I'm going to hook up with this random girl I found online a few hour ago, how do I stay safe?

[Anonymous]

I don't know if this girl is crazy, a serial killer, a kidnalper 😂 my anxiety is going off rn. I posed about wanted to hook up, she sent me a pic of her (pretty believable and did a reverse image search), so i kinda trust it. I don't know, maybe i'm just nervous. She actually offered to drive to me which makes me kinda sus. I plan on meeting her in a public area (prolly McDonalds or Starbucks), but we would hook up in a parking lot somewhere close by. I don't know my anxiety is just going off rn

[Anonymous]

Be careful dude, I’ve had a few friends who met women online and thought it would be chill, but it ended bad. One of my friends even had a girl lie, and asked him to pick her up from her dads house. But then when they went to hang out and she want to give him a BJ, she tried asking for money. He was able to get out of her that she was a hooker and her “dad” was actually her pimp😂 just be careful! Haha

[Asker]

THIS EXACTLY WHAT I'M WORRIED ABOUT 😂😂 thankfully she is coming to me, i'm just worried that while she is driving us to our location she snaps and goes crazy in the middle of the road.. thankfully it is my area so ik it like the back of my hand in case things go south lol

[Opinion Owner]

Do you think you’d be more comfortable if you didn’t hook up on the first meeting, but maybe the second? I mean I’m all for spontaneity and doing something you don’t usually do, buuut stds are real, and there’s no condom for if she sucks you off lol. You just gotta be hella safe dude! I’d even recommend making her most recent test (like stds) a requirement before u get it in😂

[Asker]

You definitely right! I mean, i kinda just met her on accident and on thing led to another. The sole purpose of us metting up would just be to hook up, so I don't know how she'd feel if i was like "you wanna just not fuck in your car? 😊" 😂😂 i might get over my chills, this is just really outta the norm for me. And asking if she is tested for std's was definitely something i should do. Thank you!!! I hope things go well, worse comes to worst i call it off

[Opinion Owner]

I feel you lol worst case, just hook up, don’t let her give you any 🧠 and u should be fine😂

[SlothySlob]

If you're that paranoid, keep some condoms in your pocket, have a knife on your person, be constantly in the public's eye, don't fuck on the first date, and stop being a wus.

[Berethor]

At least you don't need to worry about her raping you, but yea she might be a serial killer. :)

[nodicpick]

Type her number into whitepages. com if you do that then you can see if she has a criminal record and if the in f o she gives you is accurate