if he's not doing it well enough to please you? Like I guarantee that it would be way less effort to take ownership of your orgasms and tell him to suck on your clit then it would be to find a way to lie convincingly.

    The guy's fucking you because he wants you to enjoy it

  • Have fuckboy like me 😘

  • Don't fake it. Teach him to be better. Tell him what you like and don't like. Faking it will only propagate the situation for future girls to receive poor cunnilingus, all the while he thinks he's a mother fuckin champ at making girls cum with his tongue.

  • Dont fake it. Just enjoy it. He will understand that orgasm is always achievable. If you dint like how he does it then after a few mins switch to giving him a wank while he fingers you. If you n him are close then you may have to guide him in what you like orally.

  • Talk with the guy teach him what you like if he can't realize or ask you

  • You don't fake an orgasm. You teach him how to want to be licked.

  • Perhaps you can instruct him on what feels good. Then you might not have to fake it.

  • Why can't you just tell the guy what to do or smth? I'm sure he'd appreciate it!

  • Don't ever fake it, because it will just lead to frustration. Be honest with him, even if it hurts his feelings. If he doesn't get better, then move on.

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