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I’m intentionally a 26 y/o virgin. Change my mind?

So friends have ragged on me for years about taking my faith so seriously, saying things like “you need to get laid” and “c’mon man! Lose that v-card already” since I was in like 7th grade.

I’ve never understood why it’s so important to other people that I join them in what I believe to be sin. Nor have I ever actually heard a good argument in favor of doing so. So here’s a chance to explain to someone who might just be totally dense why having sex/sexual relations with someone outside of marriage is a good idea. Let’s hear it!
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  • Your awesome man! I don’t think it’s worth it at all. I will wait for my future wife. To me it is a respect thing to her. I think that if I want a high quality woman I will have to wait for her. If you want a whore they are a dime a dozen and not worth spending the rest of your life with.

    • True enough! Thanks.

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  • You should, because your dumb—as is soon gonna age and you won’t make as much sperm as you do now. In your 30’s you make less sperm and less healthy sperm.

    Also, you might have a MICRO-PEEN.
    And obviously you don’t want no woman to see that. Just come out to your friends and tell them about your CRAYON PENIS.

    • 😂 I’m no liar.

  • No need to change your mind. I respect your decision.

    • Thanks! Still, I would like to know why people get so hung up on it. Like, why is sex so important to so many people to the point that they would risk so much of their future for a few minutes of fun. And what’s more, why is it so important to them that others do so as well? I hope you don’t mind my asking you. I couldn’t help but notice your user name and thought you might have some insight on the matter. Lol

    • Society works in fucked up ways. A relationship equals success. A well paying job equals success. Sex equals success. They're all people who think that is the truth and they forget to think for themselves or forget that everyone has their on view on what's success or happiness.

    • their own view*

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  • Why would I change your mind on a decission you took yourself that doesn't harm anybody? Do what you want to.

    • Because maybe I’m wrong? Maybe there’s something I haven’t considered? Who knows why you would. Really though, I was trying to get the attention of those people who feel strongly against what I feel is right. So when you say that I should do what I want, I’ll respond by saying if you don’t want to change my mind, don’t try. Thanks for responding all the same though. Have a good one!

  • Don't let social pressure change your beliefs. I don't have the same beliefs as you, obviously, but peers shouldn't change that!

    • Well I’m not exactly sure how I would know your beliefs aren’t the same as mine. Still, God loves you even if you don’t believe in Him right now. You should say hello sometime. I know He’d like that. And thanks for your candor. I appreciate it.

  • have sex if you want, don't have sex if you don't want to - do whatever you want (legally and with consent obviously...) i definitely don't view sex outside of marriage as a sin, there are bigger problems in the world i personally find, so think what you like as long as it's not judgmental or hypocritical

    • Can I ask you a question

    • @ManhattanMan1212 Yes, please do.

    • @DaisyM23 It is a sin. And the reason it is so bad is because of the effect it has on society. Sex outside of marriage has resulted in whole generations of fatherless or motherless children. Raised with no moral groundwork, these individuals have gone on to do all manner of sins including more fornication. Basically, we allowed our country to fall away from God’s good graces and now we wonder why we are in the bad place we are in. “Where have all the good men gone?” We practically stopped making those 60 years ago. Those that are here are “friend zoned” for acting properly and completely ignored. Instead, promiscuous women choose to reproduce with worthless men, making yet another lost generation that has no problem doing whatever they want whenever they want. And the cycle continues.

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  • It’s your life, you decisions.

    however remember Asexuality is a thing.

    What happens when you marry someone who is Asexual or possibly you are Asexual.

    there is also sexual compatibility, this is also a reason for divorce.

    Lack of love and affection
    Lack of sexual intercourse

    it’s your choice and your decision, however in life we need to be aware of risks associated with decisions.

    • I feel like you’d know if someone is asexual way before you actually marry them. And again, marriage is a commitment. In Christian Matrimony, the husband and wife have a responsibility to fulfill each other sexually. Again, I’m sure it wouldn’t get as far as marriage if one or the other was asexual.

    • You would not, people at times do not realise until they have sex, try to etc. It’s a sliding scale

  • Keep the best for last

    • What do you mean?

    • Keep the virginity for the perfect time on ur first night w ur wife after wedding party

    • Yeah, that’s the plan.

  • Why do what u want lol

    • I don’t understand.

    • Its irrelevant what anyone else thinks as long you are doing what u want and happy

    • Well, I am happy in some ways. I imagine I’d really enjoy having a girlfriend though. lol. Still, I don’t plan on sacrificing my morals for it.

  • Why should I change your mind? You should do what you want, not what some random unknown stranger on a website says.

  • I think you should stay true to your beliefs. My experience is that waiting until marriage does not guarantee all will be well in the marriage. Read up on personality disorders and be on the lookout for signs of them. The problems get way worse once the relationship is physically intimate, and if you’re married before then it’s very difficult and costly to get out.

    • I appreciate your candor. You do make an excellent point. I will say this however. The kind of biblical marriage I’m looking for is one in which both parties understand the nature of the connection they’ve made. That it is a personal commitment and responsibility to work things out no matter what happens. In such a relationship, sex would be just the icing on the cake. Furthermore, in the relationship I’m talking about, there is no getting out. That is it. That is all. Until death parts us.

  • Do whatever you want, man.

  • Do what you want

    • I want to please God with the way I live my life.

    • Then do that.

  • You do you, not what someone else says you should. If you feel it is right then do not do it. If you have doubts ask some one you trust for help

  • Do you bro, we're all praying for you. Being your own man is very admirable.

  • You run your life not them

  • don't let a bunch of horny apes rules by their brain stem tell you what you should and should not be doing

  • It’s no big deal, just experience it, you may never get married so why wait for that, you might not ever meet anyone so it might be longer and most women don’t wait either but can hold out longer, they usually have less sex after marriage so you’ll really be missing it then, you’ll get much more before marriage, ask any married guy

  • Marriage only benefits women... any guy who gets married is a chump fool.
    If you wait until marriage to get laid, not only are you missing out on fun pussy, you are going to lock yourself into a legal trap where you get one worn out expired vagina that now is entitled to half or more of everything you own, including your kids when they leave, which is an 80% guarantee even if you think otherwise, since almost all divorces are initiated by females (because they have the illusion of choice, and have perpetual grass is greener syndrome)

    • Well, someone’s been watching Better Bachelor! lol Listen, I’m not talking about the American governments version of marriage. I’m talking about God’s version of marriage. And as someone who can’t have sex or a family without marriage, my hands are tied. Besides, if you bang someone and get them locked up, You still have to help pay for them.

    • I have never head of “better bachelor”... i simply have eyes.

  • Having sex with someone who you won’t stay with is kind of bad in a lot of ways…but sometimes a man gets too curious

    • Or horny. In my mind, God made men and women to hit puberty at 12 and 13 for a reason. Now to be clear, I am not into that pedo crap. I’m simply saying that if the body is capable of reproduction at 15 and 16 years old, you’re not really supposed to wait until year 40 to have children. I think societally enforced concepts have done more harm than good in some ways.

    • Yeah well we grow up too slowly in today’s society. We are coddled and basically kept at an adolescent stage for about twice as long as we should be, and tbh with bit daddy government even longer

    • I know! They’ve got nine-year-old boat captains on rivers in Africa. Meanwhile, we are twice that old before we’re considered an adult. The shameful thing is that I knew exactly what I wanted and what I was willing to do for it when I was 13. I am now twice that age, and I’m still waiting on most women my age to mature enough to want a family. Ain’t that a kick in though you-know-whats?

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