I'm insecure about my vagina?

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My vagina is normal when you first look at it, but when I open the lips there is a little meaty part hanging and it doesn't look sexy. I feel so worried about having sexy only because of that. Im generally very horny and I can not help getting horny but feeling conscious about my vagina doesn't let me have sex just the way I want. How can I cope with that feeling? I want to feel confident and have sex whenever I want without worrying if my partner is gonna be disgusted or not.

erandal · Accepted Answer

I have said it many times on GAG but "We are all built a little bit differently".

It is probably the clioris at the top or labia on the side. Both are frequently of different sizes. I have seen photos of clitoris that are so big they look like a small penis and some girls (my baby sister was one) who's inner labia protruded for a good 2cm outside of her outer labia even when she wasn't horny. In short it sounds normal and any normal man will love you for it.

SweetHomicidalQueen · Accepted Answer

It's completely normal! All vaginas look different so don't worry. If they're worth having sex with, then they won't care at all how you look down there. Just make sure you keep yourself clean and shaven down there and you'll be good to go.

littleflower7 · Accepted Answer

dont worry about it, i have it too and used to worry. waste of time. when you have sex, if he is the right guy he won't care and won't feel disgusted at all. I worried for months before showing mine to by boyfriend and he was totally cool with it, didn't care, still together after a year and he goes down on me without caring about it at all. if one guy criticize, he's not mature enough, find someone else.

Goforit1010 · Accepted Answer

In all honesty, the fact you HAVE a vagina is waaaaayyy more than enough for 99.999999% of all guys! I wouldn't be the least bit concerned. I've been with a woman whose inner lips were like yours. Absolutely ZERO issues or problems. She and I had no issues whatsoever about her lady parts. And she was able to orgasm beautifully!

MadeInAmerica · Accepted Answer

Men don't do top shelf inspections when it comes to the vagina. As long as it's wet, clean and healthy we will dive in it dick or tongue first

ShaunaM95 · Answer

That is completely normal. That's the way all vagina's are structured. You have no need to worry.

BuchitaBuchys · Answer

As long as it's not a blue waffle, you should be fine.

Sara413 · Answer

Worry not - a vagina is a vagina... they don't exist to look pretty, they exist to feel good.9
99.9% of guys don't give half a shit what it looks like, and that other 0.01% are dick bags and not worth your time.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

What you are describing sounds rather normal. You know, everyone goes around with secret fears that they are "different" than everyone else. The fact that you have such concerns only helps to establish that you are, in fact, normal.

dogbert444 · Answer

Are you sure this isn't your clit? If so, it's normal and hot! My guess is you are worrying about nothing. There are billions of different shapes. Every lady is different. None of them are ugly, and all are hot!!

madhatters4 · Answer

i've never closely inspected a vagina and my gut feeling is most guys haven't. so don't worry about it

popsickle · Answer

Sounds normal, girl... of course it's sexy. The whole spectrum of normal and healthy is was made to be erotic. Everybody is unique, and private areas are only meant for a VERY select few to see.. all of whom care a lot about you. Don't pay too much attention to people announcing their preferences and making crude jokes... it's all talk that means very little in reality. Sex is for you to enjoy too, so wear some confidence and he will love it and you.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Well first of all, when you do have sex be sure you are well protected with birth control. That being said, don't worry about how your vagina looks. They all look different and what you are describing sounds normal anyway. Don't worry about it at all!

CœurRosé · Answer

Vulvas come in all different shapes and sizes. The "little meaty part" is your inner labia, and it's perfectly normal to be longer than your outer labia. Trust me when I say this - guys really couldn't care less about what it looks like. As long as it's well-lubricated, clean and infection-free, you have nothing to worry about.

godfatherfan · Answer

Only women want to look at women parts and try and judge them like a man.
You can't judge if your parts are sexy or not. They are... period.
I mean a penis is nasty looking. But women seem to like them. SO I don't look at mine and go "gross, not having sex with that thing".
vaginas are awesome, they all are basically the same. Sure some are a little prettier then others but as we men say... its all pink in the middle...

ThisDudeHere · Answer

You... do realize that... most guys couldn't give fuck about that?

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

most guys are happy to be having sex they won't give a shit

TadCurious · Answer

Your vagina (I know you really mean your vulva but whatev) is perfectly normal. A lot of girls on GAG have asked questions similar to yours: Is my "vagina" normal? Will guys be turned off by it? What you're describing when you open your outer labia is your inner labia. As with your outer labia and clitoral hood those are as unique to every girl as a snowflake is unique. There's no one way they're supposed to look. The inner labia can be hidden inside the outer labia when the girl is not spreading herself, or they can show through the outer labia. Both ways are normal. The inner labia can be kind of wrinkly and curved, and not perfectly symmetric. That is normal. The labia (both outer and inner) are also normally somewhat darker than the surrounding skin tone. All of this is to say that you're vagina is normal and any guy you have sex with is going to love it just the way it is.

AliceVel5 · Answer

because you think it doesn't look sexy, it doesn't mean that a guy will think that.

oldanddecrepid · Answer

Don't worry... we like em meaty!

Prof_Don · Answer

OMG you girls worry too much about thing guys don't care about! :)

cinderelli · Answer

you're over thinking about it.. seriously guys don't give a shit..

Anpu23 · Answer

Do not worry, I honestly can't see a guy freaking out about it. Most guys are just glad to be able to see it.

archiz · Answer

lol I cut my vagina recently too so it looks scared xD I feel you hahaha

Jaden69 · Answer

them beef curtains huh. It depends on the guy, I personally wouldn't care.

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