I'm insecure about my vagina?

My vagina is normal when you first look at it, but when I open the lips there is a little meaty part hanging and it doesn't look sexy. I feel so worried about having sexy only because of that. Im generally very horny and I can not help getting horny but feeling conscious about my vagina doesn't let me have sex just the way I want. How can I cope with that feeling? I want to feel confident and have sex whenever I want without worrying if my partner is gonna be disgusted or not.
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  • it's fine, that's normal and common. 99% of guys don't care. The few who do are twisted from watching too much porn and are not worth your worry.

  • It's absolutely normal. What are you comparing it to?

  • I'm actually a gynecologist ;)

  • hey if im ok with having a smack dick you should be ok with having your vagina

  • Your VAG looks what it is supposed to look like xD it's called labia minora.

  • I will be honest here and pardon me for the slightly nsfw nature of my comments. I am a guy that likes nig meaty lips, it's more to suck on. Most guys don't care as long as your clean, and tasty. And what the other guys say is true they never really inspect it that much, that just like the fact that you're lettin them touch it...

    Again so sorry about the comments, just wanted to be truthful

  • Average guys dont care... so dont be insecure!

    • Why average? That's the sad part

    • I mean most...(not the looks or the intelligence or any kind of human rating...)

  • It's normal. Very common.

  • Would have to see it to know what your issue is

  • You can't control that and it is no big deal anyway. Those bits are just more to nibble on when im south of the border.

  • They come in all shapes and sizes, and very few are the best, cleanly shaven ones you see in porn! Anyone who has had sex in the real world would not judge you much for it, only idiots with unrealistic expectations!

    Your vagina is a wonderful thing, that can make you feel amazing! Embrace it!

  • "I worry so much about my vagina... therefore I must bust the balls of thousands of men in a forum... I don't know it looks weirs and it smells... what do I do? How can I cope? It looks so weird..."

  • I still don't understand this because girls are insecure about what their vagina looks like and I honestly would love it the way you described like I think it's not so much how it looks as how you perceive it I mean you don't sound very happy about something that probably driver guys wild and as long as you're healthy and clean down there it shouldn't matter you don't know what your guy is thinking or how he feels about how you look down there but I'min the heat of the moment when he's going down on you enthusiastically and you're enjoying yourself you can relax because he obviously really loves every part of your body

    my point is until you know for sure then don't worry about it and stop looking at your vagina in the mirror because you'll never see the same thing as the guy you're being intimate with

  • have sex with the lights off

  • Gross.

    • Found the douchebag! Lol

    • @Sara413 I keep forgetting to lie for the sake of your feelings.

    • My feelings are fine, thanks.

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  • Do you mean when you open the outer lips? The inner lips can hang, and it's very sexy.

    • Yes, but only one of them hangs and it's asymmetrical. Not so sexy.

    • My girlfriend is like that, and I find her incredibly sexy and arousing.

    • People are asymmetrical in general. Very few people are perfectly even. My ears don't line up 100%. One eye is slightly higher than the other. It gives me character, just like your vulva gives you character. No other woman on earth is identical to you, so own it!

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  • No one cares. Seriously.

  • It sounds normal. You know how guys annoy girls with the lenis question and you assure us that we're fine? Same here. you're FINE. Be thankful that you're healthy and go get some D🍆

    • Hahaha alright thank you so much

    • Lol np

  • At your age a guys gonna be happy just having the privilege to see it.

  • We REALLY don't give a shit, lol. It's not supposed to look like a Monet piece, it's just supposed to feel like sticking our dick in unicorn glitter, laced with ecstasy.

    • Good answer😂 Lol

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