I'm into Exhibitionism

Exhibitionism is commonly listed among the top-ten fantasies for men, women, and couples. It is certainly one of mine. My cursory exploration of this kink revealed psychological underpinnings that ranged from playful, non-threatening behaviors.

Many of us may have a bit of an exhibitionist streak running through us. Me, myself, have worn something that accentuates my curves, reveals a bit of cleavage, or is in someway more revealing than what I wear in my day-to-day life.

want me to go further?
want me to go further?

Considering my photo above, there are circumstances where I could be wearing far less and it would be seen as more socially acceptable.

Wearing our clothes in a revealing way is one form of exhibitionism. On another level, individuals experience exhibitionism through nudity and self-pleasuring or as a couple through nudity and sex when others may be watching. Do you find yourself aroused thinking about being intimate with your lover in a public space where you may be seen or “caught”? This is one of the most common fantasies couples have and the one most often made a reality.

will you let me ride you?
will you let me ride you?

Some exhibitionist find great pleasure in the potential for arousing the viewer. Sex with the viewer isn’t necessarily the objective. Rather, the exhibitionist finds it hot knowing that someone may not only be watching but also getting turned on. This aspect resonates deeply within me and makes up a big part of what I often refer to as the “erotic swirl” and “mind fuck” in my writing.

Moreover, I typically write them in the present tense so you have the sensation of being in the room as a voyeur as the moment unfolds. I want you to feel it…I want to turn you on. Your excitement turns me on and we both become immersed in an erotic swirl.

What would make someone an exhibitionist?

If you’re curious if you are an exhibitionist, here are some things that could mean you enjoy this type of kink.
You love...

  • Sharing nude photos with your partner while they’re at work.
  • Encouraging your partner to go shopping for lingerie with you.
  • Engaging in public sex where you could potentially be caught
  • Engaging in public sex at a sex club where watching is encouraged.
  • Inviting a third person over to watch you have sex and/or masturbate.
tell me what you see
tell me what you see

For me, I haven't done much as an exhibitionist or to full fill my fantasies, for now what I had done was just taking videos for pictures of myself, or masturbating in front of my windows. I did try anonymous camming once but i found it to be a little risky lol.

Spread the love ;)
Spread the love ;)

Anyway, I wrote this mytake not only just to state myself for people who dont understand, but also to help other who are still lost like i was in the past!

Thank you for understanding!

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  • Luna I think you are a good grown girl. You can choose to go further and I think using exhibition can help you master the art of seduction as well.
    Your body is pretty good and ideal for guys to make love and let you ride

  • Nice write up! I enjoyed your POV of who and where you are.
    I might of missed it, but how did you find yourself? Someone or thing open the door or did you just work things out?

    I also enjoyed your Yoni massage mytake and I hope you get to try that sometime soon.
    I've been giving my friends with benefits that- or my version of- for about a month and she loves it.
    Recommended!

    • Thank you! and yes i kinda figured out myself through eroticas and some manga lol

    • Do you read or watch hentai? 😈 Anyway, I think your photos are good. I hope you'll post more soon... or send some my way! (^.~)

    • I mainly read

  • I think its fun and sexy... and can be a great way to meet people

  • I definitely do some exhibitionism. I have massive windows for my backyard and my desk is placed right next to it. Whenever i masturbate, i'll just cover my genitals so i don't get into big trouble, but the rest of my body is visible. The thought of exposing myself like that is quite a massive turn on for me.

    Thanks for being a fellow buddy :D

    • Also, forgot to say, those photos look great. I would love to come across you in public, would let you ride me any day

  • You look delicious, sweetheart. I'm fully hard right now, if you want to know

  • I like the same things you like. I like experiencing sexually.

  • Yes indeed you are Luna, and we love you for it. :)

  • lucky for you, I'm a voyeur.

  • I think I do this too, always seek out women who will watch me ejaculate or just see my penis, an homely I have a lot of big windows in my house and sometimes I just stay naked in Hope's they may see or like lol no sex, I thought it was just a weird thing. I just watch out for any kids outside, so I guess I'm I. The category?

  • Yes, you make a photo come alive with your body. Do you do it proper in porn?

    • Im not in any porn 😅

    • You look so natural extremely sexy

    • Thank you

  • Where's@DizzyDesii? She'd get a kick outta this...

  • Ok thanks for the show and tell.

  • Nothing wrong with showing off your body as long as it isn't around young kids. If I was a young teen and I saw you in public showing off your body I might not resist unzipping my pants and masturbating to you.

    What are your thoughts on the reactions you may get?

  • Most exhibitionists are down to sext or are easy (so am I fyi, not a diss) so I love 'em lol.

  • yes I feel there is nothing wrong with showing off one's body. Nice sharing the beauty of the body

  • That's honestly disgusting and you should be aware of the exhibition laws or you will end up in slammer where perverts like you belong

    • Exhibitionism is only bad if they do it in public spaces where it is illegal (it's just called indecent exposure for crime). I'm sure there are events for people who are exhibitionists and voyeurs, as those 2 kinks complement each other pretty well. But yes, there are adults who would consent to seeing someone masturbate and exposing themselves to those watching. Sometimes it may even just be in front of people they know (done in private of course). There's also anonymously too. But just like she said it could feel risky.

  • Pretty much every girl on GAG is into exhibitionism. Just look at their profile photos.

  • Thanks for explaining all of this! I think it's helpful so that people, including myself, know that revealing picture is not just a desire for attention, that there might be more behind it. this was very insightful and detailed, good job!

  • Whoa...
    Are you still an exhibitionist if you want to show off your lovemaking to others to watch? Say on PH?

    • What the "whoa..." supposed to mean 😂 sorry if i hurt your eyes

    • No. I was simply caught off guard.

    • Lol i guess thats a compliment

  • Really nice photos.

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