I'm horny all the time. Help?

[Anonymous]

I'm a virgin I've never had sex before and I've never put anything in there. But I'm always so freaking horny I masterbate all the time but it's not enough. I need more. I don't know what to do. But I want to keep my virginity. Is there anyone else with the same problem?

[soneoak]

Well, when you're young, your hormones can fluctuate and really go into all out rage mode.

I too am the same (yeh I'm a guy, but girls are also usually very horny, if not more so sometimes).

The solution? Don't have sex, because in your current mindframe, it will really hurt you emotionally and it sounds like you're definitely not there yet to share sex with anyone.

What I suggest is cold showers, doing things that take your mind off it, focusing on work and family, etc. Being good friends (no sexual thingie yet) with GREAT guys (i mean great in terms of not only PERSONALITY, but also are attractive to you and are whom you can really trust to hold it in and care for your interests and always remember what you want even when you lose control. This means you have to find out enough about them that they also have the same challenges and desires as yourself), and if they are interested enough and so are you, you can date and do some stuff. =P (But for the sake of all things great, please respect yourself and think about your future husband and children, if you keep hopeful expectations, you WILL get that great guy in the end)

To me, it sounds like if you can find the boyfriend who would be willing to participate in mutual masturbation, but NEVER have penetrative sex with you until marriage or sometime much later, you would be really happy with him... and mind you, that is more difficult than finding a needle in a haystack nowadays, very few guys will have that self control, and if they lie, you're going to be hurt biiiig time because of THEM

This solution is for you and only you though, don't attempt to work this with other girls and make them think it works for everyone.

Asking you to be celibate and berrating you for it is not right because it doesn't acknowledge your difficulties. But asking you to do things that could hurt you for life is definitely not right either. Remember, solutions should fit YOU, just like how you should fit your solutions

[Akernar]

Ummm how many orgasm do you reach when you masturbate, If you do things rigth you can have more than one, and there are many things that you can do to change or expand the level of your orgasm.

Try new postures in your bed, shower, check in internet for new ways and stuff but at the end, if you get a good man that knwos what he is doing is going to be by far better.

Is not the same to du stuff by yourself than to have a good hand to help you out <P

[Asker]

I rub myself but never insert Anything. I have about 3-4 orgasms each time. And in the shower I use the shower head. But then later the same day in horny again! This is starting to get really annoying and I don't know how to stop it.

[Akernar]

there is no waranty that you will be satisfy by having a boy, because at the end an orgasm is an orgasm, so it could be a hormonal thing. then I recomend you to go to an specialist some times they can provide medicaments that can control that stuff but again it could be only in your head, is hard to be horny if your mind is not horny too. Keep an eye in yourself ans try to see if the problem is coming from your mind or your body. You migth be really curious about sex and thats keeping you like that.

[Asker]

Maybe. I'll go to a doctor or something. Thanks!

[Akernar]

thanks for the MHO n, n

[cristiana]

keep yourself busy... also you could buy a dildo to explore your vagina inside. the only "problem" is you're still a virgin. I found out that by having vaginal instead of clitoral orgasms I get much calmer after masturbating. There is much more relief if the orgasm is inside! at least for me...

[hrose2016]

I'm a virgin too but often find myself wanting to have sex. Its normal. As for the masterbating all the time... i dont know what to tell you other than get in a relationship. I'm not saying go have sex but if your in a relationship with a guy it will help neutralize some of those desires.

[SailorMars]

It's totally normal, maybe find some new ways to masturbate, maybe the way you're doing it now is getting predictable.

[Asker]

What other ways?

[SailorMars]

Check out orgasmictipsforgirls on tumblr. They have tons of tips for you to try

[Asker]

I will. Thanks much appreciated!

[why_not_anonymous]

You aren't going to keep it long if you've got desires like that.

Esp. not if you let a guy get his hands on you, since you'll be a willing accomplice.

[Meedo]

I think this is the 5th question with the same title i read today. Seems you have company.

[laidback]

same with me here. ha ha

[geraya-sansey]

take warme shower, and try to full your free time, avoide staying alone, if you spend free time alone sexual ideas comes to your mind; try to be busy all the time.
also it's good to practis some sport to use your energy in et healthy body and mind.

[ND4SPD31]

I have the same problem but I'm not a female and I'm not a virgin. Maybe u could get a guy just to do it for you and I'm not talking about full on sex.

[ronnie017]

OH YEAH U ARE NOT ALONE. IM A VIRGIN TOO. SO YEAH. I GETVTHE URGES TOO.

[anshuman11]

The best way is meditation and always keep yourself busy. Try it and you will be succeded its my guarantee.

[girladdict]

You said because of your religion. Can I ask what religion?

[Asker]

I'm a Muslim.

[Anonymous]

Lol. I'm a virgin and I have the same problem. Working days are ok, there are somethings to keep me busy. Holidays are worst. Then I decided to make a vow to just masturbate one per day. So it's pretty much ok now. When I get horny, I just refrain from the thought and think of the fun I could have later that day.

[Anonymous]

when i read the title... Story of my life

[Anonymous]

Virginity is an artificial concept. Once you have sex you don't lose half your leg afterwards. Just have sex if you're really that horny. It won't hurt you. People make topi big a deal over sex. It's just pleasure.

[Asker]

I can't have sex with anyone before marriage. Religious reasons. I would never do it. That's why I need something to help me until I'm married.

[Opinion Owner]

Well if you're so religious then you shouldn't be masturbating either, it's "immoral" to masturbate. Personally I don't think our god gives 2 shits about our genitalia. If he does then he's a huge perv.

[soneoak]

Maybe you should shut up and not give crappy 'advice'. You can really cause a lot of hurt and damage for your words. Just because you have a poor opinion of what you say doesn't mean that it really is so. What you say do matter idiot, so be responsible. As to asker, ignore his words for now, he didn't mean it this way. And he's still rather black and white in his understanding of things and doesn't divide the problem into its component parts. Masturbation is not a sin <-- no religious laws against it (i'm speaking on presumption you're reading the Bible or Quoran or something). However, adultery (sleeping with non spouse) is a sin, and immoral thoughts and behaviour although not a sin are considered unfavourable (because of its effects, but they are still not sin) But the concept of sin is different, go study more.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not just talking out of my ass, masturbation is a sin. The whole reason males get circumsized is because they thought it would lower the sensitivity and prevent masturbation. Even today, females are circumcized throughout africa for this same reason.

[Anonymous]

I could use some tips, too...