I’m interesting in exploring anal play but not sure where to start. Any advice?

[Anonymous]

Hello! This may be an awkward question, but the guy I’ve been hooking up with was suggestive with the idea of doing anal (not while the virus is occurring of course...). After reading up on it a little more I noticed that there’s a lot more to it than I thought to actually be prepared for it, such as anal training, lots of lube, etc etc. I was just wondering if anybody has any suggestions on where to purchase the best products? Actual advice so I don’t tear my butthole? Any words of wisdom help :’)

[purplepoppy]

I'd buy a penis shaped real feel dildo that's about 2/3 the girth of your boyfriend's penis. You want one that's got some flexibility in it and not a hard solid one. (A thick carrot thats lost it's crunch is ideal) don't worry about length, when it comes to anal it's girth that hurts. Before you even get it practice opening and closing your sphincter. Simply lie in position and push it out like your trying to take a dump. If you use a mirror you'll see it extend and open. The sphincter is a fickle beast one day it's relaxed and opens wide other days you couldn't put a little finger in. Get to know your body is if it says no not today don't push it, try again another time.

[Kinky_Daddy_Henry]

I'm very experienced in introducing anal to young submissives. The best advice I can give you is to start small and start slow. Don't just rush into it. Additionally, try it out yourself first. I suggest lube. If you don't have toys there are hundreds of things around the house that you can convert into pervertables. Please feel free to message with questions.

[Asker]

The only main question I do have is where would I find the best/cheapest stuff online? I already looked some of it up but there no many prices and options that I’m not really sure what the best one would be

[Kinky_Daddy_Henry]

That would depend on where you are and what your budget is. I usually just use amazon. There is a local kink shop I trust for more involved toys, or anything regarding impact play. However, Amazon is usually a pretty easy way to secure what you want quickly.

[AustinMan]

AstroGlide gel is the best lube. Is this helpful?

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[Asker]

Oh yes, thank you!!

[bangyourhead]

Coconut oil or silicone lube and a finger are all you need to get started.

[oldermale]

Go to local adult sex shop and get a douche, lube etc. Just go slow at first

[Asker]

Are there any good places online where I can get this sort of stuff? Just with the virus going on and all the shops around my area are completely closed

[oldermale]

Oh yeah, sure are online shops, just Google to see whats available to you

[oldermale]

Get water based lube too.

[andrermm]

Just start eith fingers or small toys. Plugs

[Steve37]

Start with some play using fingers or small toys before you move to full on anal. This will help you relax and get used to the feeling a bit before you take him inside.

[Twalli]

Just have him use fingers a lot in the weeks leading up to it. Once 3 fingers are easy for you his penis won't be a huge issue for you. It will go in deeper, but will exert less stretching on your ashole.

[andy530]

Start with a finger and lube and then move to larger toys such as plugs

[Anonymous]

You need to cum first, your anus will then feels relax, start using your own natural lube in and around your anus, before you start guiding and easing his cock in by rubbing the tip first on the entrance ensuring he is rock hard as he starts to go in.

[Anonymous]

go slow, lots of lube, I just started with fingers then vibrators and plugs, lesbian so had strapons and fisting by my girlfriend but never a real guy in there so not sure how different that will be