firstly when you get to it make sure you'r well lubricated either naturally or with lube, don't try it if your not.
secondly relax and do you'r best to enjoy it, let him take the lead. even if he isn't massively experienced you know where it goes he should know where it goes, other than that you will work it out everyone likes it and does differently anyway, and it should always be you guys working out how you like it from each other.
id sugest you let him lead if he has any kind of experiance.
alright thank you so much!
You dont have to but, a verry brief update of went ok or not might be nice :P
Do you anticipate that he's considerably more experienced?
yes.
Then tell him that you're not and that you need for him to take the lead while giving you time to acclimate to the sexual side. Telling him you're a virgin is up to you.
okay i will thank you :)
Bring condoms. If you can, also have lube on hand.
Don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable. And tell him if what he's doing hurts or if he needs to slow down.
Appart from that, just enjoy the experience! Everybody has a different first time, and you can never be really ready for it.
okay :) the only problem is that neither of us can get condoms so we have to hope for the best
Why can't you get condoms? These are super accessible: go to the pharmacy, buy them on amazon, buy them litterally anywhere online, go to a health center and get them for free. Trust me. Getting condoms is a must. Or postpone.
we are both broke and we can't let our parents find out and neither of us can drive
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its old and over with never happened chill
Phew!
Think about this carefully before you do something to ruin your life. The instinct toward sex goes along with other natural human instincts as well like taking a mate and raising a family, it will not stand on it's own. Find a man you can try to form a lasting relationship with before you go having sex.
You'll be sorry.
why will i be sorry?
Cuz you don't know what you're doing or why, and you're simply not ready. You'll see. And the texting thing is a giant fail. Basically you're just a warm place to put it for him - you get nothing out of it, but you'll have given away your virtue. A losing proposition.
Uh... do whatever feels natural and good, and do what he wants. And do what you want. And lie on your back and spread your legs. Pretty simple.
okay thank you
Where are your principals you're not even married yet and you act like you're very proud of doing this
im not acting like "im proud" im simply asking for help on something I've never done and it hasn't hurt anyone
You want to be a good Christian girl and remain a virgin for your future husband. Set a great example for your future kids and that comes after marriage 😊 👍
my grandpa is a pastor and he had sex before getting married same with my parents
Aren't you too young for this?
20 isn't too young
Why are you 20, and have a 15 year old bestie?
its my cousins friend and she found some family tree and we're all related and we are very close now
Dont forget a condom as the beginning is very important maybe u both could lose the control!
Ugh... in the absence of religion, there was nothing to stop the floodgates from being opened...
Tell me some part of you knows this is wrong
why is it wrong?
Pm me if u want a lecture its a lot of information and ur gunna fight me on it
Take flexible condoms.
neither of us can get condoms
You don’t know where he’s been.
You should be on the pill, and insist he wear condoms.
Good luck
Swallow, don't freak out if he cums to early, be creative and open to different things.
okay thank you
l would wait till l was dating a guy not just having sex with any one
Stop drop and roll
Good luck
thanks
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