I’m insecure about my vagina, is [this] unattractive?

So I’m insecure about down there, I’m not at an age to lose my virginity yet but I’m worried for when it’ll come, the labia (flabby bit) is a little long and it kind of sticks out and I’m really insecure guys will find this unattractive and like I’m tight and all but I’m still really worried, honest opinions please?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It makes me so sad that young girls have this perception of a perfect vagina or that theirs isn’t adequate. I’m betting you’ve most likely got this image of neatly tucked in labia and are wondering why yours aren’t like that? Labia come in all sorts of different shapes and sizes and you’ll find that most women are like you and don’t have tiny labia - in other words the most common used image of a vagina is the least common in actual women... I’m the same as you and guys have never turned down sex or said they don’t like the look of it ( imagine how immature that would sound). Unfortunately , you may find this in teens occasionally as all they have to reference is porn but as they get older they realise that pussy is pussy. Don’t worry ! You’re perfectly normal and no guy who is mature enough to have sex will think any less of you.

  • There's actually two sets of labium. One is inside and the other sticks out. You're talking about the labia majora. They're there for a reason. It's completely normal to have them.

Most Helpful Guys

  • That's actually pretty common and nothing to worry about. Also, guys really aren't as picky as you might be thinking.

    If you're naked and ready to have sex with a guy, I can almost guarantee you that he's not going to be worried about the exact length or shape of your labia.

    Based on the questions I've seen on here, if he's worried about the size or shape of sexual parts at all, it's going to be his he's worried about and not yours.

  • This is one of the most common worries of girls when it relates to their vaginas and it is very rarely ever a problem. The vast majority of girls are entirely within the range of normal down there. Only the tiny minority would ever be legitimate candidates for labiaplasty.

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  • You have nothing to worry about. Vagina are all different shapes and sizes. Besides both male and female parts are both pretty odd looking. Don’t worry about it.

  • Nothing wrong with your vagina, but some guys are idiots when it comes to anatomy.

  • A lot of girls worry about this, and it's honestly nothing to worry about. If you haven't already, go look at some pictures; you'll see it is very common, so it's quite normal and there is certainly nothing wrong with you.

    And I don't know of any guy who finds it unattractive!

  • Your vulva is perfectly normal. Approximately half of all girls have inner labia that show through the outer labia. There's nothing at all wrong with that. My personal preference when it comes to the appearance of the vulva is for those with inner labia like yours.

  • I can't believe no one has said "let's have a look at that flapper gapper" or something derogatory.
    I'm impressed with the gag community. Lol

    • Flapper gapper, lmao. Stealing that.

  • I love long meaty labia, it's so nice to lick and suck on during oral sex and I think most guys would agree. Sounds like you have a perfect looking pussy!

  • How many times does this question arise on GAG?
    Please please don't feel insecure... what you describe is okay... labia and vulva's are all unique, as the individual is unique... in other words, there is no 'normal'... accept yourself for who you are, and if any future boyfriend is 'put off', or doesn't accept you for who you are, then they are not deserving of your attention...

  • Thats more attractive to me than the clam.

  • If we're getting sex we don't care! Be safe!

  • all vaginas are weird looking and have flabby bits

  • Trust me, you are far more concerned about the appearance of your labia than any guy will ever be. Try to relax. It's not an issue for guys.

  • If you're 18-24 years old, you're definitely at an age to lose your virginity. As for large inner labia, they are very attractive.

  • Don't worry about a thing Hon. There are all kinds of vaginas. You will have trouble keeping your pussy free of mens mouths who will want to investigate. Your being tight is a plus because the man will feel yur pussy tight on his cock and make you both cum harder.

  • When had sex nobody care about that really.

  • If he is a real man he’d probably love it and suck on it tbh.

  • It’s totally fine! Don’t worry that!

  • Like an old female hound dog's that has had about 10 litters of puppies.