I’m horny but don’t know if this is a good idea?

I split up with this guy I was dating for three months.

we never had sec during that time because I wanted to get to know him.

we only broke up because I thought he wasn’t what I wanted long term but he fell pretty hard.

Now I’m in quarantine I am sooooo horny! I keep having dreams about having sex with this guy and I can’t get it out of my head. He lives 5 minutes from me. He keeps texting me telling me he loves me. Would it be so bad if I went and fucked him?
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Thanks for the advice everyone. I bashed one of and feel better. Won’t be going out in quarantine 😊
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Most Helpful Guys

  • We have needs as humans. I figure if you dated him you liked him and if you dated three months and he was happy with no sex or head he is probably a pretty good guy.

    I would say no there is nothing wrong with it. The thing is be honest about expectations. Last thing you want is a love sick puppy when its over. NOw he might put his head between your legs and lick you into total ectasy and change your mind. You also never mentioned really what the issue was.

  • It would hurt you and him to have sex. He wants to create a connection with you and keep you in his life. Your sexual frustration will subside once you get laid but you'll mess him up and that will upset you. It's easier for guys but if you rub one out it can help. Friends with benefits can be fun and helpful but shouldn't be done with a guy that is too emotionally invested to see sex with him as lust and not love

Most Helpful Girls

  • When you broke up with him he fell pretty hard you say.

    You'd be a very shitty person if you'd fuck him and then break up again. Think about how he would take it afterwards if you lead him on a second time.

    • Agreed it will just continue a cycle of confusion and toxic behaviour just for a nut

  • Girllll i totally get your frustration but its a shitty move to want him for sex only
    Trust me after sex you won't feel ok with yourself

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  • If you make sure that he understands it's only going to be casual and only because you're horny, I think you should text him, yes. He'll probably want the sex too

  • Your not allowed to. Lockdown laws... stay at home

    • We’re both on our own

  • yes it would be bad, not only will you be breaking the quarantine but you are breaking it cause you are horny, if you are gonna break it, at least do it for an emergency

  • Don't go out during quarantine! If you are that much horny then manage to enjoy things alone, or maybe you can have sext or something it would work

    • That's great and now i'm horny too.. lol.. looking for someone

    • Sorry! Just bash one out and you’ll feel better

    • Also don’t drink. If you’re anything like me that’ll make things worse horny ness wise

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  • when ur horny af and ur thinking about doing something that may or may not be retarded, don't take a chance, just fap and ur head will be clear

  • If you don't want anything other than sex with him and he agrees to a purely sexual relationship Ibwould put itcon the table, but it isn't really safe to leave your house in most places

  • Just go and fuck him you horny girl..

  • Yes it would be. Im in the same boat. Broke up with an ex 2 months ago and am horny af.

    Leave the ex in the past. He doesn't love you he is probs looking for a fast nut too. Don't go back into the cycle

    Trust me just rub one out and move on that is what im doing

    • Haha glad you took my advice. I know how you feel though being freshly single with a crazy high sex drive is brutal. Welcome to the club

  • First try not to break the lockdown protocol. Second you did the breakup with him so it's not good to ask him for it. And leave him again

    • Whom you bashed?

    • Self love

    • Hmmm don't worry just enjoy your company I am also enjoying all alone 😉 soon everything will be fine 🌹

  • If you tell this post to him, maybe he can come near you

  • Sounds like a lousy situation.

    • What you mean?

    • Having someone so close, but with everything going on makes it very difficult to do anything, even if it's something to relieve sexual frustration.

  • Jump on him and fuck him..

    • I am so going to end up doing this

    • You look like wild girl..